Happy Vaisakhi everyone!

It is Vaisakhi today, an event with several meanings to different cultures and religions.

Happy Vaisakhi

Happy Vaisakhi

It is celebrated by Hindus and Buddhists as part of welcoming the new solar year in.

But it is extremely important to the Punjabi community and the Sikh religion.  The time of Vaisakhi, or Baisakhi, as some say it, is a traditional harvest festival, and as the Punjab is a large farming area, it is a cause for celebration, when the crops are harvested, people dance, and have fun, they do Bhangra, sing and dance, and generally celebrate the freedom they will now have, after a successful (hopefully) harvest. But before all this fun and laughter, they use this time to pray, and thank God for the good harvest, and to pray for the future crops too.

As a Sikh it holds a great importance too.  Way back in 1699, our 10th Guru, Guru Gobind Singh Ji laid the foundations of the Panth Khalsa, or the Order of the Pure ones, and so it is the birth of the Khalsa, and Sikhism as we know it now.

Guru Gobind Singh Ji's Khalsa Panth

Guru Gobind Singh Ji’s Khalsa Panth

On this day many people who may not be baptised into full Sikhism, choose to do this, known as Amrit Shakna.  This is basically that you are drinking the holy nectar, Amrit, and you pledge to be a true Sikh, as above, remembering the 5 Kakar’s (the 5 K’s).

Kesh – Uncut Hair, you remain as God intended you to be, be thankful for what God gave you, do not be ashamed.

Kangha – A wooden comb worn in the hair, to keep you tidy, and presentable at all times, a symbol of cleanliness.

Kara – A steel bangle acting as a constant reminder of a Sikh’s mission on this Earth, to do good, and help others. It is an external symbol of our faith. Being a continuous circle, it shows a Sikh’s unbreakable attachment to God. It was also used in self defence, and originally was part of a type of coat of arms, to protect the arms in battles.

Kirpan – A ceremonial dagger carried by baptised Sikhs, that is there to defend oneself, but more over to protect others regardless of race, colour or creed.

Kashera – a loose shorts like undergarment. Used to retain ones modesty, and cover your intimate parts, so as to always be proper, and also, as it is worn by both man and woman, it is a way to discourage looking at the opposite sex in an immoral way. It is tied with a naala, a drawstring, and the meaning for that is that if you were to be removing it to do anything improper, then untying the knot would give you time to think about what actions you are about to make…

We celebrated today by going to the Gurdwara to pay our respects.

Then on the weekend, there will be a large parade, the Nagar Kirtan, which slowly snakes around our town, and all the local community, Sikh or not, get involved! We place our holy book, the Guru Granth Sahib, in a specially made trailer, resembling the Golden Temple in Amritsar, and then there are people walking ahead, cleaning the road in advance. The Panj Pyare, or Five Loved/Blessed Ones, Walk ahead of this carriage.

Panj Pyare

Panj Pyare

This procession is attended by thousands, who come from far and wide to walk alongside, and behind the Guru Granth Sahib.

Ariel Image

Ariel Image

We walk behind, chanting holy songs, and walk through the town, and around the route there are people giving food and drink, to all. This is part of our Seva, or helping others that we are encouraged to do. Many people, in the lead up to Vaisakhi will visit the temple and donate items such as juice and sweets, which are distributed along the journey. Also, local businesses will arrange for hot food and drink along the route, for free, as their ‘seva’ for Vaisakhi.

Some of the many people who attend

Some of the many people who attend

Behind the main hoards of worshippers there are usually trailers for those that can’t walk the couple of miles that we travel, and also local sports teams or cultural clubs have their participants on board open sided lorries.  That’s where I’ll be, as I have been the last 4 years. Previously they were on a trailer together as they play the Dhol, (Punjabi Drum) with a local Bhangra team, but this year Lil Man is on a trailer with his football team, and Lil Princess will be sat with her Punjabi School classmates. I hope to get a seat somewhere as my feet may not cope with the long walk this year!

And we have Bhangra dancers, performing along the route at various stations.

Bhangra Dancers

Bhangra Dancers

It is a beautiful event, and there are Nagar Kirtans around the UK in places where there is a large Sikh community.  Hopefully, I’ll get some pictures on Saturday, which I can post for you!

But for now,

HAPPY VAISAKHI TO ONE AND ALL!

Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa, Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh

(Wonderful Lord’s Khalsa, Victory is to the Wonderful Lord)

Daily Kind Quote

My dear sis Erika took something I said and made it into one of her quotes for the day. As I mentioned in her comments, it’s not strictly my quote, it’s a saying that has been around for aeons.
Today, maybe more than most it feels apt.
I am off soon on a long journey, to attend the funeral of my cousin who passed away last week.
Funerals are not lovely things to attend, by any means. They indicate the end. I don’t like to say goodbye… But then the silver lining part comes into play, as they can also be a celebration of someone’s life, if you let then be.
My cousin sister was a vibrant soul, always there to help everyone, with wacky health care and natural remedy solutions at hand all of the time, and a LOT of love to give to us all.
She lost her husband many years ago, and now she leaves 4 children, and grandchildren also. Although I know we shall miss her greatly, I feel happy knowing she will be reunited with her husband after all these years, and that she’ll be looking down on us, wishing the best for us at all times.
RIP Didi

Party anyone?

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I’m celebrating!!!

I think the best part of that went down my throat!!!

HIC!

Happy Lohri everyone!

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People be like “huh? What’s she going on about?!”
Well, I won’t get too technical, because, well, I don’t know all the ins and outs, but especially in Punjab, India, we celebrate a festival called Lohri, on the 13th January.
There are several reasons it was celebrated, the winter solstice, the end of winter (supposedly!), a harvest festival of sorts, a new year celebration, and also a welcome celebration for the newest members of the family, who joined during that year, via marriage or birth.
Ins and outs of the festival, well a big fire is lit, and people throw handfuls of sesame seeds in it, chanting a rhyme which roughly translates to welcome happiness and do away with negativity.
And where there are a bunch of Indians, there is sure to be food!! It’s traditional to eat Saag (spinach curry), Makki Di Roti (corn meal chappatis), and Kheer (rice pudding) made with gur, the unrefined sugar made there. Ok, so diet outta the window tonight!!

Many families used to just celebrate when a baby boy was born, not a girl, because apparently you weren’t to celebrate a girls birth, but a boy, oh yes! Rejoice! (Not good!) my family didn’t really celebrate this festival, in fact I really learned about it after getting married. When Lil Man was born, we had a gathering at home, the fire lit, a marquee in the garden music and merriment! A lot of happiness!

When Lil Princess was still but a bump in my tummy, I spoke with my father in law about celebrating a girls arrival… He was very strict on this point, ” no, only a boy, not for girls.” Not because he is sexist, per se, but because this was how it had always been done in the villages, when he was growing up.
Unbeknown to him though, in the villages and towns in Punjab, in recent years, a girl is celebrated much more than a boy. The reason? Because boys were given so much importance, especially in rich families, that they would do nothing all day, but live the life of Riley, get into bad ways, spend what their parents worked hard to earn, and generally cause more heartache… Or they would go abroad, and forget their families left at home. And the daughters? They took the mantle of ‘son’ and started getting jobs, looking after their parents, in their senior years, and took responsibility of families. Suddenly, a boy was not necessarily the best choice!
Hence, all children were being celebrated!

But still, it was not a viable choice here, apparently. No one in the UK was up to speed with the way things had changed in India, so we had our own little celebration at home, but not the big hoo ha Lil Man had.

And this year, I have a new little person to welcome in our lives, my nephew!
I don’t know whether they will celebrate in Finland, but my mum is there, so I hope she attempts to make Saag at least! I know my mother in law is preparing the feast as we speak!

And we have our lil Sonu Singh too! Ok, so cats aren’t meant to be included, but he IS our new baby!

So, Happy Lohri everyone who celebrates, and to all my blogsters too!!!

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