Phew! Most definitely a ‘Phew!’ moment, as we have finally reached half term!
So, drinks at the ready?

- If we were having chai I’d begin as always, with school. Yet another week that I can only describe as ‘interesting’ with out crying! No, I lie, it wasn’t as bad as all that, however we were down two members of the team for the first half which is never easy, with our one to one children. The student I was mentoring was also off, as she had tested positive, and it was her last week, so I only saw her on the Friday! I had courses to do, and I also has to give a presentation to the rest of the staff about what the EYFS is, and how our learning segues into the rest of the National Curriculum. I was nervous as anything, but got though it! On Friday, we were meant to be having a school based Music Day, with workshops, however, out of three, two cancelled due to covid and other illnesses! Still, our class had a great time, with music and movement instead of P.E. and a whole afternoon of exploring the different instruments we go out of the music cupboard! It was noisy, yes, but so much fun! I was definitely ready for when Friday came to a close, though!
- If we were having chai I’d tell you that I, on a whim, found and bought this Anti Burnout journal, which I am hoping to use properly over the next 12 weewks, to set myself up, for a calmer life… fingers crossed!
- If we were having chai I’d say that I was inundated by unexpected flowers, last week, too. Now, you guys know me well enough. If I can reach out and help someone, I will, and there were several occasions at work, this week, where colleagues needed extra support, from my head needing someone to relieve her gate duty twice, to one collleague who was having kittens about how to log into a semiar she had to watch, to another one who was hit buy a child, and needed support in several ways, and another colleague who was taking an after school club that went a bit mad, and she needed more support. As always, I reached out, because besides me wanting to help, anyway, as part of Management, we need to step up in all situations, and my help resulted in me coming in gtwo mornings to be greeted by flowers, and on one occasion a lovely thank you message. It’s my job to be there to support, and I never expect something in return for heloping, but these were such lovely gestures, they touched my heart.
- If we were having chai I’d report back that I did my online shopping again, and apart from one swap, and one not available otem, all was good, plus I was sent bonus lamb chops! Result!
- If we were having chai I’d tell you that Pops had his second hernia operation on Friday, and though it was a littel more complex than the last one, he was back home that night, and now has another few months of taking things very easy. Wish him happy healing, Peeps!
- If we were having chai I’d mention that the birthdays continued as it was Hubby Dearest, and Mum in Law’s birthday on Tuesday, so there was more cake to be eaten! We still have come celebrating to do, but that will come!
- If we were having chai I’d say that cricket came back to haunt me on Sunday as Lil Man started his nets at the club he hopes to join, this season. They were held at that fantastic Hogwarts-esque school we visited for a tournament last July, but were late, so I am rather tired, as I type this up. It meant my writing was cut short, but I did write a few hand-written notes, so I don’t feel it was too redundant a time.
- If we were having chai I’d end with our gorgeous Feline baby, as always, who has been extra loving this week, and treated me to a Kitty massage, one morning, too!

This week, there may be no school, but that doesn’t mean anything in the life of Ritu! Obviously, there is Valentine’s Day on Monday, then Tuesday and Wednesday are filled with rather early appointments that I need to take the Mother in law too, as well as an orthodontics one for Lil Princess, and then there is an appointment at the beautician, too. We hope to have one more day booked in with friends, as well then on Saturday Mother in Law goes in for her first knee replacement surgery. And on Sunday it is Lil Princess’s birthday and also my Father in law’s 70th on the same day! Phew! And then, back to school! Let’s hope I get some words in!
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Feb 18, 2022 @ 15:23:33
Busy girl/busy week. To give you an idea of my week, today is Friday and I usually have my coffee and chat with you on Monday! Yikes! Maybe I need that burnout journal.
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Feb 18, 2022 @ 15:30:56
I hope you’re giving yourself time, too!!!
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Feb 14, 2022 @ 19:10:48
Hi Ritu, I hope your Pops recovers quickly. You are really lovely to be such a great support to others. That is good leadership. 💖
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Feb 14, 2022 @ 19:56:33
Thank you, Robbie. It’s a role I fell into. The best I can do is give it my all 😁
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Feb 14, 2022 @ 18:42:24
That Anti-Burn-Out book is a great idea. So, enjoy the break even more, Sis 💖
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Feb 14, 2022 @ 18:47:50
I’m going to try, Sis!!!
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Feb 14, 2022 @ 19:10:56
If you react similar like me then you are expecting too much from yourself which sets you under pressure. We cannot and we don’t need to always be strong – even though we think we have to. One step at a time and allowing ourseselve to skip our self-imposed obligations to just breathe for a moment, or two, or three…
Sorry, Sis, that just popped up. Sending you big hugs and much love 🤗💖
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Feb 14, 2022 @ 19:55:47
One thing I have learned, Sis, is to not put too much pressure on myself. There is already enough, with work and family. I try not to make my pleasures become pressures. That way, I will enjoy my moments of creativity. 💜
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Feb 15, 2022 @ 13:40:36
Sounds wonderful! That is exactly what I was talking about 👍
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Feb 15, 2022 @ 16:49:45
🙏🏼
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Feb 14, 2022 @ 16:16:44
Wow! Wonderful flowers, now spring can come! Happy Valentine’s Day, Sis! I hope with your mom-in-laws surgery all will go well, and also your dad will recover as best. So, this week you have to absolve a bake marathon. 😉 Trust in Sonu, he will help knead the dough. Lol Best wishes, Michael
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Feb 14, 2022 @ 16:20:15
Always appreciate your words, Bro!
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Feb 15, 2022 @ 13:21:37
:-)) I am always honored, Sis! xx Michael
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Feb 14, 2022 @ 16:13:37
Reblogged this on NEW BLOG HERE >> https:/BOOKS.ESLARN-NET.DE.
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Feb 14, 2022 @ 16:05:13
Always so much going on Ritu! Hope all goes well for your Mother-In-Law’s surgery!
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Feb 14, 2022 @ 16:19:12
Thanks, John!
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Feb 14, 2022 @ 13:34:42
You are always the giver, Ritu. Those flowers were well deserved. Best to you!
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Feb 14, 2022 @ 14:07:53
Thank you, Jennie 🎉
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Feb 15, 2022 @ 01:27:59
You are welcome, Ritu!
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Feb 14, 2022 @ 10:45:33
Give yourself a hug from me, Sis! It’s Valentine’s Day!
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Feb 14, 2022 @ 13:00:21
And a huge one right back at you, Sis ❤
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Feb 14, 2022 @ 10:15:51
Sounds like school was hectic and you got to wear your super hero Cape often!
All those birthdays, live and best wishes from me to all plus hospital visits and operations, good luck to Mother in law and speedy recovery to Pops, plus the orthodontist…..Phew.
Please try and find time for you Sis. Happy Valentine’s Day.💜💜💜💜🏠
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Feb 14, 2022 @ 10:26:09
Thank you, Sis It has been Manic, and shows no sign of letting up, right now, either! I will try to get some me time.
Happy Valentines Day, sis ❤
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Feb 14, 2022 @ 10:54:44
Thank you Sis, just remember if you don’t rest you might burn out and then where will , school and home and relatives be ….? Plus when it comes down to it no one is really indispensable at work….they always manage to cope .😳 Hugs 💜💜💜💜💜
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Feb 14, 2022 @ 13:00:38
I know, sis. I will try my best, I promise!
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Feb 14, 2022 @ 13:31:17
Good!
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Feb 14, 2022 @ 09:53:22
Hold up for one cotton-picking moment! Where is your time out in all of this activity?
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Feb 14, 2022 @ 10:02:05
I know, I’m wondering the same!!!
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Feb 14, 2022 @ 19:48:02
🙏🏻💕
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Feb 14, 2022 @ 09:18:17
You’re a very good friend and colleague, I can see how much you are appreciated. I’m glad you have half term to have a break from school at least. There was a 16th birthday here yesterday, so we had cake and a meal out over the weekend which was lovely. I hope you Pops has a swift recovery, good that the surgery is all out of the way for him now. And I hope you mother-in-law’s knee replacement goes well. Have a lovely week and try and fit in some Ritu time. CJ xx
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Feb 14, 2022 @ 10:01:47
Thank you so much, CJ! I’m just being me, you know! But glad you’re well, too.
Hoping for some preparation on top of everything else, here! X
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Feb 14, 2022 @ 09:01:17
what a busy week and glad you have some time off, but still busy -)
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Feb 14, 2022 @ 10:00:27
Thank you Beth. Never idle, me!
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Feb 14, 2022 @ 06:41:11
Oy vey. Your week off sounds about as hectic as school. Sending healing thoughts to Pops and Birthday wishes to the birthday buddies,
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Feb 14, 2022 @ 07:43:59
Thank you, Lauren. Yes, it is all totally manic, here, despite being holiday time!
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Feb 14, 2022 @ 05:31:52
I’m glad you’ve a week off from school.
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Feb 14, 2022 @ 07:43:04
Me too, Sajde. I truly need it, but it’s still a busy week!
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Feb 14, 2022 @ 09:17:26
At least there’s no work to go to.
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Feb 14, 2022 @ 10:00:48
True. But plenty of other commitments!
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Feb 14, 2022 @ 10:23:50
I know, that’s always the case.
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