Feline Contentment – Haiku

  

I feel a certain

Peace of mind, feeling the purrs…

Feline contentment

Ritu 2015


Its been a lovely surprise the last two mornings, having my gorgeous, but normally undemonstrative kitty coming and climbing on my lap, all by himself in the mornings, as I have my 5 minutes of peace, before the household awakens!

Maybe he feels my happiness…

Maybe I’m not acting or radiating stress vibes, which I know I was, the past couple of months!

Maybe he just loves me!

Who knows?! But whatever the reason, it warms my heart, and lap, to have him come and sit on me, with no prompting… Baring his tummy and neck for a scratch and tickle, and even a cuddle!

Thoughtful Thursdays

 

Some random pic I found on my Facebook…

And it’s something I truly believe…

Smile folks! 😊😊😊😊 

#BeWoW Post – Connection

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This week, Ronovan’s suggested we talk about Connections.

My take…

The first thing that came to mind when I read the word Connections, was technological, the Internet, mobile phones, social media… You need to connect to the Internet in order for it to work, your call needs to connect with the other persons phone, to have a conversation, you need to accept a friend request to make a connection on social media platforms…

Then I thought about it, and related it to life, and our relationships. In order to keep your friendships, family connections and relationship alive, you need to ‘connect’. You need to be in touch with them somehow or another in order to allow these relationships to flourish. You need to be on the same wavelength as some people in order to ‘connect’ with them. If your thoughts, sense of humour, lifestyles are too different, you might keep,losing that ‘connection’. And with friendships, and relationships, you need to take that first step, send that friend request, verbally, to make that ‘connection’.

I ‘connect’ with many people from all walks of life, from my family, both the elders and the younger, the friends from school, university, as well as those mum friends from the schoo, run, and my colleagues from work, and the children I work with too. I think I’ve been blessed with the type of personality, where I can be both traditional, yet modern, sophisticated, yet silly, mature, yet childish, serious yet fun. I have moulded to fit all sorts of different people, in order to connect with them. Amd I am happy to do so. If this is the way for me to keep connections alive, I’ll keep on doing it.

It’s not just connections with people, though, there are those connections with my culture and my religion. Yes, I am not a Punjabi suit wearing Indian gal on a day to day basis. But I speaks da lingo, I can wear the clothes with style, and I can proudly say that I can pass many cultural and religious lessons on to my kids, in order to keep this connection alive too.

Though sometimes I think I might ‘over-connect’ too, and then I struggle to keep up with these connections. After all people start to have expectations, and I hate to disappoint… This is a lesson I am learning now, and I am trying to make sure I keep the connections that really matter, strong, and crystal clear…. Those weak, losing signal connections though, I have realised that sometimes, it’s just better to ‘cut the call’ rather that redialling on repeat.  If they want to connect, maybe they can call me…or send me a friend request… And we can reconnect.

But I Smile Anyway...

The Sunshine Award!

Wow! Another day, another award…!

This time the lovely Erica has nominated me for a new award, and I am so happy to say I haven’t had this one before!!!

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Let’s get started and here come the rules:

Thank the person who nominated you. (Thank you lovely xxx)
Answer the questions from the person who nominated you.
Nominate a few other bloggers.
Notify the bloggers on their blog.

The questions for me to answer:

What makes your heart shine?
My family makes my heart glow, not just shine!Β  They are what keep me going throughout life too!

What do you do, if there are clouds in front of your inner sun?
I try and blow the clouds away… or I look for that silver lining.. three’s always a silver lining… I firmly believe that!

What would a perfect day for you look like?
It would be a warm day, with no breeze, I would wake up from a full night’s sleep… honestly! And then have a leisurely breakfast. Time spent with the children, with no pressure of homework, and quality time with my Hubby Dearest too! Food would be brought to me, not needing my help with preparing! There would be no housework to do either! I wouldn’t mind being home, but not having any demands on my time would be amazing!

What is your favorite quote?
I don’t know who sais it but “It’s better to die on your feet than to live on your knees…”
It really meant something to me, about living life to the fullest, and not taking the safest options all the time, because you really don’t know what tomorrow might hold…

What was your greatest insight?
My greatest insight… I think once I became a mother, it madeΒ me realise just how much, and what my mum did for us children.Β  What sheΒ gave up for us, to beΒ there for us as a full time supportive mum.

Now my nominees are…

Whether they accept or not, these are people who’s I especially love to read… They make me smile whenever I see one of their posts, they are rays of sunshine in my blog life!

I would have nominated Erika but she nominated me!!!!

10 Years a Single Mom
Rob at The V-Pub
Cats At The Bar
Fourth Generation Farm Girl
Edwina’s Episodes
Encouraging Life

I have nominated you as I love your blogs! Please don’t feel obliged to accept, but let me know if you do, I love to read your responses!

And My Questions For my Nominees

  1. What is the main ‘sunshine’ in your life?
  2. Where is the sunniest place you have been?
  3. What would your ideal Sunday be?
  4. Who would you like to share a cocktail with on a sunny day at the beach?
  5. Have you ever had sunburn???

This award is so sweet, and so special, it deserves a song!

Thank you again lovely Erika!!!!!

Freestyle Writing Challenge – take 2!!!!

Akanksha has challenged me to the free style writing challenge… Twice in one week! Sheesh! Where am I going to find the time??!! Lol! First, the rules…

So here goes the RULES of this challenge:

Open an MS Word document
Set a stop watch or your mobile to 5 minutes or 10 minutes whichever challenge you think you can beat.
You topic is at the foot of this post BUT DO NOT SCROLL DOWN TO SEE IT UNTIL YOU ARE READY WITH A TIMER.
Fill the word doc with as much words as you want.
Once you began writing do not stop even to turn.
Do not cheat by going back and correcting spellings and grammar with spell check in MS WORD (it is only meant for you to reflect on your own control of sensible thought flow and for you to reflect on your ability to write the right spelling and stick to grammar rules)
You may or may not pay attention to punctuation and capitals.
However if you do, it would be best.
At the end of your post write down β€˜No. Of words =_____’ so that we would have an idea of how much you can write within the time frame.
Do not forget to copy paste the entire passage on your blog post with a new Topic for your nominees and copy paste these rules with your nominations (at least 5 bloggers).

Grandparents

Grandparents…

I feel jealous whenever I think of those that had or have time with their grandparents.

I didn’t really get that chance. I never met my Pops’ parents. They passed away when he was young, so I didn’t get a chance to meet my Dadaji or Dadiji. All I have is a couple of pictures of portraits that were done of them both… nothing more.

My Mum’s parents were alive when I was born. But again, I was only 6 when we lost my Nanaji, my grandfather, under horrific circumstances. I hear amazing stories about him, he was a great man, charitable, loving, an educated man, who pushed my mother forward to study, something that wasn’t really done for girls in those days. My Nanima, or Mama as we called her, my grandmother, I was lucky enough to have for longer, but again this was bittersweet, as though she was there, she was far away, in another country, and it was only visits to Kenya, or her visits here that allowed us to have much of a relationship.

Grandparents…

They are fundamental to a child’s growing up, I think. The experience they have, the capacity to love unconditionally, those big warm Grandparent hugs they give…

When I married, I got to experience it a bit, as Hubby Dearest’s Grandma was still alive, and lived near us. She was a sweet woman, and could never get my name right… I was Meetu, to her, til the end. She was so loving towards me, and it made me realise how lovely it would have been to have a grandparent nearby. His other Grandmother lived in India when we got married, and though I only met her a couple of times, she was a sweet soul, a spiritual person who again, gave me a lot of love.

It was hard seeing them leave this earth too, as I felt almost cheated… I had managed to find these 2 lovely grandparents at the age of 25, then they were cruelly taken from me too!

But it has coloured my thinking of how I want to bring my children up, and the access I want them to have with their grandparents. My in-laws live close by so they see them every day… My parents further away but we speak daily and spend quality time with them…

I want them to have the Granny/Granddad moments that I never had….

No. Of words = 404

My nominees are
Jazzmelia Kay
Just Call Me Elm Or Something
Ronovan Writes
My Spanglish Family
Persia Karema

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“No mountain is too high…

But I Smile Anyway...

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