Chai And A Chat #205 #ChaiAndAChat

03 Oct 2022 29 Comments

by Ritu in Chai and a Chat Tags: , , , , ,

Morning, Peeps. I honestly don’t know where the time is going!

Got a drink? Great!

  • If we were having chai, I’d say that week five in school was all about seeing how the children settled into the proper Reception routine and timetable. Reality has definitely hit for them now, as they realise that school isn’t ALL playing. There is a lot of it, but we must start focusing on certain things that they HAVE to attempt so we can help them with the beginnings of academic learning, as well as nurturing their social sides. Bugs are hitting, too, with temperatures and coughs and colds… A typical start in EYFS, to be honest!
  • If we were having chai, I’d tell you my own two are settled back into school now, with Lil Man gearing up for his final exams in May/June (how did that happen?) He isn’t interested in going to university. He’d rather get a job, or start an apprenticeship of some sort, in Business and Marketing and learn while he earns. Fair enough, I say. We had an evening event where the school staff talked about the options available to the children after A-levels. It is so different to when we were at this age and stage of education that I am glad I went to gain an understanding of what is out there.
  • If we were having chai, I’d say that the weather has definitely turned, too. It was cold most mornings, and the wind and rain really picked up on Frida evening and Sunday morning!
  • If we were having chai, I’d mention that I tried something new on Sunday evening. Lil Princess and I went for a walk, as has become a lovely habit. She has become quite introverted over the last two years, and it is great to see her begin to come out of her shell and ask to go for a walk. Anyway, I digress! We walked a little further today, as she suggested we walk to the local Co-op. All in all, the round trip was 3.2 miles, which was further than she had walked in a long time. I was out of breath and experienced hot flushes as we hit the home run, but it was worth seeing her out and about. While there, I picked up this intriguing new Coca-Cola flavour, Dreamworld… There was nothing on it to describe the flavour. Apparently, it tastes like dreams! It was weird. I am not sure what my dreams would taste like…
  • If we were having chai, I’d leave you with Sonu Singh. He decided I had been reading too much, so fell asleep on my Kindle! Bless him.
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This week, I think school is relatively ‘normal’, though what is ‘normal’ when it’s at home? One staff member is on a day off on Monday, so cover is to be provided there, but the rest is pretty much the usual, apart from Thursday when I have a meeting at lunchtime. And I have a doctor’s appt to discuss the perimenopause again on Tuesday… wish me luck!

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29 Comments (+add yours?)

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  2. OIKOS™- Art, Books & more
    Oct 04, 2022 @ 22:13:58

    You see, Sis! Sonu is really caring for you. 😉 No picture can describe better the statement “The sleep of the just”. Lol I wish you a wonderful week! Enjoy every sunray you can catch. xx Michael

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  3. Sadje
    Oct 04, 2022 @ 16:59:01

    Hope you have a good week Ritu

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  4. Erika
    Oct 03, 2022 @ 18:45:20

    It is still so difficult for the kids to decide which direction to go. However, it is only a start and they don’t need to stick with it when they find out that they feel better at university or at an apprenticeship. I understand your son that he wants to stand a little bit more on his own feet but as you said, it is important to think further and therefore collect all information you can.

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  5. syl65
    Oct 03, 2022 @ 17:08:31

    Lil Man is on the cusp of adulthood. I’m glad you could enjoy a nice bonding walk with Lil Princess and I hope you have a nice week overall, Sister 🙏🏽💛

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  6. CJ
    Oct 03, 2022 @ 16:28:17

    There are some great apprenticeships out there. I went to a local precision engineering place a while back and a young man there had done an apprenticeship and degree with them, ending up in software and travelling to the US regularly as well as owning a car and a house – so much more advanced than students who had gone to uni fulltime. I have no doubt your son will find some really good opportunities. CJ xx

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  7. johnrieber
    Oct 03, 2022 @ 14:56:09

    I love that you take a long walk with your daughter…a great way to connect, bond and catch up, while getting a nice bit of exercise!

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    • Ritu
      Oct 03, 2022 @ 19:28:10

      It’s been a long time coming, John. She’s been going through stuff and we’ve had a hell of a time the last couple of years, but I can see a light at the end of the tunnel… 💛

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      • johnrieber
        Oct 03, 2022 @ 20:44:09

        Ritu, I had some issues with my son in his teenage years and he came out of it shining…it can be a challenge but showing love, compassion, understanding and intelligent leadership – all traits I know you display daily, will prevail – it takes time and can’t be rushed sadly…I also think some “perfect teens” have a harder time entering their 20’s – late rebellion!

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      • Ritu
        Oct 03, 2022 @ 20:45:38

        Thank you for the words of encouragement, John 🤗
        I’m hoping they are both getting the angst out, now… And that adulthood will be much easier for them both, and us!!!

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  8. willowdot21
    Oct 03, 2022 @ 11:46:40

    Hi Sis it the first time in weeks that I have actually had time to not only read and digest but actually answer your post!
    I am sorry for the lack of comments lately …I am reading and watching….I am hoping I am getting back on top this week…who knows.
    It’s wonderful to hear your getting more time with Lilprincess an evening walk can be a huge mind settler and great rebonding chance.
    Like you I can’t believe Lil man is almost ready for the outside world….where have the years gone?
    Good luck at the doctor’s I hope they can get you sorted just don’t let the fobb you off with …’its normal’ or ‘its your age” and all that bollocks it’s 2022 they can and should help. Don’t get me started. Love ya Sis 💜💜💜

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  9. Annette Rochelle Aben
    Oct 03, 2022 @ 11:22:08

    All good juju with the Doctor’s appt. on Tuesday, Sis! ❤

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  10. beth
    Oct 03, 2022 @ 08:52:21

    another busy week, with the kids settling in, and your own finding their way

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