“If you don’t like something, change it. If you can’t change it, change the way you think about it.” – Mary Engelbreit
Really liking the thought behind this quote.
You know, it’s true, we can’t always change circumstances or situations. In these times it is important to be malleable. Acceptable to change. Be able to compromise.
I remember a piece if advice I was given, when I was about to get married. A lady, much respected by my parents, wanted to meet me. She had come over from India. She said “The other name for marriage, especially in our Indian culture, is compromise. Nowadays too many young girls get married, and try to change everything in their in-laws house straight away. What you should do, is go there, and see. Give love, recieve love and with love, you can help people to change. If you bend first, slowly others will bend with you.”
Might sound a little backwards to some, but you know, it works!
When the wind blows, bend, or you may end up broken.
Bend peeps, bend!
Have a wonderful Sunday 😊












