What is more exciting?
Your first, first time, or your first time with the love of your life?
Granted, there will be some of you, for whom the encounter is one and the same, but there are plenty out there who will have tested the water once, twice, three times… Or maybe a good few more!
The nerves of that first time, the fumbling, the uncertainty of whether you’re doing the right thing… Does that even fit there?!? Your confidence isn’t necessarily that great, and possibly, the location may not be conducive to leisurely love-making. There may be the element of secrecy, a clandestine meeting, because you were very young, and not deemed ready yet for this kind of step in your relationships. If so, it’s likely to have been a quick, momentary union. Or due to the inexperience, possibly the male half couldn’t contain himself, and well, things end prematurely.
Then there is the time you are with your soulmate, the person you would give your all to. If you have already had experiences, you are able to control yourselves, pace yourselves, savour each and every moment. Take each step slowly, from the kisses, and the tender caresses to parts of the body that are already exposed…the ears, the neck, to the face… Exploring each other, as your layers drop off one by one. You know how to tease, to tittilate to the maximum effect, and when you are in that all-consuming embrace, you know how to bring yourselves to the edge of no return, time and time again, before becoming one, truly.
What is more memorable?
Your first, first time, or your first time with the love of your life?
