It’s time to show my thanks to God, the world, the universe, my parents, family and friends!
So what if I don’t have space for a walk in wardrobe, and a spare bedroom to separate the kids yet??!!
I have a house I can happily call a home, it might not be spick and span, but it’s ours, and it’s filled with love, happiness and laughter! (And the odd fight between the kids, but hey, that’s normal, right?!)
Who cares if my bank balance is pretty much nil most of the time?
I am lucky enough to have enough. We don’t starve, our bills are paid, our kids lack nothing… And in time, things will get better!
Why should I lament not going on posh holidays all the time?
Everyone wants a break in some sunny, hot country right?! Yeah, sure, but it’s not a necessity. The time will come when we can do that too. But in the meantime, little visits to my parents, the odd day out, a prospective visit to my brother in Finland in the pipeline… That’ll keep me going!
In time things will change, for the better, of that I am sure. But I am so lucky to have all I do. A roof over my head, food on the table, a car to get us from here to there, the prospect of new job, that I love, (which will improve the above bank balance issue!)
And the biggest things? I have family, friends and love…. These three things I have in abundance! Parents who support me and love me unconditionally, a husband who I love and respect with all my heart, two kids who make my heart smile, and a family full of support in general.
Friends who, near or far are always there. And I am there for them.
And love… Well if you love, you get love back…. And I’m full of love!
Thank you Waheguru, God, for being behind me every step of the way, for not allowing me to feel down, or negative, and for giving me the positive influences that you have, in my life. Those influences have kept me sane, and made me who I am. In fact, yesterday someone actually said to me, my parents have done a great job, raising me to be who I am today…. And they are right, my parents have done EVERYTHING they could for me and my brother, so after God, my thanks go to them. Love you Pops and Mum! 💜
I feel even more positive that usual, at this stage in my life! I wanted to share my positivity with you all!!
Oh, and the icing on my cake??!!
My darling Sonu Singh chose to come and sit on my lap for longtime cuddles this morning! He NEVER sits on my lap, prefering the end of my bed, and following me around when he’s hungry!!!
You see? Everything is just PERFECT!
Have a wonderful Wednesday Peeps!!!
But I Smile Anyway... 
May 20, 2015 @ 14:24:02
The most priceless things in life cannot be purchased. I now feel inspired and grateful today. Thank you, Ritu!
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May 20, 2015 @ 18:55:03
Aw, I’m glad I made you feel like that Rob! It’s important to remember all the good things, not just focus on the negative! 😀
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May 20, 2015 @ 13:42:16
Lovely post, I can’t help but smile at your gratitude 😀
Yes, enough is so much!
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May 20, 2015 @ 18:54:25
Thank you Joey! 😀 I do feel very positive, and I think it is important to show gratitude, for all things, big and small! 😀
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May 20, 2015 @ 12:05:41
So happy for you!
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May 20, 2015 @ 18:53:12
Thank you Katy! 😀
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May 20, 2015 @ 10:30:42
I am so pleased that you are feeling so happy, You are right, love does make a huge difference and we should count our blessings 🙂
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May 20, 2015 @ 18:53:01
Totally, Judy. We have to see the good… sometimes the bad clouds our vision, but you have to clear away the clouds, to realise your sun is actually shining too!
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May 20, 2015 @ 19:10:28
Yes, that is very true, just because it is temporarily hidden it doesn’t mean it is not there!
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May 20, 2015 @ 19:33:43
Exactly!!!!😀
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May 20, 2015 @ 10:05:40
That’s such a wonderful confession of gratitude, Ritu! This is what life is about: treasuring what we are given and not always lament about what we don’t have. You are such a wonderful role model in that! Your post makes the sun shine brighter. Big hugs to you.
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May 20, 2015 @ 18:52:08
Thank you Erica! I am in a good place right now, and want to share it! 😀
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May 20, 2015 @ 19:58:55
That’s exactly what your words radiate 😀
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May 20, 2015 @ 20:03:05
I’m glad I could convey my feelings!!
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May 20, 2015 @ 20:03:50
Absolutely. I deliberately chose those questions in order to make you guys spread even more sun 😀
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May 20, 2015 @ 20:04:52
Perfect! 🌞☀️
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May 20, 2015 @ 09:04:50
Have a great day Ritu. Its a good thing in life to be happy with what you have rather than sad about what you havent. I glad you are in that place.😊
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May 20, 2015 @ 18:51:25
Thank you so much! I do feel so positive, more than usual! 🙂
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May 20, 2015 @ 18:58:15
Good i am glad, maybe its the new job. The prospect of doing what you really love. I was in a bit of a funk this morning but you inspired me to seize the day ive cleared out the cobwebs and feel good. Check out what ive been upto. https://wafflemethis.wordpress.com/2015/05/20/tynemouth-castle-and-priory/ i really am glad your loving life long may it last😚
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May 20, 2015 @ 19:30:59
I’m really pleased that I seem to have encouraged a bunch of my readers to feel positive!!! 😁
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May 20, 2015 @ 19:35:40
Mentor, teacher, wife, mother and just alround guru to us all. 😊😊
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May 20, 2015 @ 19:51:32
Lol!!! I wouldn’t go that far, but hey… guru sounds good!!! 😊
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May 20, 2015 @ 19:56:53
Guru it is. Master is the wrong gender and Mistress doesnt sound right lol. So yeah guru it is😊😊
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May 20, 2015 @ 20:01:10
I’ll take that! Lol!! 😁
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May 20, 2015 @ 20:03:18
😄😜
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May 20, 2015 @ 08:40:27
Wonderful post !!!!!!!!!!!
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May 20, 2015 @ 18:49:59
Thank you so much Himali, and welcome to my world of smiles!!!!
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May 20, 2015 @ 19:26:15
🙂 🙂 🙂
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May 20, 2015 @ 08:33:24
What a wonderful post. It’s good to take time out from the worries that can get on top of us and reflect on all the great things we have, love means so much more than money for spare bedrooms, holidays, etc. I was chatting with my fiancé recently and talking about some of the problems our friends and family are currently going through and I thought how lucky we are that a shortage of cash is our only problem 🙂
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May 20, 2015 @ 18:49:34
It’s true.. we really need to focus on the little things and the happiness they give us, its way more healthy than focusing too much on the negative all the time! 😀
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May 20, 2015 @ 08:06:35
Nice :-). Glad you are in such a good place at the moment. Feels good 🙂
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May 20, 2015 @ 18:48:41
Thanks Momma, I really am!… its a bit crazy at work, bombarded with new information, and constant emails, but hey, this is what I wanted, and the fact that everyone at home is so happy about it too, really helps!
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May 20, 2015 @ 07:30:12
A lovely way to feel, Ritu. All the very best to you and yours. Kris. 😀
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May 20, 2015 @ 07:42:18
Thank you Kris! I’m in a good place right now! 😊
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