The Time He Was Right…

Okay… I have to admit it… I don’t always know everything…

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A couple of weeks back, I had to head into London for the first of a two day training course for work. It was a pretty straightforward journey, though the walk from the station to the venue was fun, with my phone map taking me on a merry ride!

I do like having the day out to learn new things with other like-minded professionals, and was excited at the prospect of the second day out, which was yesterday.

Then I got an email to say the venue had changed.

It was still London, but East London, and that meant I had to find a different way of getting there.

All the route planner apps gave me long winded ways to arrive, insisting that I had to leave at the crack of dawn and take 6,000 different tube trains, to get there for 8.30am (yes, 6,000 is a bit of an exaggeration, but what’s a little retelling without a bit of embellishment?) ready for registration.

I sat and chatted with my Bro in Law (BIL) and Hubby Dearest about the best way to get there, as nothing was making sense to me.

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Even my BIL was confusing me, with routes that would need 2-3 changes.

Hubby Dearest calmly said, “It’s fine, you just need the fast speed train then one tube…”

But was I listening?

No.

I sat studying a map for ages, my BIL getting more and more excited about how I could get there, and if I wanted to take a train at half past very early, I could join him, as that is when he usually goes.

But I was trying to avoid the overly early start…

I thought the train station would be the best place to go. They would give me the best route and train times in the kiosk.

Hubby tried to stop me going, but it was pointless, after all, I know best.

So Lil Princess and I went and spoke to the first ticket lady, who didn’t know where either Shadwell station, or Whitechapel were! She then pulled up the train app on her phone (which I had already looked at) and gave me a great route that included about 5 changes!

Lots of help.

Oh, and the advice I get a train to a specific station and take a 5 min walk to Bank tube station… when the actual station that is near where I would disembark was EmBANKment! That would have been fun if I’d listened to her!

I decided to try the actual ticket office, and the guy there was very helpful and friendly, but the same as the first woman I had spoken to. No clue as to how to properly advise me.

So, I turned back home, disappointed that I was in no better a position.

Hubby sat there, with his foot up (still being partially hoppalong at this moment) and said “So, have you found a good route?”

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I admitted that I was nowhere nearer to knowing where I was going than when I left.

Then he calmly pulled out his phone and showed me a tube map. “Here. You get the fast speed train, like I said, then the pink line there, do you see, the Hammersmith & City line, and it takes you straight to Whitechapel. One change, and you’re done. And it’s fast speed so you don’t have to be up too early.”

He had been right all along… But I just wouldn’t listen, would I?

The journey was great, in the end. I caught a train at 7.21am and was at the venue dead on 8.30am! And home by 5pm.

Perfect.

I may just listen to him a little more, once in a while…

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Can you admit when you are wrong?

Exacerbatingly Exasperating! #MondayBlogs

Last night, as is the norm in this house, Lil Princess was being a bit of a diva.

And, true to form, as she was moaning, Lil Man was adding his ten pence worth in too, winding her up even more.

 

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We were trying to eat a family dinner, and as he laughed at his sister, he dropped food.

Me: “Can you just stop? Why do have to exacerbate the situation?

Lil Man: “What?”

Hubby Dearest: “That’s not even a word!”

Cue giggles from the kids.

Hubby Dearest: [feeling smug] “You mean exasperate, don’t you?”

Me: ” Are you questioning me? A writer?” {I mean, really!}

Cue more giggling.

I got up from the table and went to the bookshelf, which is conveniently located right in the dining area. Extracting the dictionary from it’s home, I leafed through the pages and found exasperate… but exacerbate was not there…

No no no!

I knew it was a word, I knew the meaning, but I couldn’t find it! I had to show him!

Then, there it was.

Me: ” See! Exasperate – to irritate intentionally, and look, there – Exacerbate – to make a situation worse!”

Hubby Dearest: ” Yeah, right, whatever…”

Lil Man was sat next to me smirking. Lil Princess looking at her daddy, giggling.

Me: ” And you two, stop being exacerbatingly exasperating, and finish your dinner!”

I knew I was right! 

The rest of the meal proceeded with various versions of this new to them word being bandied about, predominantly in the wrong context!

I think I should start a word of the day for the family!

It’s ma Bed-Day, It’s ma Bed-Day, Imma gonna get ma mattress!

Finally, after what seems like an age, our new bed is arriving today!!

2 years ago I was hellbent on getting a new base, an ottoman style one so our storage would be more… Hubby Dearest said to take our time, do some research, find a few and lets look into them. But I wanted one now Now NOW!

(Well, can I say, in hindsight, Hubby Dearest was right… But please don’t tell him!!!)

The base arrived… Flat packed… First alarm bell rings… And it was a lovely looking thing on the picture, so surely it wouldn’t be too bad? Right! There were hydraulics to attach so the slat base went up and down with ease.. Oh, and there was a slat base to put together too! I managed it all. And in theory it was lovely… Fitted all my spare blankets and duvets in there, and some clothes I didn’t use regularly. But once the mattress was on there, it wouldn’t stay up!!

Stubbornly refusing to tell Hubby Dearest that it was not working correctly, I made sure there was nothing under there that he would ever need to get himself, and spent two years struggling, quietly with the up and down of this thing! Then a few months ago, I realised I was sinking, slowly… The wood on the inside had split, and my side of the slat base was going down!!! Uh oh!!!

So we really needed a new bed! The matters was old too, so we thought let’s go the whole hog. I still wanted an ottoman (stubborn, see!) but I found out that it was an ottoman DIVAN, not a slat base that we needed. Cool! We found one, waited a while, researched a bit, then went out to place the order. En route we stopped at another shop, and peeked in.. Found an even better bed base and mattress too, so we ended up going for this.  It should have been a simple procedure, the guy who showed us, and sold the bed was fantastic, until another lady in there, who previously had shown us 2 mattresses, decided we were her customers, and that he was stealing her customers, intervened.

So she took the order, couldn’t be too specific about delivery, but assured us we would have our bed within 2-3 weeks. A week later, she calls to say sorry it would be at least 5 weeks.. The company was out of stock!

And at this stage I was sleeping with my head well below my foot level, and we NEEDED the bed ASAP! After a lot of phone calls, Hubby Dearest managed to arrange a loan base at least, so we weren’t on a mattress in the floor.

Well earlier this week, after MANY more calls, we got the call that our new bed was ready to be delivered on Saturday! Yippeeeee!!! So when will they pick the loan base up? Erm, they didn’t know…

Now our house is fine for us, but we don’t have a spare room, so where would we keep it?! After explaining that it was no problem, we could leave it outside for them to pick up whenever, Hubby Dearest convinced them to come get it the day the new bed was coming.

I told the lady I wanted it picked up first thing, as I have things to do, and the bed was arriving after lunch, so she said fine, and confirmed they would be there… At 8am… On a Saturday morning! That’s no problem for me, Lil Man gets up early, but it was a travesty for Hubby Dearest, for whom sleep is most precious! So anyway, I’m up early today, and getting breakfasts ready, when the bell rings at 7.45am… OK, so at least they weren’t late I guess!

Now off to get the grocery before the bed finally arrives….. It better be worth it after all this!!!!

Hubby Dearest has assured me that as of now, I WILL not railroad him into any further major purchases… That I need to exercise patience… So he can do the needful, before ordering things… Like checking reliability of companies etc!!!

Of course I looked down, and said ‘sowwy’, and of course he will get the last say on everything… But he didn’t see my crossed fingers!!!

I’ll keep you updated!!!

My interactive peeps!

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