“Parents act so strong for us, that we often forget how fragile they are.”
Anon
Thanks, Spidey.
Writing this knowing that Pops is back in hospital after another relapse, and possible infection.
I wanted to go and see him yesterday, but he convinced me he was okay, and under the care of my cousin. There would be nowhere to stay, and it would be a long round trip journey to complete in one day, especially in this heat.
I had reassuring calls from him and my cousins. It was decided that I would go next weekend instead.
Then, at 8:45pm last night I get a call…
They’ve had to take him into A & E again, because the pains were getting bad again.
I am grateful he had been there, at their house. Goodness knows what he would have done if he was at home, alone.
He sounded pretty down again when I spoke to him, but he was on an IV drip, the antibiotics getting ready to kick in.
They’ll be keeping him in under observation for at least 24 hours.
I want to go today.
He tells me, no.
He’s in the hospital, I won’t get to be with him much. Everyone else is there.
I know that.
But it’s a double-edged sword…
I worry about him, and need reassurance myself. I know I am getting calls and updates, but it’s not the same.
Equally, if I was to set off early tomorrow to see him, then drive back the same day, he would worry about me. It was on a journey back from home that my awful accident happened…
I know my mum. She is probably beside herself too, but staying as calm as she can. She really can’t get here, being in Finland.
Still in the throes of deciding what to do… Hubby Dearest is ready to take me as and when I want.
Pray for his speedy recovery, Peeps.
Have a peaceful Sunday ❤
syl65
Jul 09, 2018 @ 14:15:21
Praying for Pops to be out of that hospital and fully recovered Sister! 🙏🏽💜
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Ritu
Jul 09, 2018 @ 14:48:49
It’ll be a slow process but fingers crossed not long. Thank you Brother ❤
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syl65
Jul 09, 2018 @ 15:25:42
You’re welcome Sister! ❤️
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Erika Kind
Jul 09, 2018 @ 13:52:10
I would go too, whether he is in good hands or not. I would also have the need to assure myself about his condition or simply give him some strength or an uplift with my presence. Although we all don’t even consider something bad to happen of course you would never forgive yourself if you wanted to go but did not do it. So, I am glad to know you are already there, sis. Please give him a super big hug from me.
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Ritu
Jul 09, 2018 @ 14:44:46
I’ll hug him gently sis, the stitches may still hurt! ❤
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Erika Kind
Jul 11, 2018 @ 11:45:13
Hope he feels better soon💖💖
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Ritu
Jul 11, 2018 @ 11:46:09
Thanks sis xxx
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Erika Kind
Jul 11, 2018 @ 15:04:39
😘
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shelleywilson72
Jul 09, 2018 @ 07:41:35
Sending huge hugs to you and pops my lovely. It’s hard when they’re far away because everything is out of your control. Trust in the support he is receiving and brighten his day with the sound of your voice when you call. Xxx
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Ritu
Jul 09, 2018 @ 13:10:39
Thanks Shelley! I am actually with him now, sat by his hospital bed… He needed emergency surgery, and is thankfully comfortable and recovering well. ❤
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shelleywilson72
Jul 09, 2018 @ 15:02:30
Sending your both MASSIVE hugs xxx
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Ritu
Jul 09, 2018 @ 15:11:09
Much appreciatively received!! ❤
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You Can Always Start Now
Jul 09, 2018 @ 01:17:20
I am sending positive thoughts. Take care.
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Ritu
Jul 09, 2018 @ 13:07:12
Thank you so much ❤
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Rae Longest
Jul 08, 2018 @ 22:11:01
Praying…
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Ritu
Jul 09, 2018 @ 07:17:42
Thank you Rae 💜
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Tony Burgess
Jul 08, 2018 @ 20:37:30
I hope pops gets better soon. Grace and peace to you and yours my friend.
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Ritu
Jul 08, 2018 @ 21:18:33
Thank you so much Tony ❤
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posttragiclife
Jul 08, 2018 @ 19:36:09
Best thoughts.
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Ritu
Jul 08, 2018 @ 21:17:36
Thank you
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Fourth Generation Farmgirl
Jul 08, 2018 @ 18:59:41
Ritu, I hope your dad is feeling better very soon. Sending lots of love and good thought your way! Take care! 💗
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Ritu
Jul 08, 2018 @ 21:17:27
Thank you Tonya, I am just glad I am near him now for the next few days. ❤
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Fourth Generation Farmgirl
Jul 10, 2018 @ 03:05:31
Enjoy your time together. Thinking of you both. 💗
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Ritu
Jul 10, 2018 @ 07:03:48
🙏🏼💜
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robbiecheadle
Jul 08, 2018 @ 16:42:24
Oh, dear, Ritu, what a terrible time for you and your family. Praying for a speedy recovery for your Pops.
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Ritu
Jul 08, 2018 @ 16:43:19
Thanks Robbie xxx
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joey
Jul 08, 2018 @ 16:13:19
I will keep all of you in my thoughts as you travel. Best wishes and safe travels. x
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Ritu
Jul 08, 2018 @ 16:25:10
Thank you Joey 🙏
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Becky Ellis
Jul 08, 2018 @ 14:59:49
Keeping you and your Dad in my thoughts and prayers.
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Ritu
Jul 08, 2018 @ 15:15:56
Thank you Becky. Much appreciated 💜
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Lisa Orchard
Jul 08, 2018 @ 14:33:54
I’m so sorry to hear about your dad. I’m sending prayers and healing vibes his way!
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Ritu
Jul 08, 2018 @ 15:15:38
Thank you Lisa. 🙏💜
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Madekesiworld
Jul 08, 2018 @ 12:10:40
Sorry to hear about pops Ritu! Wish him a quick recovery!
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Ritu
Jul 08, 2018 @ 12:12:19
Thank you lovely. En route to see him.now xx
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Madekesiworld
Jul 08, 2018 @ 12:13:36
Okay, pass on our regards. He will be alright!
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Ritu
Jul 08, 2018 @ 12:16:49
Love the positivity. Thank you xx
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Madekesiworld
Jul 08, 2018 @ 12:20:11
Okay
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Darlene
Jul 08, 2018 @ 08:26:14
I am glad to hear you are going and your DH is driving you. Sometimes you gotta do what you gotta do. Sending positive thoughts your way. Your dad will be pleased to see you. xo
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Ritu
Jul 08, 2018 @ 08:38:26
Thank you. Darlene he needs emergency surgery so will be very groggy but I have to see him xx
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susieshy45
Jul 08, 2018 @ 07:44:39
Praying for him, Ritu. Can’t you take a train or bus ?
Susie
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Ritu
Jul 08, 2018 @ 07:49:01
It will take a long time. We are going shortly. Xxx
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susieshy45
Jul 08, 2018 @ 07:50:19
Safe journey. Prayers with you all the way.
Susie
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Ritu
Jul 08, 2018 @ 08:08:54
Thank you Susie xxx
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willowdot21
Jul 08, 2018 @ 07:25:29
Huge hugs all I can say is go with your heart and your gut. If you want to just go. Parents always think they know best, you must know that. Truth is they don’t always. You know that too. I do hope Pops imoroves soon 💜💜💜
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Ritu
Jul 08, 2018 @ 07:49:20
Thanks sis. We are going soon. Xx
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willowdot21
Jul 08, 2018 @ 09:41:00
Good I am so pleased for you I shall pray for you all 💜💜💜
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Ritu
Jul 08, 2018 @ 09:42:00
Thanks sis. Xx
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willowdot21
Jul 08, 2018 @ 10:11:54
💜💜💜💜
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scr4pl80
Jul 08, 2018 @ 05:30:33
Thinking positive thoughts for your dad and sending you hugs as well.
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Ritu
Jul 08, 2018 @ 07:22:56
Thank you Janet xxx
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Dorinda Duclos
Jul 08, 2018 @ 04:55:53
My thoughts and prayers are with your Dad & you!! If you feel that strongly that you should be there, go! If hubby has offered, even better, even if only for your peace of mind ❤️🙏
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Ritu
Jul 08, 2018 @ 07:22:45
Thanks Dorinda. We will go today 💜
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Dorinda Duclos
Jul 08, 2018 @ 14:02:18
Safe travels ❤️
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Ritu
Jul 08, 2018 @ 15:15:00
I’m here. He looks so weak.
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Dorinda Duclos
Jul 08, 2018 @ 16:37:45
I’m sure he’s taking great comfort in knowing you are there with him ❤
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Ritu
Jul 08, 2018 @ 16:39:11
I’ll be here for a few days xx
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davidprosser
Jul 08, 2018 @ 04:24:36
I wish him, and you, all the very best Ritu.
xxx Gigantic Hugs xxx
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Ritu
Jul 08, 2018 @ 07:22:19
Thanks David. Going up to see him soon. Xxx
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