Chai And A Chat #191 #ChaiAndAChat

Good morning, my Peeps! One week down for Term 6 and 5.4 left! (Is it bad that I am already counting the days until the summer break?) I don’t want it to go too fast, as I will miss this class, but there is also so much to do!

Right, so I have my cup of chai. You got yours?

  • If we were having chai, I’d tell you that school was HECTIC! There is always a lot to do, but this term is filled with assessments and data collections, as well as preparing the children for the next year, including our admin that needs doing, and, on top of that, I have to get the class lists ready for next year. This week also had the dreaded meetings for staff so they know where they are going to be based the next academic year, which can be a stress for some, but being as I am the Phase Leader in my department, I ain’t going nowhere, y’all!
  • If we were having chai, I’d say that, as usual, cricket featured heavily on the weekend, as it always does, and Lil Man and his team won their match at a very picturesque ground on Saturday!
  • If we were having chai, I’d mention that Lil Princess was in her element this weekend, and she baked some cookies which turned out HUGE, but they were delicious, too!
  • If we were having chai, I would have to mention Sunday being Fathers Day, too. Obviously, I couldn’t be with Pops, but my in-laws came over for lunch, and we had a great family afternoon. It had rained a lot overnight, but the afternoon was pleasant with a breeze blowing!
  • If we were having chai, I’d whisper that I am convinced I am now in the throes of peri-menopause. Lots of little things are happening, including weight gain, headaches, and hot flashes are starting, but the most concerning sign recently is my forgetfulness! Seriously, I kid you not. The other day, I asked my daughter the name of a friend of hers and forgot it within a minute. I had to ask her again and still nearly forgot it. It was only after repeating it in my mind for a while that I kept it in my head! Then I asked her another question which I had already asked, to her frustration! The biggest thing I did, was that I forgot which fuel my car takes! (I also learned something new during this time of frustration, but boy was I embarrassed!) I went to the pump, undid the cap and such the nozzle in. but it wouldn’t go in. A stubborn metal bar was blocking it. I started the car and stopped it, thinking there was a silly fault. I even got a man from the next pump to check, to no avail. I thought I was never going to get the car filled! The man suggested I ask the staff at the pump, and a very helpful lady came to assist. After looking, she kindly pointed out that I was trying to add unleaded fuel to my diesel car! And the metal bar was a safety thing newer cars have now to prevent said mishap from occurring! Who knew? Well, I certainly didn’t, but I do now, and aren’t I glad because I could have totally buggered up my engine with the wrong fuel! And the forgetfulness doesn’t end there. I also forgot where my car was parked in the supermarket carpark! Thank goodness Lil Princess was with me! She just went to the car and waited while I turned around from my search for the elusive car to see where she was standing! Honestly, this is not good!
  • If we were having chai, I would end, as always, with Sonu Singh. Look at him being all cute and cuddly… but I wasn’t best pleased with this kitty as the ‘feed me’ refrains started at 4.30am on Saturday morning, then 5am on Sunday! Thank you for ensuring that I am knackered by 7pm every night, Sonu Singh! It’s a good thing I love you!

This week, we have children’s dental checkups at school, as well as staff in and out over the week for various reasons… Lil Man has possibly two matches which he is thrilled about, but I am a little warier, as that is me doing the driving around! Lil Princess has her first set of mock exams in preparation for GCSEs starting next hear! Wish her luck!

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29 Comments (+add yours?)

  1. robbiesinspiration
    Jun 25, 2022 @ 06:44:57

    HI Ritu, it’s always great to catch up on your busy life. Good luck with the next few weeks.

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  2. Rae Longest
    Jun 23, 2022 @ 14:52:58

    Didn’t get to this until Thursday morning, but I enjoyed it with my Korean coffee. I always like to hear what you are up to.

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  3. You Can Always Start Now
    Jun 22, 2022 @ 19:04:01

    My sister says re: menopauses that you get your memory back.

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  4. Erika
    Jun 20, 2022 @ 16:58:59

    Regarding menopause, in case you do suffer from some side effects, I’d have a tip for you. It is as effective as harmless… only excellent results.

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    • Ritu
      Jun 20, 2022 @ 19:03:08

      I’ll take any tip, Sis!!!

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      • Erika
        Jun 20, 2022 @ 20:57:14

        For almost a year now, I take bioidentical hormones. Those are NOT artificial hormones. The “hormones” are actually a plant (yam root). The structure of that plant is identical (not similar but comletely identical) with the human hormone structure. That’s why there is no risk on cancer. Due to blood tests, the exact dosage can be defined and constantly adjusted to balance the hormones again. I had massive mental problems, restlessness, sleep disorders, anxiety, nervousness, and sudden panic attacks out of the blue (several a day). I have not had a single one for the past 9 months. No single hot flush for the past 9 months. And I noticed a lot of other things that balanced again without me noticing they were out of balance before.
        So, what you need, is finding a doctor who is working with those bioidentical horomons. I would give it ago. You don’t risk anything!

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      • Ritu
        Jun 20, 2022 @ 20:59:07

        Ill have to.look into this, Sis! Thank you xx

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      • Erika
        Jun 20, 2022 @ 21:00:25

        Check it out! I know a lot of women meanwhile who tried it and don’t ever want to be with it anymore (including me).

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      • Ritu
        Jun 20, 2022 @ 21:09:01

        🤗🤗🤗

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  5. willowdot21
    Jun 20, 2022 @ 14:57:26

    Good luck little princess, play well little man !
    Sis try not to worry about the pre menaupause , worrying only examinatrs them ! Love you 💜

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  6. Annette Rochelle Aben
    Jun 20, 2022 @ 11:44:04

    Mental Pause! Ah yes, I remember it well!! Or wait. do I? ❤

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  7. SC Skillman
    Jun 20, 2022 @ 09:31:19

    I can identify with some of this, Ritu (esp nearly forgetting where I parked my car in the supermarket car park). I now have various techniques for focusing on things and imprinting them on my mind before I drift off and then later forget where on earth I left them. Please don’t forget your plot and characters and story arc as you write your sequel to ‘Marriage Unarranged’!! (Perhaps, like me, keep plenty of notes and working plans…)! I also print out a lot of things on A4 and stick identifying post-it notes on them. (I don’t waste paper though – print on the back of already used sheets, and shred them later for recycling).

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  9. Words on Paper
    Jun 20, 2022 @ 08:47:07

    Forgetfulness is now a way of life in our house, what with two of us doing it!
    We have found that the best way to handle it is to make it funny!

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  10. OIKOS™- Art, Books & more
    Jun 20, 2022 @ 08:42:17

    LilPrincess has produced great cookies. I really love the size. You can grab one, and do not be challenged getting another one, during enjoying the first.;-) Best wishes to both of the youngsters. I think they will make it best. Now, go on collecting data about your pupils, and do not forget the GDPR, Sis! Lol Best wishes, Michael

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  11. OIKOS™- Art, Books & more
    Jun 20, 2022 @ 08:38:23

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  12. Sadje
    Jun 20, 2022 @ 06:03:31

    All the best to both of them. Have a good week.

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