
“There is virtue in work and there is virtue in rest. Use both and overlook neither.”
Alan Cohen
You’ve totally centred on my theme of R and R, this week, Spidey, so thank you!
As you will know, from the last couple of posts, I have been working pretty hard, but I have also had to rest, as well.
We’ve had a lot going on at school and there appears to be rather a huge amount happening over the next five weeks of term. So much squashed into this time. We have visits from various individuals, as well as the hovering threat of Ofsted, who are due to pay a visit at any time, too! Coupled with lesson observations and staff having days off, it’s a juggle.
No time to be ill, as most teachers will tell you.
But then, I think back to something several people say. You will always replaceable at work, but never replaceable to your family.
On Friday, I went into work, with an inkling that the day wasn’t going to be good for me. Sitting in my classroom, I was getting ready for the day, and my colleague could see, immediately that I wasn’t right.
So, instead of battling through, because that is what I usually do, I just got things set up, and spoke to my head, who agreed I needed to go home.
I do feel lucky to have a head who is fully family orientated, and understands work/life balance, even though I find myself messaging her to switch off, regularly, too. She knows that if someone is not well, they won’t be able to give the best of themselves to the class and school, or to their families.
I spent the best part of the day in bed on Friday and carried it forward on Saturday, too. No writing, those days, because I was unable to, but, finally, I recognise when I have to switch off.
I’m still achy and a bit tired, but at least I’ve given my body time to recuperate and will continue that, today, too.
So, are you good at recognising when you need to have a break?

Wishing you a wonderfully peaceful Sunday, Peeps!
Mar 04, 2022 @ 20:55:20
As soon as I read this, I went to bed and took a nap. I was too busy to realize how tired I actually was.
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Mar 04, 2022 @ 21:10:11
Glad you listened to your body!
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Feb 28, 2022 @ 15:37:27
Reblogged this on The Reluctant Poet.
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Feb 27, 2022 @ 20:57:20
Yes, Sis! Sometimes one needs to break out of the routine. Whats about a little “walking the cat”? I am sure Sonu would like to be guided along the streets he never saw before, and you could take new energy by fresh air. There are so many nice clothes also for cats. 😉 Best wishes, Michael
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Feb 27, 2022 @ 21:03:43
Ha ha! He was too busy miaowing for food all day, today!
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Feb 27, 2022 @ 23:07:06
Really? It seems he wants to retire, and move to a noble retirment home in London. Lol xx Michael
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Feb 28, 2022 @ 06:11:50
🥰
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Feb 27, 2022 @ 20:55:05
Reblogged this on NEW BLOG HERE >> https:/BOOKS.ESLARN-NET.DE.
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Feb 27, 2022 @ 19:27:43
Lol Sis I’m like you I work til I drop 💜🇺🇦
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Feb 27, 2022 @ 20:02:04
And its not the best for us, either, Sis!!
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Feb 27, 2022 @ 20:26:51
No it’s not 💜💜🇺🇦
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Feb 27, 2022 @ 18:59:50
Glad you are taking the time to care for you nad recuperate, Sister. We can only go so far without completely burning out 🙏🏽💜
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Feb 27, 2022 @ 19:28:27
Exactly this, Brother xx
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Feb 27, 2022 @ 19:36:11
💜🤗💜🤗💜
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Feb 27, 2022 @ 18:45:39
Very wise, Ritu. Glad it worked. What a good Head, to understand and care…
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Feb 27, 2022 @ 19:28:11
She truly is, Steve. I count myself lucky to have her as my boss!
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Feb 27, 2022 @ 17:40:31
It was a smart move to give your body a chance to recuperate…helps you mentally as well…good luck with the weeks ahead!
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Feb 27, 2022 @ 17:42:12
Thanks, John. I needed it xx
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Feb 27, 2022 @ 15:30:35
I’m so glad you listened to your body and rested!
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Feb 27, 2022 @ 15:38:12
Thanks, Jennie xxx
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Feb 27, 2022 @ 16:39:07
You’re welcome, Ritu!
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Feb 27, 2022 @ 14:03:58
I have definitely gotten better at it, and think It is a process, not an instant change, but as long as we’re heading in that direction, it’s a good thing
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Feb 27, 2022 @ 12:33:18
((( Ritu ))) ❤
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Feb 27, 2022 @ 12:49:23
Thanks, Sis 😊
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Feb 27, 2022 @ 11:30:22
There is such a thin line between both. Those who take their responsibility seriously are likely to overlook the “resting”-part. I am glad you respected your well-being and did not overlook it… at least for this time 😉💖
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Feb 27, 2022 @ 11:52:17
I’ll try to continue choosing the right thing, Sis!!! 💜
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Feb 27, 2022 @ 12:00:56
I know, Sis, it is easier said than done… 💖
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Feb 27, 2022 @ 10:32:52
R&R is Rest & Rest?
How’s my friend from Arunachal Pradesh?
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Feb 27, 2022 @ 10:38:59
Rest & Recuperation.
He’s doing very well, thank you!
How are you?
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Feb 28, 2022 @ 11:02:36
Rest & Recuperation!!! So that is the second R!!
I am doing well!
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Feb 28, 2022 @ 11:56:02
😊
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Feb 27, 2022 @ 10:11:55
I also had to be sent home from work when I was younger. I didn’t want to let anyone down. I was in my fifties before I really learned to look after myself in that regard.
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Feb 27, 2022 @ 10:38:29
We have to.kearn, April, don’t we?
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Feb 27, 2022 @ 16:48:24
Definitely, but better sooner rather than later.
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Feb 27, 2022 @ 16:58:38
Absolutely xx
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Feb 27, 2022 @ 08:59:13
Sensible move, Ritu… rest well and come back smiling…
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Feb 27, 2022 @ 09:07:45
Still smiling, as I lay in bed. Thank you 🙏🏼😊
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Feb 28, 2022 @ 09:07:29
XX
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Feb 27, 2022 @ 08:50:49
Oh dear, Ritu, I am sorry you got so run down and exhausted. You must take care of yourself.
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Feb 27, 2022 @ 08:51:13
Thanks, Robbie. I’m trying to get it back!
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Feb 27, 2022 @ 06:44:50
Hope you are better soon
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Feb 27, 2022 @ 08:50:05
Getting there. Thank you xx
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Feb 27, 2022 @ 08:58:08
You’re welcome
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Feb 27, 2022 @ 06:00:48
I typically pushed through when working. I would use my sick days when a grandkid needed me.
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Feb 27, 2022 @ 08:50:50
See, I used to do that, but to be honest, that means I gave all my good to my work, not my family.
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Feb 27, 2022 @ 14:22:40
I agree.
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