No pressure….

Tomorrow there are a lot of young children aged 6-7 and 10-11 about to start their SATs at school.

For those not in the UK these are tests that are required to be taken to gauge children’s progress in Primary School.

Though I agree we need to see how children are doing, the world does not revolve around Grammar, Spelling, Writing, Reading and Maths… Many children do not have these 2 subjects as their strong points.

But the system tells us that using these results we can see if the children are learning, and progressing at the correct rate.

Really? What about that artist, or musician, or scientist even. That dancer, nurse, hairdresser, or vet? Each child is unique, and has a talent. It’s up to us to nurture that talent too.

I know we need to have an element of success in literacy and numeracy to succeed in most things, but the pressure put on children so young is immense. Children don’t learn or progress at the same level. They don’t all even learn in the same way. Many children are almost written off because these tests tell the government that these children are apparently below par.

It’s important as teachers, and as parents, that we instil the self confidence in our children to know that whatever these results, they are still brilliant at something. 

Many of these kids will pull it together, maybe later than others, but with the right encouragement, they will get there. And who should encourage them? Who should be their biggest cheerleaders? 

It’s us parents. Mums and dads. 

Don’t make them feel that these tests, and things like the 11+, are the be-all and end-all of school life… For some children, that negativity, and pushing to achieve something that might not be within their grasp, can be the straw that breaks the camel’s back. 

Kaput! There goes the child’s thirst for learning….

Be there. Support your child. Give them all the help they need, and if, despite the help, they don’t achieve the scores you wanted them to, don’t berate them. Comfort them, and show them, high light their great points, because they do have them.

Boost their confidence, so they don’t feel like learning and school is worthless for them.

Tests.

Personally I really don’t like them, but I know they are a necessity. Just don’t let them and their scores rule your life. And the way you are with your child.

Good luck to those sitting them though! Unfortunately I can’t change that!

THE Face!

  

Do you understand?
Do you sympathise?
It’s an expression all parents have
Just to emphasise
Their feelings to their lovely kids
Without raising their voice
Though when said kids don’t even see
There really is no choice
But if they see that murderous look
That glance from mum or dad
They immediately know that things ain’t good,
In fact theyre pretty bad!

Memories really help

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Cherish all those moments.
Lock those memories in your mind.
For they’ve been created by you, with you, for you.
When things seem bad, look back and realize they weren’t always hard, and you’ll come out of whatever parenting problem you’re experiencing, a better parent, and that things WILL get better.

But I Smile Anyway...

Please Mummy!!!

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OK, so mine aren’t that awful, but there are days…..
Have a giggle Peeps! 😁

But I Smile Anyway...

Rats!!!

In my garden!!!
Well, a dead one, anyway…
(Sorry, there might be pictures you don’t like here…)

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Lil Man saw the photo and thought it looked cute… Dead, but cute…
But the circle of life, as it is, didn’t leave the rat there…

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Quite a large raven came by, and after stalking for a while, making sure he wasn’t encroaching on anyone else’s territory, had a feast… While we were eating breakfast… Lovely!
Lil Man thought it was like watching the Discovery Channel live!
Gory, I know, but its an education in itself… This is how creatures in the wild survive…

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And Sonu Singh watched on… He couldn’t see the rat, but watched the bird for ages… Maybe he was thinking, “oooh! If I was outside, I’d have a fun game of chase!”
Then, raven flew away, leaving a pile of entrails and a rat shell…
I couldn’t leave it for the kids to see, so armed with a shovel, I carefully carried the remains to one side, and disposed of them, as best I could…
(Gory pic alert!)

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Poor rat, but seriously, what were you doing in my garden??? I sure hope there isn’t a colony of you somewhere nearby!

But I Smile Anyway...

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