“Burn bright, not out.”
Hamza Khan
This speaks volumes, Spidey. Thank you for this quote.
I listed all the things that I need to do over the summer, last Sunday, and after the first few days of my summer holidays, I felt quite positive, but this week has been a bit different.
Maybe I am coming down with something, or maybe my body is really screaming at me to just shut off for a while.
So, this past week, I did that. I had intentions of writing every day. Even if I could hit 1k words every day, that would be me, happy.
But aside from scheduling a few posts, and around 1.5k words since Monday, I realised I was trying to pour from a very empty jug.
I gave myself permission to switch off from my writing, which gives me so much pleasure, but equally, can stress me out, especially if I am writing substandard words because I am too tired.
I had a couple of appointments to attend, as well as a wedding for a very special couple, plus a shopping trip planned with the in-laws. None of these could be rescheduled.
But I could choose when to write my words.
I cannot hit burnout because I have a deadline. My words and stories are important to me, and they need to come as and when they are ready.
Life has been so busy/hard recently, I have to give myself a break.
We managed to book a short break away, too, because I think the whole family needs it.
The words will flow, soon enough, I am sure. But I am not going to dim my glow just to write when I am not in the right place. I cannot go back to school in September already burnt out.
So, Peeps, do you remember to give yourself permission to switch off? 😊













Aug 07, 2023 @ 23:41:42
I wish you a fast recovery, Sis! Maybe you should walk the cat. Sonu will bring you distraction with some street fighting action. The king has to be seen! 😉 xx Michael
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Aug 08, 2023 @ 07:17:14
I should try, eh, but he would probably stress me out more! 😁
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Aug 07, 2023 @ 11:30:23
I listen to Sherky 😁🥰
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Aug 07, 2023 @ 11:37:34
😁😂
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Aug 07, 2023 @ 04:52:07
I am sorry you are so exhausted. Life is very challenging and adding a second job of writing is tough
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Aug 07, 2023 @ 07:44:12
You know what it’s like, Robbie 🤗
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Aug 07, 2023 @ 07:54:11
😃
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Aug 06, 2023 @ 16:06:08
While Neil Young once famously sang “it’s better to burn out, than fade away…” I think you have to give yourself some days off, even if not planned! Tomorrow will arrive no matter what, a fresh start or another chance to recharge…
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Aug 06, 2023 @ 19:09:33
Too true, John. I’m so shattered!
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Aug 06, 2023 @ 13:24:01
When school ended, I was ‘spent’. It took me close to two weeks to shut down, unwind, and rest. It’s good that you have let things go. Your body and mind are telling you it needs it!
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Aug 06, 2023 @ 13:27:53
I’m trying to listen, Jennie 🤗
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Aug 07, 2023 @ 11:49:29
That’s good!
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Aug 06, 2023 @ 13:16:28
yes it is very real and our bodies and minds always find a way to let us know – take the time, and feel better and I do make a point of doing this as well, but I didn’t used to, and it’s taken awhile to let myself get to this point
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Aug 06, 2023 @ 13:28:13
It comes with that wisdom we acquire, Beth 🤗
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Aug 06, 2023 @ 13:37:18
over time –
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Aug 06, 2023 @ 11:40:35
❤
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Aug 06, 2023 @ 12:16:34
🤗
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Aug 06, 2023 @ 07:37:41
After a break you’ll write more and better.
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Aug 06, 2023 @ 08:40:41
Thank you Sajde. I hope so 💛
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Aug 06, 2023 @ 10:59:22
You’re welcome 😇
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Aug 06, 2023 @ 06:59:37
Take a break when you can, you hit this wall every holiday. You are correct it’s you body screaming….”I need a break” … Listen to it . You push so hard to get through the term that when you stop you body and brain is in shock 😯
💜💜💜💜💜
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Aug 06, 2023 @ 08:40:26
I’m trying very hard to listen, Sis, or I know something will give 💛
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Aug 06, 2023 @ 08:42:30
Please do 💜💜💜
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Aug 06, 2023 @ 05:09:44
Burnout is real and I feel it frequently.
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Aug 06, 2023 @ 08:39:25
It is 100% real, Tony, and we really need to learn how to listen to our bodies 💛
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