A New Challenge- The purpose of my life

Thank you Judy, for a new challenge!

A Momma’s View has set a challenge and prompt that she had nominated me, and a few others for. In it, she asks for us to say what we think our purpose in life is and what we’ll take home when we leave.

Judy has kindly passed this on to me and a few others… I hope I do it justice! 🙂

I think trying to define our purpose in life as a young person, is actually very hard. Your own thinking changes so much, and your perspective.

Your younger self may feel that they are able to conquer the world, change everything of importance. You don’t realise just what certain things actually require, to happen! Then as you get older, you start to realise that you are actually a very tiny piece in this huge world, and that sometimes the grand ideas and dreams you might have had, scale down to a realistic level, and your own thought, for your purpose in life, changes to suit your life, and those around you.

I don’t think I have ever thought of this before, and I’m not sure that I was ever that selfless, to think of what my purpose in life was before, as a youngster.  As long as I was happy, and had what I needed around me, and that I wasn’t hurting anyone else, I was chugging along.  But slowly, as my life has moved on, I have realised that I do need a purpose in life.

And now, I sit here, and know that my purpose in life is to make sure that I am a good role model to my own children, so that I send forth good human beings into this world. Heaven knows, we don’t need any more bad ones!

My purpose in life is to keep my husband, parents and family happy.  To do everything in my capability to not hurt them, or disappoint them, but to be able to fulfil their needs.

My purpose in life is to educate children in my classes, to make a difference in their lives.  To ignite a passion for learning, that they hopefully take forth with them, throughout their life.

My purpose in life is to make you smile. To make you look into your own lives and realise that “Hey, it’s not all bad out there!”

What will I take home, when I leave?

I will take with me, a lot of love.  Love I have received from family and friends, near and far, and the knowledge that I am loved.  And I will take with me, hope.  A hope that this world will slowly become a better place, and that the children I leave behind will continue to make people happy too…

I open this challenge to all my followers.  Have a little think, and write a post about what you think the purpose of your life is, and what you wish to take from life, when you leave…

Resignation Handed in!

  

Perfect way of life… Yup I like this idea!!!!

Rats!!!

In my garden!!!
Well, a dead one, anyway…
(Sorry, there might be pictures you don’t like here…)

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Lil Man saw the photo and thought it looked cute… Dead, but cute…
But the circle of life, as it is, didn’t leave the rat there…

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Quite a large raven came by, and after stalking for a while, making sure he wasn’t encroaching on anyone else’s territory, had a feast… While we were eating breakfast… Lovely!
Lil Man thought it was like watching the Discovery Channel live!
Gory, I know, but its an education in itself… This is how creatures in the wild survive…

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And Sonu Singh watched on… He couldn’t see the rat, but watched the bird for ages… Maybe he was thinking, “oooh! If I was outside, I’d have a fun game of chase!”
Then, raven flew away, leaving a pile of entrails and a rat shell…
I couldn’t leave it for the kids to see, so armed with a shovel, I carefully carried the remains to one side, and disposed of them, as best I could…
(Gory pic alert!)

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Poor rat, but seriously, what were you doing in my garden??? I sure hope there isn’t a colony of you somewhere nearby!

But I Smile Anyway...

Live Life

The thing about life

Is that it passes you by

If you don’t grab it

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So please grab those horns

And live life to the fullest

Don’t let it slip away

Ritu 2015

#Blogging101 The Face Behind ‘But I Smile Anyway’

Hi there!

My name is Ritu, and I am a working mum.  So I have many jobs, I guess you could say!

At home, I am mummy, wife, daughter-in-law extrordinaire, and at work I am an educator to a bunch of beautifully crazy kids!

I love to write.  I have been writing since I was a tiddler, fiction, poems, you name it, I wanted to write it.  But the responsibilities of life kept on tearing me away from actually doing what I loved.  After seeing a friend of mine start a blog, I thought “Well, now there’s an idea!” An invitation to log in, or create an account, and well, you can see what I clicked on!

I love a good chit chat, and when no one wants to listen, I have to shut up, but hey, on here, I can type to my hearts content, and say what I want, whether its recounting a funny story, an opinion on a topic close to my heart, or showcasing my writing when inspiration hits. My children provide much inspiration for many of my posts, as do my family. My cultural background gives me much fodder too.  And it inspires me, words pour out of my mind, and onto the screen, whether it be a poem, or an informative piece.

I started blogging at the end of November 2014, and have really enjoyed my experience so far, and hope to continue to do so!  I have been enjoying the interaction with all my followers, and those that I follow immensely, and I am looking forward to being able to have the same relationships with many of you too!

I never thought that in such a short space of time, I would be being read by as many as I am, but I always strive to better myself, and I would love to encourage more readers, and get some feedback on what I do write.

Happy reading everyone!

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