Wednesday Wisdom

wpid-fb_img_1438793498680.jpgBe the bigger person peeps, know you are the better one too, by walking away.

I often tell my pupils, when they are little and whinging about someone being silly towards them, “Ignore them, don’t let them know they are affecting you. It will sink in that they are not important enough to affect you soon enough, then they will stop too.”

I have often had to tell my own children too.  I want them to learn to pick their battles, and realise some are just not worth fighting. Be the bigger person, and walk on to better things.

Have a wonderful Wednesday Peeps!

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  1. Fourth Generation Farmgirl
    May 25, 2017 @ 19:23:53

    Great advice, Ritu. Your post is an excellent reminder!

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    May 19, 2017 @ 10:08:21

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  3. riffatwajidblogs
    May 17, 2017 @ 21:31:35

    Nice words

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  4. willowdot21
    May 17, 2017 @ 13:05:10

    Excellent advice Sis my Mum always said the same 🤗💖

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  5. girlandworld
    May 17, 2017 @ 12:36:20

    Wednesday wisdom broaden my horizon

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  6. Book Club Mom
    May 17, 2017 @ 11:10:30

    It’s always good to be reminded of this – not just for children! Have a great day!

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  7. makupsy
    May 17, 2017 @ 08:52:30

    I couldn’t have said it any better. Sometimes we spend too much time trying to focus our energy on something that actually takes happiness away from us and that is very unnecessary. I hope your pupils always remember to choose what’s right.
    This was a lovely post and have a great day too 🙂

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  8. Erum Explores
    Sep 29, 2015 @ 16:44:02

    “Walk on to better things”…The message everyone needs!
    Re-blogged @ http://www.erumexplores.com

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  9. Glee Sparkle
    Sep 26, 2015 @ 17:41:13

    I like the quote….good taste😊😊

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  10. Fourth Generation Farmgirl
    Sep 23, 2015 @ 22:26:47

    Another uplifting and wise quote. Happy Wednesday, Ritu! 🙂

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  11. georgeforfun Life's too short to be miserable or serious anymore!
    Sep 23, 2015 @ 22:16:20

    Reblogged this on georgeforfun.

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  12. amaya911
    Sep 23, 2015 @ 19:21:49

    I agree. It happens all the time at work. I don’t let people get me upset anymore because that’s exactly what they want. They’ve wanted me to quit all of these years but I’m still here! It’s not even worth it for me to say anything to them anymore.

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  13. syl65
    Sep 23, 2015 @ 17:41:07

    Great words of wisdom, Ritu!

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  14. Lynz Real Cooking
    Sep 23, 2015 @ 13:23:39

    Very nice reminder. One of the biggest things my taught me and still talks to me about today, be your best person no matter what! It never made sense until I got older and now I truly agree! thanks Ritu

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  15. edwinasepisodes
    Sep 23, 2015 @ 12:57:29

    You are right there Ritu, There had been a hell of a lot of awful things going on at work lately and I have now decided to heed your advice instead of speaking out yet again, and making it worse! 🙂

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  16. writersdream9
    Sep 23, 2015 @ 12:49:56

    Often a challenge for me but well worth it!

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  17. Niki
    Sep 23, 2015 @ 12:34:35

    How true! I often say to the children ‘Say “Stop it” then walk away’ – it’s not always so easy to follow that advice ourselves!!

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  18. NickyB.
    Sep 23, 2015 @ 11:40:39

    I love this quote . Do u mind if I post it on Instagram????

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  19. wafflemethis
    Sep 23, 2015 @ 11:18:38

    Or woman of course😉

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  20. wafflemethis
    Sep 23, 2015 @ 11:18:21

    It takes a greater man to turn the other cheek sis. Nice wisdom quote☺

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  21. jacquelineobyikocha
    Sep 23, 2015 @ 10:48:26

    Well said!

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  22. Erika Kind
    Sep 23, 2015 @ 10:07:03

    Very true words, Ritu, which speak a lot to me!!! A tough lesson to learn at times. But once we are ready, it is the greatest relief to leave things with those people, not because I think I am better, but because I accept that we don’t speak the same language.

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  23. niasunset
    Sep 23, 2015 @ 09:14:06

    Thank you dear Ritu, 🙂 have a nice day for you too. Love, nia

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