Blogiquette – 7 Simple Blogging Manners To Adhere By (Well, I think so, anyway!)

It’s very easy to become a little self-absorbed when you first start a blog.

  • You want to write things that people like.
  • You want followers.
  • You want to be discovered.
  • You want loads of comments and shares, to prove popularity.

Sure, there are blogs that manage to achieve that kind of fame and notoriety… but it’s not easy.

We all have to start somewhere, and like most of you will have been taught from birth, good manners count for a lot. In life, we have that etiquette to follow. We know about out pleases and thank yous. Respecting others. showing compassion and humility.

It’s the same in the Blogosphere.

Except here you have Blogiquette to learn.

It’s not much different to what you do in real life, but obviously, it’s via the interweb, so you need a few tweaks!

You don’t want to be known as the pompous one who thinks they are better than everyone, so, here are the 7 Rules of Blogiquette I think are important to be a considerate, and polite blogger.

  1. If someone has taken the time to comment on a post of yours, be sure to acknowledge, and reply back. There’s nothing worse than leaving a comment, and not even getting a smiley face back, if not a response! Equally, if you want comments, make the effort to read and comment on other bloggers posts. Building that rapport is essential.
  2. This one may be kinda hard at the beginning, but don’t think that following for follows is a good idea. Soon enough you’ll have a thousand blogs clogging up your reader, and possibly your email account, and there is no way you can really read even half that many blogs regularly! Then you are faced with the awful task of  (shock horror!) unfollowing because it got too much! (Been there done that, got the tee-shirt and wrote the post!). And just because you follow someone, there is no guarantee they will follow you back. They say that if you have even 10% of your followers liking your post, you’re doing great! I have nearly 5000 WP followers and yet my highest amount of likes has never hit more than 150 on a single post, and that is very rare… and nowhere near my 10%! Follow blogs you find interesting, inspiring, individual. You are more likely to build the rapport that your Blogily needs by following and interacting with blogs like these.
  3. Sometimes you read a post but don’t comment, because you don’t have anything to add to a discussion. At least ‘like’ the post so the blogger knows you read and appreciated the time and effort they put into the post. I have to do this often, as I simply cannot comment on all the posts I read. My ‘like’ is not an empty one, it is an acknowledgement!
  4. If you write a post after reading something that inspired you on another post, do the courtesy of crediting that blogger. Link back to their original post, and acknowledge that an idea sprouted from reading something they read. There is nothing more humbling for a blogger than reading a post that was inspired by something they wrote, but if they aren’t referred to, then they’ll never know they did that.
  5. If someone takes the time to reblog your post, or you find out they ‘pressed’ you, take the time to thank them for the share. It doesn’t take up too much time, in fact, WP will email you if you are reblogged, so there is no excuse for missing them. A simple message of thanks acknowledges the fact that they have appreciated your work enough to repost it!
  6. Once you get started with blogging, you may write a guest post on another blogger’s space. It is a big thing for a blogger to happily allow someone else to take control of their blog for a post. Write with respect, and make sure you follow the comments on that post so you can answer and thank people for reading you over on another blog! Reblog that post on yours by all means but try to shut the comments on your reblog, so the dialogue happens on your guest post!
  7. And finally, a biggie. Try not to link drop in comments! It’s probably one of the biggest bug-bears for a lot of bloggers I know. We all want to be able to showcase our posts, but by typing, “Hi! Nice Post! Here’s mine!” followed by a random link, is usually a surefire way to end up either in the spam bin, or getting your comment deleted! You find some bloggers run threads where you can leave links, that is fine. There are times when you read something that resonates, and maybe you wrote something yourself previously that would interest the blogger who wrote it. Comment on their post and maybe ask, if they’d like to read something you wrote that may be of interest to them. Alternatively, send it by their ‘Contact Me’ page, so it goes to their mailbox, rather than in the comments.

And there you have it!

These are the rules I try to live by. Things I have learned as I have established myself on the blogging circuit, and I don’t think I have offended anyone so far!

I’m sure others operate with different thoughts in mind. If you have anything to add, please let me know!

Have a wonderful Monday!

325 Comments (+add yours?)

  1. fattymccupcakes's avatar fattymccupcakes
    Oct 09, 2017 @ 21:26:49

    Super awesome tips, Ritu! It’s very disheartening to not get a reply after commenting on someone’s post. OR, they take months to reply!

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  2. mildredzhim's avatar mildredzhim
    Oct 09, 2017 @ 21:08:05

    Reblogged this on All you need to know and commented:

    You need to visit this blog

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  3. mommyvillejourney's avatar mommyvillejourney
    Oct 09, 2017 @ 20:19:07

    Reblogged this on Musings by me.

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  4. Erika's avatar Erika Kind
    Oct 09, 2017 @ 20:00:22

    Wonderful tips, sis! I agree with every single point! Most of all number 3 has become very important to me since I don’t have the time to comment on every post. It definitely is not empty!!

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  5. robbiesinspiration's avatar robbiesinspiration
    Oct 09, 2017 @ 19:11:20

    Lots of lovely advice here, Ritu. My problem is I like so many blogs. There are so many fabulous writers and bloggers out there.

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    • Ritu's avatar Ritu
      Oct 09, 2017 @ 19:25:46

      That is so true!!! I had to whittle my list down to.ones I never wanted to miss!!! These I get emails for… And the rest I catch on my reader!

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  6. Judy E Martin's avatar Judy E Martin
    Oct 09, 2017 @ 19:02:12

    I agree with all of these Sis. It is sometimes just the small things such as someone liking a post that means a lot. I too don’t get chance to comment on every post I read but I always leave an acknowledgement.
    Another thing you touched on as the follow for follow. I used to think I had to follow everyone that followed me, but couldn’t keep up!
    The best bit of advice is to just be genuine in whatever you blog about, or where commenting and visiting other blogs. 🙂

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  7. Terri Webster Schrandt's avatar Terri Webster Schrandt
    Oct 09, 2017 @ 19:01:53

    Well, Ritu, you nailed this one judging by your 8000 comments! You bring up very important points. I had to quit following so many people, or at least disable the email for many, and hopefully I can catch up in the reader. I always “like” at the very minimum, and if someone “likes” my post, I try to click to see what there post is about. Sometimes we cannot get to very comment and blogger to acknowledge, but with people I have good relationships with, I try to catch up with their posts when possible!

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  8. mrsteachermom's avatar mrsteachermom
    Oct 09, 2017 @ 18:55:15

    I’m very new to blogging and found your post to be very informative. Thank you!

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  9. thatmiddleclassgirl's avatar thatmiddleclassgirl
    Oct 09, 2017 @ 17:54:51

    well said…will keep in mind

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  10. Don Massenzio's avatar Don Massenzio
    Oct 09, 2017 @ 17:52:43

    Reblogged this on Author Don Massenzio and commented:

    Here are some great blogging manner guidelines from the But I Smile Anyway blog. I try to follow these, do you?

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  11. bashfulgirl21's avatar Yoly
    Oct 09, 2017 @ 17:11:11

    I agree with you on this post. Nicely said.

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  12. syl65's avatar syl65
    Oct 09, 2017 @ 17:01:01

    Thank you for the comment courtesy tips Sister!! I learned this over time.

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  13. OIKOS™- Art, Books & more's avatar OIKOS™-Redaktion
    Oct 09, 2017 @ 16:43:39

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  14. Julie's avatar Julie
    Oct 09, 2017 @ 14:43:29

    Great advice, Ritu, I agree with all of it. Thank you for taking the time to share it.

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  15. Tikeetha TM's avatar Tikeetha T
    Oct 09, 2017 @ 14:29:53

    Great advice. I hat e that dropping a link in the comments. Ugh!

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  16. vanbytheriver's avatar vanbytheriver
    Oct 09, 2017 @ 14:00:20

    And tips/posts like this, will prove why your blog is so very popular, Ritu. What seems like common courtesy/ basic etiquette is neither common nor basic. I like your #7 with the Contact Me suggestion, never considered leaving a link there. Well done. Party on !

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  17. joey's avatar joey
    Oct 09, 2017 @ 12:48:16

    Yes. All of that. Great tips! 🙂

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  18. Sara Gethin's avatar Sara Gethin
    Oct 09, 2017 @ 12:00:31

    As a novice blogger I’m often unsure about the etiquette, so this post is a really useful one for me – thanks, Ritu!

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  19. s4pmd's avatar Davy D
    Oct 09, 2017 @ 11:40:59

    An excellent post Ritu and some good tips. It gets across the work that has to be put in in order to manage a blog properly. I think the like issues does create problems on WordPress as there seems to be a culture of sharing likes from one blog to another in order to build up followers. I like the way you have expressed how to best deal with it.

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  20. shaunkellett's avatar shaunkellett
    Oct 09, 2017 @ 11:21:02

    This came at a poignant time, Ritu. I’ve been off sick for a week and my comments had gone unanswered! Luckily today I’ve been through everyone (I think?) and replied to them all. Still, I think a week is too long and I felt rather guilty!

    It’s interesting you mention your ‘like’ not being empty… It’s a sign you’ve read and enjoyed a post, but didn’t have anything else to add. This is something I tend to struggle with as I feel leaving a ‘like’ is ungenuine, yet I never think that about anyone simply ‘liking’ my post; it’s only a guilt I place on myself as a reader.

    Great post, as always, Ritu! Lots to think about 🙂

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    • Ritu's avatar Ritu
      Oct 09, 2017 @ 17:52:26

      Thanks Shaun! You are allowed to be ill!!!! I’ll give you that lol! Since becoming more busy on here I understand the value of likes more as I like posts genuinely!!!!

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  21. elodiegarrowaybooks's avatar afternoonofsundries
    Oct 09, 2017 @ 10:47:25

    It can be very consuming, creating a blog, taking the time to write, and have a separate life on top of it! You are right, simple kindness, humility, and grace goes a long way! I am more likely to follow someone who engages me no only on their posts, but my own! Maybe I’m just lonely but I like interacting even just through comments 🙂 wonderful as always, Madam Ritu!

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  22. Ruth's avatar Ruth
    Oct 09, 2017 @ 09:58:49

    I’ve followed way too many people, and I’m struggling to keep up with everything – I know I need to reduce my ‘following’ list to a more manageable level, but feel really bad about it so haven’t got round to it yet 😦

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  23. Geetha B's avatar Geetha B
    Oct 09, 2017 @ 09:38:24

    So apt in this blogworld. I hardly ever leave comments as I have too many blogs to read (and I am way behind in my reading by the way as I follow 1000 people). I usually read in my email and then come on wordpress just to press like as an acknowledgement that I have read and like the post. As for acknowledging comments sometimes it is tough because wordpress does not always notify you. I chanced upon comments which were left unanswered for months because I was not notified but all of a sudden a new comment took me back to that post.

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  24. brhwrite's avatar Bryntin
    Oct 09, 2017 @ 09:31:01

    Nooooo..! I just dropped a link on someone’s blog in the comments and now I feel horrible and dirty and rude and no one told me and now arrrgghhhh….!!!

    Ommmm…
    Thank you for your post Ritu, it was very informative but just a tad too late for some.

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  25. watchingthedaisies's avatar watchingthedaisies
    Oct 09, 2017 @ 09:00:26

    Thank you Ritu. This is sound advice for new and old bloggers alike. I agree with your second point in particular. It is so challenging as a new blogger to want to follow everyone. Once your heart prevails, you build up an awesome support group.

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  26. Osyth's avatar Osyth
    Oct 09, 2017 @ 08:12:08

    Well said, Mrs! Really I was delighted to read this – I have been cogitating the etiquette attached to blogging for a little while (I have my bugbears which prompt this in head discussion) and you have done a wonderful job of sound advice out to your readers. All of it sage, all of it politely written. I say bravo! 🎈

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  27. April Munday's avatar April Munday
    Oct 09, 2017 @ 08:07:36

    Good advice. I sometimes wonder what bloggers who don’t follow it are like in the flesh, as it were. They’re probably the ones who let doors swing back into the face of the person behind.

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  28. Rosie Amber's avatar Rosie Amber
    Oct 09, 2017 @ 07:57:45

    A lovely reminder, thank you.

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  29. shelleywilson72's avatar shelleywilson72
    Oct 09, 2017 @ 07:51:37

    Great tips, Ritu! I love number 3, I use the ‘like’ button on WP in a similar way to FB. If I read a post that I enjoy then it gets a like, if I have time to comment then I’ll happily offer my waffle to the comment stream. 😉

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  30. The Indecisive Eejit's avatar The Indecisive Eejit
    Oct 09, 2017 @ 07:45:46

    Good tips. Especially the link dropping and the comments one. I’m the same as you, when I like but don’t comment it’s not for the sake of it, but because I have nothing to add or no comment. The train WiFi might have been being an eejit too lol

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  31. foodzesty's avatar foodzesty
    Oct 09, 2017 @ 07:42:43

    🙂 Great tips thanks Ritu

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  32. Sue Vincent's avatar Sue Vincent
    Oct 09, 2017 @ 07:05:44

    It doesn’t take a lot to play nicely, does it? 🙂

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  33. Madelyn Griffith-Haynie, MCC, SCAC's avatar Madelyn Griffith-Haynie, MCC, SCAC
    Oct 09, 2017 @ 06:29:59

    WONDERFUL, Ritu. Even on blogs I visit, it feels icky to read “Please read my blog” then xyz-link – like asking for an invite to a dinner party. I never click on those links because I don’t want to encourage the practice.

    It’s hard for a new blogger to understand, but most of us really don’t WANT to engage with the kind of so-called follower who seems me-me-me obsessed with the growth of statistics, likes, page views or whatever. The best part of blogging and the blogging community is developing a COMMUNITY. The rest follows from there (just not overnight – but it sure lasts longer).

    In my six years of blogging, commenting almost every single day, I’ll bet I’ve left only about 10 links in total — to articles that directly relate to the blogger’s post or answering their questions. I’m trying to be helpful – not to get traffic. I hope that the blogger will pop over to read, even if they delete my comment or my link once they do, and never let me know with a like or a comment.

    Just like getting those dinner party invites, if you invite others they will sometimes (but not always) invite you back. In the blogosphere that means link to THEM as content related to your article.
    xx,
    mgh
    (Madelyn Griffith-Haynie – ADDandSoMuchMORE dot com)
    ADD/EFD Coach Training Field founder; ADD Coaching co-founder
    “It takes a village to educate a world!”

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  34. Shelly's avatar rashellbud
    Oct 09, 2017 @ 06:13:41

    Good rules and smart tips.

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  35. The Devotional Guy™'s avatar The Devotional Guy
    Oct 09, 2017 @ 06:12:33

    Excellent points. Thanks for this.

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  36. Aditya Pandey's avatar Aditya Pandey
    Oct 09, 2017 @ 06:08:45

    For new bloggers like me, it came support in disguise. Thank you

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  37. IreneDesign2011's avatar IreneDesign2011
    Oct 09, 2017 @ 05:41:27

    You are covering great etiquette here, Ritu 🙂
    I don’t use to think much about the etiquette, but more about, how I wish to be treated and treat others in a kind way. I don’t comment either, if I haven’t anything to add to a post, but give the posts a like, so the blogger knows, that I have been there.

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  38. Anindya's avatar Anindya
    Oct 09, 2017 @ 05:02:36

    Very informative and helpful guide for all bloggers, Ritu….:)….yes, we have to constantly be in the learning process in the journey of bloggging, and blog etiquettes are something we need to follow in letter and spirit…..

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  39. mildredzhim's avatar mildredzhim
    Oct 09, 2017 @ 04:52:20

    Wow this so cool. Would you mind if I reblog this. It’s so awesome

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  40. Kathy Knull's Life as it Comes Blog's avatar Saddles to Shorelines, and Life as it Comes
    Oct 09, 2017 @ 04:46:41

    Great points, thanks for sharing. 🙂

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  41. Priyadarshni Palanikumar's avatar Priyadarshni Palanikumar
    Oct 09, 2017 @ 04:45:16

    Thanks! I learnt a lot from this post!

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  42. Miriam Hurdle's avatar Miriam Hurdle
    Oct 09, 2017 @ 04:28:29

    Your advice is so pertinent, Ritu! Thank you for your experience!

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  43. riffatwajidblogs's avatar riffatwajidblogs
    Oct 09, 2017 @ 04:02:09

    Awesome tips

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  44. Inalienable Write by Francis Winifred's avatar Grant Fenton
    Oct 09, 2017 @ 03:48:46

    Great advice.

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  45. renardmoreau's avatar Renard Moreau
    Oct 09, 2017 @ 03:39:52

    [ Smiles ] Great blogging etiquette.

    Unfortunately, there are bloggers who do not respond to the comments that were made on their blog.

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  46. Jim's avatar Jim
    Oct 09, 2017 @ 03:33:15

    rules? I don’t have no rules. I don’t need no steenking rules. I’m a rebel. I know that draws you to me. hehehehehehehe

    nice post sweetie. 🙂

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  47. colinandray's avatar colinandray
    Oct 09, 2017 @ 03:19:40

    Nope – I think that you pretty much covered everything. I have only ever blocked one Comment, and that was due to unacceptable language. The Blogosphere does seem to be a generally thoughtful and courteous place, and your Post will help to keep it that way. Good one Ritu. 🙂

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  48. rothpoetry's avatar rothpoetry
    Oct 09, 2017 @ 03:17:43

    This is a very good post, Especially for new bloggers and a reminder for those of us who have been blogging for awhile!

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  49. cookandenjoyrecipes's avatar cookandenjoyrecipes
    Oct 09, 2017 @ 03:16:11

    You’re such an awesome mentor and guide to me. Thank you Ritu.

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  50. Kurian's avatar Kurian
    Oct 09, 2017 @ 03:07:43

    Thank you Ritu for these wonderful tips. No wonder you’re my role model and guide. I am happy to be your follower with desire to learn more

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