I am seriously in a state of shock this morning!
Is it really the last Monday of November?
Meaning that the next one is in DECEMBER?
Which means Christmas is kinda just around the corner?
And I have hardly anything ready for that day???
AND…
We only have one month left of the year?!?
Three and a half weeks left of school, so there will be a lot of squeezing Christmassy things in, alongside the usual learning. One week is practically blocked out for Christmas performances – There are four different ones, and each has two slots. The half week at the end is filled with panto visits and class Christmas parties!
So, that’s just TWO weeks of real learning time left, within which I also have a formal observation to fit in, AND I have to, along with my Eco Council partner, arrange a Toy Swap sale for the kids, AND not forgetting another Governors meeting to finish the term off!
EEK!!!!
And while I’m on the subject, of How the Flibbertygibbets Did That Happen?… Since when did my nine-year-old decide she no longer believes in Father Christmas?!
I hoped to have at least one more year of the letters to Santa, and the PNP videos to show her, before the reality that Father Christmas is really mummy and daddy sinks in!
Instead, the last couple of months have been littered with ‘present opportunities’ where she has shown us what she wants us to buy her for Christmas, because she just, you know, knows it’s us who buys the stuff, not the Big Fat Fella in Red!
I am not ready for this!
I still kinda believe in the magic of Saint Nick!
Okay… let me get my shocked-self ready for school now, but really….
HOW THE FLIBBERTYGIBBETS DID THAT HAPPEN?????
Ritu
Nov 29, 2017 @ 18:13:16
What a lovely idea Kat!!!
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New Journey
Nov 29, 2017 @ 15:12:31
http://www.goodhousekeeping.com/life/parenting/news/a41821/how-to-tell-kids-about-santa/
found this on google
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Ritu
Nov 29, 2017 @ 18:13:26
Thank.you!
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New Journey
Nov 29, 2017 @ 15:09:27
Hello…I saw something somewhere about a mother that was facing the fact that her son was close to realizing that Santa was just a myth, however she turned that into a teaching situation, I can’t remember exactly how it went, but she told him that it was his turn to take the roll of Santa, she explained that it would his turn to take “Santa’s” ideals, and find someone who is in need, and she will help him purchase a present and then he will sneak the present to the person he choose and he will remain anonymous, but in his heart he will learn about the feeling of giving. I remember she stressed the fact he could not let anyone know it was him. She also had the older brother help with it as he became a Santa a couple years prior. I wish I could find the article, and I wish I knew about this when my kids were small and coming to grips with the myth…this way it keeps it alive in there heart….just a thought….xxx Happy Holidays….kat
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hotmessmemoir
Nov 28, 2017 @ 03:45:53
But at least the ELF on the Shelf hasn’t hit the UK????
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Ritu
Nov 28, 2017 @ 06:56:32
Oh he has!!!!!!!!
I just never went down that route!!!! Lol!!!
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Jennie
Nov 28, 2017 @ 02:22:10
And then you need to guide your precious little one who does not believe… sigh!
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Ritu
Nov 28, 2017 @ 06:55:41
I know Jennie! I need to find a way to get them going again! It’s not just about presents!
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Jennie
Nov 28, 2017 @ 11:14:51
Exactly!!
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mazmisc
Nov 28, 2017 @ 02:22:05
I’ve got teens. They don’t even care about a tree anymore.
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Ritu
Nov 28, 2017 @ 06:55:05
Lol! Mine still love the idea of Christmas, and the tree… but especially the presents! They just don’t seem to believe in the magic! I need to get the Christmas films on!
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Jennie
Nov 28, 2017 @ 02:18:37
Thank you, Ritu!! Yes, how did that happen? Today at school I had the same shell shock. I took down the Halloween picture stories that were only up for two weeks, and also the big class decorated turkey. Now, we are planning holiday gifts for families, and activities centered around light. Where does the time go???
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Ritu
Nov 28, 2017 @ 06:54:07
It is flying by, and to think, we need to have a formal observation done in all this festive panic!!!
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Jennie
Nov 28, 2017 @ 11:14:19
Yikes! Our formal observations are in January. I really try to stop and “take in” the little moments that are good. It helps soothe the soul at this crazy time.
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Ritu
Nov 28, 2017 @ 12:52:20
We have at least two a year… so lets see what happens!!!
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Jennie
Nov 28, 2017 @ 18:55:39
Our second is in May. Same paperwork and write-up, but optional parent conference.
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Ritu
Nov 28, 2017 @ 19:27:25
Oh the joys eh! I’m off on a governor meeting tomorrow… grilling staff about their subject action plans! Fun!
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Jennie
Nov 28, 2017 @ 21:27:15
Ugh! I feel for you, Ritu.
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Ritu
Nov 28, 2017 @ 21:29:38
Thanks Jennie 💜
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Jennie
Nov 29, 2017 @ 00:13:40
You’re welcome!
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Charli Mills
Nov 27, 2017 @ 21:57:50
What a great phrase, flibbertigibbets! I told my children that Father Christmas was a spirit of giving that moved people to give to others. I still believe!
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Ritu
Nov 27, 2017 @ 22:56:52
We have to believe Charli! I’m still trying to keep it alive!
I love that word! It can mean so much and is such fun to say!
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Charli Mills
Nov 28, 2017 @ 01:17:04
You have a giving spirit, so I’d say you are keeping it alive!
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Ritu
Nov 28, 2017 @ 06:52:44
Thank you! ❤
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kindredspirit23
Nov 27, 2017 @ 20:40:19
I don’t know if it will help, but when my children started asking why they got more (or less) toys than another child or family, I merely told them that Santa makes and delivers the toys – we have to PAY him for that, so if we can’t afford it, Santa doesn’t make them…kept them hooked for, at least, 1-2 more years.
Scott
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Ritu
Nov 27, 2017 @ 20:50:15
They seem more clued up to believe these stories!
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kindredspirit23
Nov 27, 2017 @ 20:52:35
Ah, the disadvantages of a technologically-advanced civilization with worldwide communication….
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Ritu
Nov 27, 2017 @ 21:26:00
So True!!!
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joey
Nov 27, 2017 @ 20:35:49
Whoosh! Now comes the real crazy! 😛 Carve out some quiet time, and don’t forget parents are magical beings, too 😉
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Ritu
Nov 27, 2017 @ 20:42:55
Oh man it’s not funny!!!
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Erika Kind
Nov 27, 2017 @ 19:58:50
Sometimes it is just crazy how fast time flies. I have more or less everything together. And the things I don’t have… at least I know what. I had to plan and organize early because I am moving next week … you see why I am a bit stressed over all… lol!
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Ritu
Nov 27, 2017 @ 20:41:28
Oh wow! You staying local sis??? Xxx
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Erika Kind
Nov 28, 2017 @ 18:45:30
Yes, I am only moving a few kilometers. I don’t want to be too far away from the kids. I chose that apartment because it is close to my youngest one’s school.
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Ritu
Nov 28, 2017 @ 18:46:29
Wish you all the best with your move sis 🏠💖
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Erika Kind
Nov 28, 2017 @ 20:32:35
Thank you very much, dear sis! All will be well 💖
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Mr. Militant Negro
Nov 27, 2017 @ 18:31:37
Reblogged this on The Militant Negro™.
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robbiesinspiration
Nov 27, 2017 @ 18:18:49
To be honest, Ritu, I am surprised your daughter believed in Santa until she was nine. Greg wrecked this for Michael years ago. SEcond child syndrome.
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Ritu
Nov 27, 2017 @ 18:32:18
Oh but she still wants the Santa video…
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colinandray
Nov 27, 2017 @ 17:18:48
Sorry to be the bearer of bad news Ritu but, as every senior will probably tell you, time gets faster and faster from hereon! Hang on tight and just enjoy the ride! 🙂
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Ritu
Nov 27, 2017 @ 17:31:38
Oh man!!!!
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colinandray
Nov 27, 2017 @ 17:33:09
🙂
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itsgoodtobecrazysometimes
Nov 27, 2017 @ 15:52:43
sssssshhhhh, its August, a very cold August, but its still just August
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Ritu
Nov 27, 2017 @ 17:03:50
I Wish!!!!
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itsgoodtobecrazysometimes
Nov 27, 2017 @ 19:46:28
sticks fingers in ears Sings In the summer time when the weather is hot
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Ritu
Nov 27, 2017 @ 20:40:38
I’m with you in my imagination Lol!
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itsgoodtobecrazysometimes
Nov 27, 2017 @ 20:51:39
I should be fine right up until Christmas eve when a mass panic will happen
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Ritu
Nov 27, 2017 @ 21:25:49
Ha Ha!
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susielindau
Nov 27, 2017 @ 15:51:48
Life happens when we’re absorbed in its wonderful vortex. My son offered to make Christmas Eve dinner. He just turned 28!!! How did that happen?
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Ritu
Nov 27, 2017 @ 17:03:40
Oh my! I’m just amazed I’ll be mum to a teen soon!
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syl65
Nov 27, 2017 @ 14:20:54
Throw the clock out the window, time is moving so fast Sister!!
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Ritu
Nov 27, 2017 @ 17:01:30
Wish it was that easy Brother!
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syl65
Nov 27, 2017 @ 17:15:41
Lol, I know Sister!
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Judy E Martin
Nov 27, 2017 @ 14:11:25
I can’t believe how quickly the time is going by either. There is till so much to pack in before the big day! 🙂
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Ritu
Nov 27, 2017 @ 17:01:00
I know sis!!!
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Dorinda Duclos
Nov 27, 2017 @ 11:49:15
I still believe! Of course we buy the gifts! St. Nick would be exhausted delivering, so we help out 😉 oh and I love that word lol flibbertygibbets!
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Ritu
Nov 27, 2017 @ 12:51:00
Isn’t it just a great word Dorinda!!!
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Dorinda Duclos
Nov 27, 2017 @ 21:29:06
Awesome!! 😀
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The Satyr
Nov 27, 2017 @ 11:03:34
Doesn’t believe in Father Christmas?! Umbunkum! He’ll be very upset; a very good friend of mine. Likes the odd sherry and confectionery pastry. Well in that case, playstations and xboxes don’t exist either, so start thinking of something else to put on your Christmas list young lady! X
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Ritu
Nov 27, 2017 @ 12:51:51
I’ve tried that too!!! What is it with kids these days, wanting to be too old too fast!
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ashikshohag
Nov 27, 2017 @ 10:43:05
It would be misty..
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Ritu
Nov 27, 2017 @ 12:52:02
😀
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Geetha B
Nov 27, 2017 @ 08:26:35
That growing up thing 😀
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Ritu
Nov 27, 2017 @ 12:52:17
NOOO! Not yet!!!!
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Geetha B
Nov 28, 2017 @ 12:31:33
Alas yes. Teenagers are not like they used to be 😀
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Ritu
Nov 28, 2017 @ 12:53:20
I know!
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Shailaja V
Nov 27, 2017 @ 08:06:11
I hate when life creeps up on you, right? That and the fact that kids grow up. Sigh.
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Ritu
Nov 27, 2017 @ 12:52:43
Why do they have to go and do that?!
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Shailaja V
Nov 27, 2017 @ 12:54:47
I’ll let you know when I find out 😉
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Ritu
Nov 27, 2017 @ 12:55:57
😉😁
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aka Cibo the Pasty Poet
Nov 27, 2017 @ 07:04:33
Language, Timothy!
Poor you. Don’t worry, it will soon all be over – apart from the washing-up, tidying-up, tallying-up, and all the other ‘ups!’
Take care and breathe at times
G:)
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Ritu
Nov 27, 2017 @ 07:07:09
Oh man… I need the time to ‘breathe’ too G!!!!
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aka Cibo the Pasty Poet
Nov 27, 2017 @ 07:57:44
If you can, it helps you to get all the other things done.
Have a great day.
G:)
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Ritu
Nov 27, 2017 @ 12:52:28
I shall try!!!
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Leaking Brain
Nov 27, 2017 @ 05:13:11
I didn’t know Christmas can be this hectic when you’re married 😂 Hope you and your family have a wonderful Christmas 🎅🏻
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Ritu
Nov 27, 2017 @ 06:50:00
HA! Thanks! It’s nothing to do with the married bit… it’s the teaching and school part before i can even think about Christmas and family!
Thank you and the same to you!
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