“Never assume that things will be straightforward… the minute you think that, the opposite always seems to happen!”
Ritu Bhathal
For Linda’s #1LinerWeds
08 Feb 2023 15 Comments
in #1linerweds, #onelinerwednesday Tags: Blog, Blog Post, Blogger, Blogging, Linda G Hill, One Liner Wednesday
“Never assume that things will be straightforward… the minute you think that, the opposite always seems to happen!”
Ritu Bhathal
For Linda’s #1LinerWeds
06 Feb 2023 30 Comments
in Chai and a Chat Tags: Blog, Blog Post, Blogger, Blogging, Catch Up, Chai and a Chat
Well, hell,o February! The month of love and birthdays. Oh, so many birthdays in this family of mine!
I’m supping my green tea. What about you?

This week is the last week of term before our half-term break. That means half the academic year is done! I think it is. pretty straightforward week, along with a few days where certain staff are in and out or swapping days, and then we break up. It is also Lil Man’s last week of mocks. Plus, it is Hubby Dearest and my mother-in-law’s birthday, too! Cake week!
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05 Feb 2023 29 Comments
in Spidey's Serene Sundays Tags: #jusjojan, Blog, Blog Post, Blogger, Blogging, Self care
“Almost everything will work again if you unplug it for a few mintues, including you.”
Anne Lamott
Thanks, Spidey. I think we all need that timely reminder. I’m sure we have used this quote before, but it is such a good one!
There have been days, recently, when I have felt as if I am scraping the barrel to get the enthusiasm and energy required for daily life with a bunch of 4-5-year-olds, and then to deal with home life too. Oh, and as Perimenopause to the mix, along with not being able to get my HRT!
It’s not been easy, I have to say. Without going into details I have to say that sometimes, it feels like going in to work has been the calmest place, and if you have ever worked in the Early Years, you’ll realise the enormity of that confession.
Still, here I am. I’m still functioning. Still doing what I need to do.
I get asked by those of my friends and family who know the ins and outs, how I am coping.
It’s simple. To me, anyway.
There are times when I have to put myself first.
Not selfishly.
But I need to make decisions that will help me get through.
The first is to lessen the unnecessary pressures I put on myself.
I want to write. Sure I do. But with my brain not having the bandwidth to create, right now, I don’t force myself.
If I haven’t cleaned the house from top to bottom, I don’t beat myself up.
If I have had to order a takeaway or stick a ready meal in the oven, so be it.
And the second is to make time, even if it is only a short while, to do the things I love.
So I’ll read (lots, as you know). It may only be for a few minutes a night in the week since I am physically and mentally exhausted from work, but I’ll make up for it on the weekend.
I’m exercising, for me.
I have my weekly soak in the bathtub.
I try to meet with friends, away from the family, once in a while.
I’ll spoil myself with a little gift.
Because I need to feel that I am worth it, too. Only then can I get through everything else.
So, Peeps, what is your favourite form of Self Care?
04 Feb 2023 27 Comments
in #SoCS Tags: #jusjojan, Blog, Blog Post, Blogger, Blogging, Linda G Hill, Socs
Linda’s SoCS prompt…
Your Friday prompt for Stream of Consciousness Saturday is “perfection.’” Use it any way you like. Enjoy!
Do you strive for perfection? Always seeking satisfaction Of that perfect photo Or the perfect word The perfect recipe The perfect song heard... Or is good enough, enough? Will it get you by? Do we need to lower standards To decrease the pressure And ease our mental health? Perfection is a thing of beauty, When it's presented to us by Mother Nature It shows perseverance If we achieve it By ourselves Some things, yes, They have to be perfect But some can slide Don't give yourself the stress Ritu 2023
01 Feb 2023 13 Comments
in #1linerweds, #onelinerwednesday Tags: Blog, Blog Post, Blogger, Blogging, Linda G Hill, One Liner Wednesday
“It takes just as much time to build good habits as it does to form the bad ones.”
Ritu Bhathal
For Linda’s #1LinerWeds