#JusJoJan – January 30th, 2018 – Scrumptious

Day thirty of #JusJoJan! The penultimate one!

I’m going to try to write on each of the prompts!

Today the prompt is:

Your prompt for January 30th 2018, brought to you by my dear blog sis, Judy, is “Scrumptious” Use it any way you’d like in your post. And make sure you visit Leta at her blog, “Judy E Martin” to read her post and say hi! Here’s her link: https://www.judyedwinamartin.com/

A foodie Acrostic today!

Scrumptious

S Sweet delights
C Croissants
R Rolls slathered with butter
U Upside-down cake
M Melt-in-the-mouth Madeira
P Pretzels dipped in chocolate
T Tangy strawberry cables
I Ice cream cones
O Oreo Cookies
U Utterly irresistible
S Sweet delights

See you tomorrow!

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#JusJoJan Daily Prompt – Jan. 24th/17 – Elusive

Day 24 of Linda’s #JusJoJan Challenge, hosted by the dear Judy Martin my blog sis! Find her here!

The Just Jot It January 24th  prompt, brought to you by Evelyn of Eclectic Evelyn, is: “Elusive.” Use it any way you’re inspired to. And make sure you stop by and say hi to Evelyn as well! Here’s her blog: http://www.eclecticevelyn.com/

Elusive – Difficult to find, catch or achieve. The definition in the dictionary.

A particular celebrity may be elusive, or a criminal. That publishing contract is most definitely elusive!

But there is one thing, so simple, but extremely elusive, and I can guarantee that pretty much every mother will agree.

A lie in!

I have been a mum now for over eleven years, and I can count on my fingers how many real lie ins I have managed to have!

Gone are the days of being a student, sleeping your whole day away, and partying all night (fitting lectures in somehow too!).

If I am home at my parents, I get the opportunity, but my children decide it would be much better to come and see me first thing in the morning, rather than listen to their grandma, who is trying to coax them downstairs!

When they have a sleepover at their other grandparents, often it’s because I need to be up early the next day, so that’s another lie in opportunity gone.

The one weekend away Hubby Dearest and I had a couple of years ago was one real lie in opportunity, and we took it, but still had to be up to eat breakfast, and check out of the hotel! Still 10 am was better than nothing!

You’d hope that as kids get older, it would get easier. For some it does. Not for me, though!

I have a dear Lil Princess who is a stealth bed hopper! I find an extra body in my bed most mornings, where she has snuck in during the night to sleep with us!

And she is not a morning person! Totally like her dad! I am best in the morning, fresh, and raring to go. Lil Man is starting to get that pre-teen thing of needing more sleep, especially at the moments that we need to wake him up. But he sleeps well and will keep himself occupied in the mornings if I request a little relaxation time.

But Lil Princess?

No. Usually, she will have a wonderful sleep in her bed, the night before I anticipate the hope of a lie in. This means she is up with the birds, chirping away.

“Mum! Can I go downstairs?”  “Yes”

“Mum, I’m scared, can you come with me?” “No”

“Mum, can I go on the computer?” “Okay” (anything for peace!)

“Mum, I’m hungry!” (Muttering)”Oh For God’s sake!” (out aloud) “Coming!”

And so, by 8 am on a Sunday morning, you find me with a cuppa, and a wide-awake kid!

And if by any fluke of a chance, we are at home, with no kids, and no need for me to be anywhere before 12 midday, you can bet it’s just my darn body clock which decided to work against me!

See? Lie ins.

TOTALLY ELUSIVE!

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#JusJoJan Daily Prompt – Jan. 23rd/17 – Compromise

Day 23 of Linda’s #JusJoJan challenge hosted by the dear Judy Martin my blog sis! Find her here!

The Just Jot It January 23rd prompt, brought to you by Ritu of But I Smile Anyway is: “Compromise.” Use it any way you’re inspired to. And make sure you stop by and say hi to Ritu as well! Here’s her blog: https://butismileanyway.com/

Oh look, it’s my prompt! Oh well, here goes!

“Compromise. It’s another word to describe marriage.”

This was part of some advice I was given a few months before taking my nuptial rounds with Hubby Dearest.

And for all intents and purposes, it is very true, especially for us Indians.

I know it probably happens less now, but the usual system was that a couple got married, whether love or arranged, and then they lived with the in-laws.

This was exactly what we did too. It was no big deal, to be honest. It’s what all my cousins and other family members did too.

But the statement above helped me so much through my early married life. I can’t quite explain how, but I’ll try!

When you get married and move in with another family, it can be a culture shock, even when you are from the same background!

Each family has their own foibles, their own traditions and quirks, and as the bride, you have to be the one to go through all the changes to fit in with your new family.

It’s easier to be like them, instead of fight it, isn’t it?

Not really.

My mum always said to me to never lose myself once I got married. She was a really outgoing person and had so many aspirations, but due to the totally different mentality of her in-laws, she had to curb her personality, and desires, and be the good housewife, which she was, and is, to perfection. But in those days it was expected. There was no other choice if you wanted an easy life. She did eventually get to be more herself, but for a sizeable chunk of her married life, she was subdued.

The above advice made me realise that I had to be malleable. I had to be like a reed in the wind, blowing in the wind, bowing down, but not breaking.

Life was incredibly different for me when I got married, from the food that was eaten, to  what was expected of me as a daughter in law.

I started by making huge compromises. I didn’t lose myself, but I simply put myself on hold, and dived deep into this new family life. I did all the things they wanted and hoped I would do. And once I got the trust of my new family, I started to change things.

Because I bent into their ‘shape’, it became easier to coax them to do things differently too. And therein lies the beauty of compromise.

If you learn how to use the art of compromising corrrectly, it may take a little time, but things become easier.

Compromise. It can be a wonderful thing! 🙂

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#JusJoJan Daily Prompt – Jan. 5th/17 – Spangly

Day 5 of Linda’s #JusJoJan challenge, and this time it’s hosted by Rosemary Carlson. Go check out her blog too, by clicking here!

Now for your prompt for January 5. It is brought to you by Judy of http://www.edwinasepisodes.com/. Your prompt is: “Spangly.” Use it any way you like. Make sure you stop by Judy’s website and say hello to her!

My in-laws came back from India last month, and as usual, they came with a selection of gifts, which usually include some sort of outfits. I have a cupboard groaning with clothes, as MIL tends to get a little overexcited when it comes to getting me clothes, even though she knows I hardly get a chance to wear these beautiful outfits!

The same goes for Lil Princess, but the worst thing is that she is a child, so she grows fast, and there a huge amount of gorgeous clothes she doesn’t even get to wear, and they are left to languish in the wardrobe, getting smaller and smaller

This time, I managed to convince MIL to only get me one thing, as we have a family wedding in February, and she bought just two outfits for Lil Princess.

It can be touch and go as to whether they are outfits to my liking, as I tend to wear more understated things, and sometimes MIL can find the most blingy things lovely! Hey, I am not averse to spangly outfits, they can look great on others. It’s just not quite my thing!

Below is the outfit she chose for me. It’s in a purple and biscuit colour, with gold thread work, and a few shiny stones thrown in too.  Not bad, eh!

So here is a little haiku dedicated to my spangly new outfit!

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Pretty blingy clothes
All the way from India
Won’t miss me in this!

Ritu 2017

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Book Review – Judy E Martin – Rhymes Of the Times

Judy Book

Here is yet another of the integral parts of my blogily, getting herself published!

My Kentish blog sis, Judy E Martin, of Edwina’s Episodes fame, has compiled a truly classic collection of her poetry, and gone and actually published it!

I loved Judy’s poems from the moment I first read one. She has a style that I find myself writing in, and her sense of humour (and clumsiness!) is on par with mine!

When I saw her book, it inspired me to think about trying it myself, and one day, I shall, but this post is not about my dreams, it’s about celebrating Judy’s wonderful achievement!

There are poems about family, and love, and humorous situations, including blogging issues! Truly, it is a book to read, as you will find yourself with a smile on your face as you read each of the rhyming creations.

Judy

To purchase, click here. And if you do, please leave a review, it always helps our wonderful authors!

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