What is more exciting?
Your first, first time, or your first time with the love of your life?
Granted, there will be some of you, for whom the encounter is one and the same, but there are plenty out there who will have tested the water once, twice, three times… Or maybe a good few more!
The nerves of that first time, the fumbling, the uncertainty of whether you’re doing the right thing… Does that even fit there?!? Your confidence isn’t necessarily that great, and possibly, the location may not be conducive to leisurely love-making. There may be the element of secrecy, a clandestine meeting, because you were very young, and not deemed ready yet for this kind of step in your relationships. If so, it’s likely to have been a quick, momentary union. Or due to the inexperience, possibly the male half couldn’t contain himself, and well, things end prematurely.
Then there is the time you are with your soulmate, the person you would give your all to. If you have already had experiences, you are able to control yourselves, pace yourselves, savour each and every moment. Take each step slowly, from the kisses, and the tender caresses to parts of the body that are already exposed…the ears, the neck, to the face… Exploring each other, as your layers drop off one by one. You know how to tease, to tittilate to the maximum effect, and when you are in that all-consuming embrace, you know how to bring yourselves to the edge of no return, time and time again, before becoming one, truly.
What is more memorable?
Your first, first time, or your first time with the love of your life?
But I Smile Anyway... 
Aug 26, 2015 @ 08:27:27
I’m still waiting on all counts…..
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Aug 26, 2015 @ 15:07:47
Lol!
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Aug 19, 2015 @ 14:26:58
Haha, well both are memorable, but I always think that the LAST time is the most memorable 😉
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Aug 19, 2015 @ 14:31:31
True, true! 😊
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Aug 18, 2015 @ 22:47:42
The first time with your love of your life. Everything is new and adventurous for both. That experience of wholeness cannot be replicated with someone that is not. Great post brought on beautiful memories!!
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Aug 18, 2015 @ 22:49:12
So true!!!!!! 😊😊😊😍😍😍💜💜💜
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Aug 18, 2015 @ 17:33:59
There are two words, used in conjunction, that describe my first time. Train. Wreck. 😀
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Aug 18, 2015 @ 17:59:04
Uh oh lol!!!!
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Aug 18, 2015 @ 16:46:08
Definitely NOT the first time 😀
And I’m still waiting for my soul mate 🙂
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Aug 18, 2015 @ 17:00:42
you will meet….. !
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Aug 19, 2015 @ 12:16:51
I hope so! And thank you! 🙂
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Aug 19, 2015 @ 12:42:50
😊😊😊😊
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Aug 18, 2015 @ 13:53:04
You only get better with time… the first time is always a nervous moment when you don’t know what to do. How you hold, how you pace it…you know when to go slow and when you can go fast…when you are more in control….it takes some experience ..but then someday you will surely become a better car driver.
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Aug 18, 2015 @ 13:54:32
Of course, you would then be an expert ‘driver’! 😜
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Aug 18, 2015 @ 13:49:08
I would go with the 2nd one…in fact, i did go with the same when i had the opportunity to explore the first option.
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Aug 18, 2015 @ 13:50:50
Your first first!!! Aww!
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Aug 18, 2015 @ 14:01:23
😀
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Aug 18, 2015 @ 13:46:48
I’d rather not remember my first time! Lol. This is a challenging question. The first was the worst time! I think you can have more than one soul mate in life. I think I’ve had about three. My first definitely wasn’t a soul mate. This one now seems to be a keeper and my soul mate for the rest of my life… I hope. 🙂
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Aug 18, 2015 @ 13:48:46
See, every ‘first’ holds its own emotions!
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Aug 18, 2015 @ 13:54:19
I sometimes wonder why certain people show up in your life.
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Aug 18, 2015 @ 13:55:17
We learn from all our experiences though, right?
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Aug 18, 2015 @ 13:58:18
Yes! Good point!
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Aug 18, 2015 @ 14:08:36
😊
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Aug 18, 2015 @ 12:10:38
Very good thoughts. I also thought about it. I think when you meet your true twin soul which is not the first love of your life. That encounter, that first time, is mind blowing, since you cherish it all much more consciously. You are much more aware of the gift and treat it like the greatest blessing – because it is.
That was beautiful, Ritu.
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Aug 18, 2015 @ 13:27:19
Those are my feelings too sis! They can be two very different accounts and the emotions totally different…
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Aug 18, 2015 @ 13:31:50
Totally. You explained that very well, sis!
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Aug 18, 2015 @ 13:46:49
Thank you! 😊
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Aug 18, 2015 @ 14:38:01
😊
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Aug 18, 2015 @ 12:09:17
first time what?
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Aug 18, 2015 @ 13:26:28
drinking Fanta!!! ;P
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Aug 18, 2015 @ 14:35:21
drinking Fanta??? OMG! it was orgasmic!!!
well, you had to ask …
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Aug 18, 2015 @ 14:38:16
Thought you would feel that way…! 😁
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Aug 18, 2015 @ 14:45:01
I’m so glad to not disappoint in that case. 😉
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Aug 18, 2015 @ 15:14:12
😁😁😁
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