“Patience is not the ability to wait, but the ability to keep a good attitude while waiting.” Anonymous.
I needed that reminder today Spidey!
I find myself needing a whole lot of patience at the moment, what with a teen and tween, busy work schedule, as well as an invalid Hubby Dearest at home who, if he was mobile, would be climbing the walls, and is suffering cabin fever as he can’t get out and about at all.
Usually, I can keep up with everything, but at the moment, as well as what I usually do, I am being solo taxi for all the activities that the kids have, as well as for Hubby, when he needs to have a change of scenery.
I don’t sleep soundly as I am constantly on alert incase he needs anything in the middle of the night.
And of course, I can’t forget Sonu Singh.
Since he’s been on his diet, he has suddenly become more aware of the earlier daylight and will start his miaowing and call for food from 5am…
All this makes for a rather tired Ritu, and I will fall asleep early(ish) for a fitful hours, before waking, and waiting for His Lordship to get upstairs too, then sleep. On the weekend, the moments I get to sit down end up with me snoozing at the wrong times, and then I wake in a panic as I have to get the kids someplace at a certain time.
Then there is the inevitability that one of them will have forgotten something, making my journey twice as long…
Then, well, anything at all, however little will be like the straw that broke the camels back, and I explode! It’s like any patience I have had with invalid and annoying youngsters vanishes!
It’s not just Momster that comes out but an emotional wreck who gets teary too…
But if I had a little patience, and took a step back, thought about what I needed to do, the hows and wheres and whyfors, I’d be able to cope.
Easy to say… But I’ll try to do!
So… tell me, are you patient?
thereluctantpoet
Apr 29, 2019 @ 01:22:15
Thanks so much Ritu for sharing this great post!! I so dearly appreciate and am honored to have you spend time with my blog!
xoxoxo
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Ritu
Apr 29, 2019 @ 06:55:13
💜🙏🏼
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bikerchick57
Apr 29, 2019 @ 00:03:35
Ritu, I would not be patient if I were in your shoes. I hope you can find the time to get some good sleep.
I TRY to be patient always, but it depends on the day, time and how I’m feeling. We all try, but our humanness sometimes gets in the way. Don’t kick yourself if you can’t be like Spidey!
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Ritu
Apr 29, 2019 @ 06:55:05
Humanness is definitely a downfall… But not, because we are human after all!
Thank you Mary 💜🙏🏼
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Portofino
Apr 28, 2019 @ 19:56:30
I tried patience once. It took too long.
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Ritu
Apr 28, 2019 @ 20:25:41
🤪
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willowdot21
Apr 28, 2019 @ 19:17:59
Ritu it’s so difficult being chief cook and bottle washer when your other half is out of action. I promise that it will not be for ever. Been there and done it so I am not fibbing 💜💜
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Ritu
Apr 28, 2019 @ 20:26:04
2.5 months and counting…. 😜
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willowdot21
Apr 28, 2019 @ 23:05:43
I know 💜💜💜💜🍷
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OIKOS™-Publishing
Apr 28, 2019 @ 18:33:47
Yes, sleep is the best way to overcome hunger. 😉 Sonu’s patience is honoured. Lol
Dont hurry to much Sis! All will getting better! Best wishes, Michael
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Ritu
Apr 28, 2019 @ 19:10:37
I hope so!
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robertawrites235681907
Apr 28, 2019 @ 16:59:13
Am I patient? An interesting question. I am patient with my children and old people. I am not patient with work colleagues. So where does that leave me?
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Ritu
Apr 28, 2019 @ 17:27:22
Patiently impatient!!!
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Tanusri sen
Apr 28, 2019 @ 16:03:32
“Patience is not the ability to wait, but the ability to keep a good attitude while waiting.” – great quote on patience
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Ritu
Apr 28, 2019 @ 16:14:14
It is, isn’t it?
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Darlene
Apr 28, 2019 @ 15:42:35
I feel for you as I am not a patient person either, at least not at home. Hang in there. It will get better, I’m sure. An excellent quote!
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Ritu
Apr 28, 2019 @ 15:46:54
Thanks Darlene ❤️
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johnrieber
Apr 28, 2019 @ 15:18:49
Hmmmm….patience….not a word that is used often to describe me!
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Ritu
Apr 28, 2019 @ 15:21:56
Ha ha!
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syl65
Apr 28, 2019 @ 15:12:06
I am patient and I try not to let it turn into complacency. You get through these trying times Sister and there will be an abundance of good ones waiting for you 🤗
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Ritu
Apr 28, 2019 @ 15:21:48
I can imagine you being patient Brother ❤️
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syl65
Apr 28, 2019 @ 16:33:18
Thank you Sister, I appreciate it ❤️
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Dan Antion
Apr 28, 2019 @ 13:25:27
Hang in there, Ritu. Sorry, that’s the best I can offer.
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Ritu
Apr 28, 2019 @ 13:42:59
Thanks Dan!
Am hanging!
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Rachael Stray | https://rachaelstray.com/
Apr 28, 2019 @ 10:55:27
I’m not patient at all. I do try but I do lose my cool. It’s something I want to tackle as I become a Mam for the first time. I just get frustrated I think. At myself for losing my patience and at others.
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Ritu
Apr 28, 2019 @ 10:57:57
Thing is Rachael, it is natural, when you are tired, to lose patience.
I applaud those mums who seem so Zen within their child rearing years!!!
Too many pots on the boil means I think I am always hyper aware and sensitive, and I don’t rwally switch off properly…
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Rachael Stray | https://rachaelstray.com/
Apr 28, 2019 @ 10:59:14
You are like superwoman Ritu you do so much for so many people. I think we always are our worst critics too x
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Ritu
Apr 28, 2019 @ 11:00:15
I think we are too…
And thank you.
Not superwoman… Like most women 😘
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April Munday
Apr 28, 2019 @ 08:17:18
I’m not surprised you’re lacking in patience an a bit teary at the moment. You’re carrying a heavy burden. Look after yourself.
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Ritu
Apr 28, 2019 @ 09:37:06
I’m trying April, thank you
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NJ
Apr 28, 2019 @ 07:33:20
I love that quote 🙂 I think I am not that patient as a person but I am trying to control the burst of emotions specially in tough times.
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Ritu
Apr 28, 2019 @ 09:36:42
We need to exercise a little control!
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NJ
Apr 28, 2019 @ 09:42:54
True😉
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pranabaxom
Apr 28, 2019 @ 07:10:00
Married for thirty six years and you are asking am I patient 😂
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Ritu
Apr 28, 2019 @ 09:36:25
🤣
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Shivangi
Apr 28, 2019 @ 06:17:51
It is normal Ritu…under the circumstances! Take care❤️
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Ritu
Apr 28, 2019 @ 09:36:09
Thanks Shivangi xx
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Dorinda Duclos
Apr 28, 2019 @ 05:12:30
No, I’m not, Ritu. I have a short fuse, but I’ve been working on it. Under the circumstances, you shouldn’t beat yourself up over it. One person taking care of three, plus yourself (I hope), can be more exhausting than anything. Find time for you. It’s important for your own well being. ❤
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Ritu
Apr 28, 2019 @ 09:36:00
I am trying Dorinda… Its not easy though!, ❤️
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Dorinda Duclos
Apr 28, 2019 @ 13:50:41
I know! Lock yourself in the bathroom if you have to!! ❤️
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Ritu
Apr 28, 2019 @ 13:51:51
Tonight… Its my bath and book night!
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Dorinda Duclos
Apr 28, 2019 @ 13:53:34
There ya go! Enjoy it! 🛀🏻
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