Be the bigger person peeps, know you are the better one too, by walking away.
I often tell my pupils, when they are little and whinging about someone being silly towards them, “Ignore them, don’t let them know they are affecting you. It will sink in that they are not important enough to affect you soon enough, then they will stop too.”
I have often had to tell my own children too. I want them to learn to pick their battles, and realise some are just not worth fighting. Be the bigger person, and walk on to better things.
Have a wonderful Wednesday Peeps!
Fourth Generation Farmgirl
May 25, 2017 @ 19:23:53
Great advice, Ritu. Your post is an excellent reminder!
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Ritu
May 25, 2017 @ 19:24:42
It’s an important lesson to learn xxx
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Fourth Generation Farmgirl
May 25, 2017 @ 19:53:01
Definitely! 🙂
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May 19, 2017 @ 21:27:00
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charliekeinth
May 19, 2017 @ 22:29:01
Thank you! 😘
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riffatwajidblogs
May 17, 2017 @ 21:31:35
Nice words
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Ritu
May 17, 2017 @ 21:34:36
Thank you 😊
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willowdot21
May 17, 2017 @ 13:05:10
Excellent advice Sis my Mum always said the same 🤗💖
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Ritu
May 17, 2017 @ 16:31:20
💗💗💗
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girlandworld
May 17, 2017 @ 12:36:20
Wednesday wisdom broaden my horizon
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Ritu
May 17, 2017 @ 12:56:34
😊😊😊
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Book Club Mom
May 17, 2017 @ 11:10:30
It’s always good to be reminded of this – not just for children! Have a great day!
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Ritu
May 17, 2017 @ 12:55:00
Thanks xx
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makupsy
May 17, 2017 @ 08:52:30
I couldn’t have said it any better. Sometimes we spend too much time trying to focus our energy on something that actually takes happiness away from us and that is very unnecessary. I hope your pupils always remember to choose what’s right.
This was a lovely post and have a great day too 🙂
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Ritu
May 17, 2017 @ 10:28:41
Thank you! I hope they remember it too! Have a lovely day!
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Erum Explores
Sep 29, 2015 @ 16:44:02
“Walk on to better things”…The message everyone needs!
Re-blogged @ http://www.erumexplores.com
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Ritu
Sep 29, 2015 @ 20:17:03
😊 thanks for the reblog!
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Glee Sparkle
Sep 26, 2015 @ 17:41:13
I like the quote….good taste😊😊
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Ritu
Sep 26, 2015 @ 18:14:34
Thank you !
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Fourth Generation Farmgirl
Sep 23, 2015 @ 22:26:47
Another uplifting and wise quote. Happy Wednesday, Ritu! 🙂
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Ritu
Sep 24, 2015 @ 06:57:29
Thanks Tonya! 😊
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georgeforfun Life's too short to be miserable or serious anymore!
Sep 23, 2015 @ 22:16:20
Reblogged this on georgeforfun.
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amaya911
Sep 23, 2015 @ 19:21:49
I agree. It happens all the time at work. I don’t let people get me upset anymore because that’s exactly what they want. They’ve wanted me to quit all of these years but I’m still here! It’s not even worth it for me to say anything to them anymore.
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Ritu
Sep 23, 2015 @ 20:23:34
That’s just it, be strong, stay strong, live strong!
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syl65
Sep 23, 2015 @ 17:41:07
Great words of wisdom, Ritu!
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Ritu
Sep 23, 2015 @ 20:23:13
Thanks Syl! 😊
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syl65
Sep 23, 2015 @ 20:32:09
You’re welcome 😊😊
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Lynz Real Cooking
Sep 23, 2015 @ 13:23:39
Very nice reminder. One of the biggest things my taught me and still talks to me about today, be your best person no matter what! It never made sense until I got older and now I truly agree! thanks Ritu
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Ritu
Sep 23, 2015 @ 20:22:02
There are so many things like that that our parents would have told us, but it takes us getting older to actually understand!!!
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Lynz Real Cooking
Sep 23, 2015 @ 22:47:25
oh for sure!
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Ritu
Sep 24, 2015 @ 06:57:52
😊
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edwinasepisodes
Sep 23, 2015 @ 12:57:29
You are right there Ritu, There had been a hell of a lot of awful things going on at work lately and I have now decided to heed your advice instead of speaking out yet again, and making it worse! 🙂
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Ritu
Sep 23, 2015 @ 20:21:24
Sometimes it’s just the best thing to do ! 😊
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writersdream9
Sep 23, 2015 @ 12:49:56
Often a challenge for me but well worth it!
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Ritu
Sep 23, 2015 @ 20:21:00
It is worth it indeed! 😊
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Niki
Sep 23, 2015 @ 12:34:35
How true! I often say to the children ‘Say “Stop it” then walk away’ – it’s not always so easy to follow that advice ourselves!!
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Ritu
Sep 23, 2015 @ 20:20:30
Very true Nicky… But I guess if we don’t do,it, then we can’t really ever teach our children the same… Can we?
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Ritu
Sep 23, 2015 @ 20:20:49
Niki even! 😳😊
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NickyB.
Sep 23, 2015 @ 11:40:39
I love this quote . Do u mind if I post it on Instagram????
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Ritu
Sep 23, 2015 @ 20:19:19
By all means Nicky, post away! 😊
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wafflemethis
Sep 23, 2015 @ 11:18:38
Or woman of course😉
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Ritu
Sep 23, 2015 @ 20:18:07
True!!!
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wafflemethis
Sep 23, 2015 @ 11:18:21
It takes a greater man to turn the other cheek sis. Nice wisdom quote☺
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Ritu
Sep 23, 2015 @ 20:17:32
Very true bro! Thanks!
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jacquelineobyikocha
Sep 23, 2015 @ 10:48:26
Well said!
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Ritu
Sep 23, 2015 @ 20:10:34
Thank you!
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jacquelineobyikocha
Sep 24, 2015 @ 09:39:37
You are most welcome 🙂
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Erika Kind
Sep 23, 2015 @ 10:07:03
Very true words, Ritu, which speak a lot to me!!! A tough lesson to learn at times. But once we are ready, it is the greatest relief to leave things with those people, not because I think I am better, but because I accept that we don’t speak the same language.
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Ritu
Sep 23, 2015 @ 20:10:17
Very true sis, the sooner we learn this, the quicker those that trouble us will stop, as they realise they aren’t affecting us…
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Erika Kind
Sep 23, 2015 @ 20:33:37
Totally agree, sis 😊
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Ritu
Sep 23, 2015 @ 20:34:12
😊
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niasunset
Sep 23, 2015 @ 09:14:06
Thank you dear Ritu, 🙂 have a nice day for you too. Love, nia
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Ritu
Sep 23, 2015 @ 20:08:36
You too Nia, you too! 😘
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