
“You don’t choose your family. They are God’s gift to you.”
Desmond Tutu
Such a blessed quote, Spidey. Thank you very much.
Depending on the time you read this, I will either be preparing, packing, travelling (in sweltering heat), or sat at a safe distance from my parents.
Yes, finally, after eight months, thanks to this God forsaken virus, we have made the decision to take a short trip for a few days to be with Pops and Mum.
I’ve sat here, constantly, watching the news and all the updates. Thankfully where they are, and where we are, aren’t in any sort of lockdown situations.
So, after a hearty brunch, and making sure everyone has used the bathroom before we leave, we shall head off to Brum. The hope is that we have no need to stop at services, and fingers crossed for a clear route so we are there within the three hours (not least because my air conditioning is not working, again, and we are going through a real heatwave at the moment!).
I think this has been the longest time that has passed where I haven’t seen my parents. It has been really tough.
I worry about them, and at the height of the pandemic, and lockdown, there was no chance of going to them, then when restrictions began lifting, I was back in school, so again, no chance.
The last two weeks of holidays have been filled with appointments so finally we have the time to go, with no worries.
Video calls have been a blessing, for sure, but nothing beats actually being with them.
I know we will need to distance, but I’m just going to thank God we are able to be with them.
So, who have you missed the most, during the period of lockdown?
Aug 13, 2020 @ 16:58:12
I’m reading this a bit late and I know you are safely at your parents having a great time.
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Aug 13, 2020 @ 19:32:54
Thanks, Robbie. Safely there, and back again now!!
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Aug 14, 2020 @ 06:02:49
Gosh, times passes so quickly.
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Aug 14, 2020 @ 08:41:36
I know!
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Aug 13, 2020 @ 01:10:22
Reblogged this on The Reluctant Poet.
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Aug 11, 2020 @ 16:31:01
Ritu, I am not getting your posts in my reader regularly. I had to go and fish out the posts today. Not sure what happened in WP.
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Aug 11, 2020 @ 16:37:42
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Aug 11, 2020 @ 16:37:55
Maybe unfollow, then follow again? X
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Aug 11, 2020 @ 16:53:22
Will try.
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Aug 11, 2020 @ 12:59:32
Here’s to a wonderful visit, long overdue thanks to Covid.
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Aug 11, 2020 @ 13:00:59
Thank you, Jennie 🥰
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Aug 11, 2020 @ 15:56:37
You’re welcome, Ritu! 😀
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Aug 12, 2020 @ 13:00:07
You’re welcome, Ritu.
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Aug 10, 2020 @ 12:51:41
How could I miss Spidey….. good news is that he sticks around and glad you are finally seeing the family which is the most important I think.
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Aug 10, 2020 @ 12:59:44
Thanks, Charly!! I wouldn’t let him go.misding!
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Aug 10, 2020 @ 14:08:10
You better not him go off the cliff
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Aug 10, 2020 @ 14:11:00
I wouldn’t 😁
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Aug 10, 2020 @ 02:13:03
I’m very happy for you. As someone who hasn’t seen his son in six months, I feel your pain. Have a wonderful visit!
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Aug 10, 2020 @ 08:22:42
Thank you Pete. It’s so wonderful to be here 🥰
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Aug 09, 2020 @ 19:51:05
Have a great time. I last saw my mom in June for a few hours. She lives about an hour and a half away but is 97 so I really don’t want to chance bringing anything to her.
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Aug 09, 2020 @ 19:53:38
It was a huge decision, but now I’m.here, I’m so glad 🥰🥰
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Aug 09, 2020 @ 19:54:27
I felt that way too.
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Aug 09, 2020 @ 18:44:34
Thats great news, Sis! Congratulations! Hope you will enjoy the meeting, and find some time to relax too. Best wishes, Michael
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Aug 09, 2020 @ 19:35:23
Thanks Bro!
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Aug 09, 2020 @ 17:56:24
How wonderful ❤ Enjoy your visit!
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Aug 09, 2020 @ 18:15:10
Thank you 🥰
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Aug 09, 2020 @ 17:34:54
Ritu, isn’t it crazy that you have to plan in this way in order to see your parents. An invisible danger lurks unseen, and you have to worry about spreading it inadvertently to those who love most…it’s great to hear about all of the precautions you are taking…if we all did that, we’d be so much further along in our battle!
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Aug 09, 2020 @ 17:35:41
It has been so crazy John. I’m just so glad I’m here with them. Only a couple of days, but still. Much needed 💜
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Aug 09, 2020 @ 17:59:46
Indeed!
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Aug 09, 2020 @ 18:00:46
Oh, and I sent my Mom your book and she wanted me to tell you how much she loved it and sees many more adventures to come for your characters! She really enjoyed the cultural perspective that impacts the universe desire for love!
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Aug 09, 2020 @ 18:16:01
That is so lovely to hear 🥰🥰🥰
My mum finally finished it last week, too. I’m planning a post about my mother’s thoughts!!!
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Aug 09, 2020 @ 15:36:58
Have fun. I’ll merely note that the Tutu quote doesn’t fit every family… or perhaps proves something he didn’t intend by it.
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Aug 09, 2020 @ 15:41:24
Thanks His Geoffleship.
You’re right, it is by the case for all families, unfortunately. 😥
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Aug 09, 2020 @ 14:43:07
Be safe.
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Aug 09, 2020 @ 14:47:27
Thank you. We are here!!!
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Aug 09, 2020 @ 14:56:08
Great!!!
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Aug 09, 2020 @ 14:40:42
Have a wonderful journey of love, Ritu.
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Aug 09, 2020 @ 14:47:57
Thank you so much, John 🥰 we’ve just arrived.
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Aug 09, 2020 @ 17:38:25
😊
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Aug 09, 2020 @ 14:25:16
Have safe journey Sis, hope you are either there or nearly there 💜 have a wonderful time 💜💜💜💜
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Aug 09, 2020 @ 14:49:19
We’ve just arrived, sis 🥰
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Aug 09, 2020 @ 15:02:23
Yes! Glad you are safely there give everyone my love please 💜
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Aug 09, 2020 @ 15:40:13
Thank you sis. I will do xx
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Aug 09, 2020 @ 17:00:40
💜🐑🐑💜
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Aug 09, 2020 @ 13:41:21
Have a wonderful time with your parents. I know how much it means to you being with them. Big hugs to you and them 💖
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Aug 09, 2020 @ 14:49:02
Thank you, Sis. We’ve just arrived 💜🙏🏽
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Aug 09, 2020 @ 20:37:30
💖💖
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Aug 09, 2020 @ 09:13:27
Safe Journey, Ritu!
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Aug 09, 2020 @ 09:13:40
Thank you, Steve 😊
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