Spidey’s Serene Sunday – Part 392 – Traditions

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“It takes a tremendous amount of history to make even a little history.”

Henry James

Thank you, Spidey, for an apt quote.

So, unless you’ve been living under a rock, you’ll know that the Queen passed away, peacefully on Thursday.

A huge amount of sadness.

A country in mourning.

A family in mourning.

Yet there are still things that have to be done.

From the moment a monarch is crowned, the plan for their death is written. (Feels a bit morbid, to me, but I suppose, in order to allow everything to run smoothly, it’s a necessity.)

“London Bridge is down.” is quoted, and the wheels are put in motion.

The Royal family, government, broadcasters of the news, are all informed, in order to share the sad news.

And, while we are all mourning, there is the small job of ensuring the country is not without a monarch, so the rightful heir is proclaimed.

For most of the country, we have never experienced this, before. The Queen had been the longest reigning monarch in the UK, ever.

Seventy years, she has been in our lives, and suddenly, she was gone, leaving her eldest son, Charles, as the man to bear the weight and responsibility of being the new King of the UK, and head of The Commonwealth.

As tradition states, all the customs needed to be fulfilled to confirm his new role, so on Saturday, amid the sadness, we as a nation, and the world, watched, either by standing in crowds in London, or on TV and the internet, the accession to the throne of the new King Charles III.

A momentous event that has never before been witnessed by the public, took place at St. James Palace, where the Privy Council held a meeting and declared our new monarch the King.

Then, the public declarations began, and the firing of guns, to signal the same, began.

It was fascinating to watch an official tradition take place. Something that was done, for centuries, behind closed doors.

But, can I tell you what hit me, personally?

Seeing the blanket of sadness over the new King, and his son, Prince William, the new Prince of Wales.

It’s often easy to forget that even though they have these tremendous duties to uphold, they are still human, too.

We’ve lost a Queen.

They’ve lost a beloved mother, frandmother, great grandmother. Yet they have to fight that emotion, in order to take part in all the pomp and circumstance involved in the new monarch’s accession to the throne.

For a day, flags are flown at full mast, to celebrate the new King, before being lowered again, in respect.

I only hope that everytime they close their doors to the public eye, they are able to mourn as we would. As a family, united in grief.

It was heartwarming to listen to, or read, some of the tributes to our late Queen, by members of her family.

And though heartbreaking to witness, seeing certain members overcome by their emotions in public, whilst reading tributes left by the public made me think that hopefully certain traditions and expectations would bend slightly, now, to allow the Royal family to be viewed as human first, and Royal second.

So, how do you view traditions?

namaste

Wishing you a wonderfully peaceful Sunday, Peeps!

Rest in Power, Ma’am #HMQueenElizabeth

I feel sad, deep down.

Queen Elizabeth the Second passed away peacefully at her Scottish home, Balmoral this afternoon, surrounded by loved ones.

It might sound strange, but, to me, it feels like losing a family member.

She was an amazing monarch, and though no one can get everything right, she got a whole lot more right that many others would have.

Rest in Power, beautiful soul.

Spidey’s Serene Sunday – Part 391 – Another Year Older

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“Wisdom can be found in the most unexpected places.”

Ritu Bhathal

Thank you, Spidey, for giving me a chance to use my own quote, today!

It is the day after my 47th birthday, and I wonder whether I have gained any more wisdom with the addition of that extra year.

Well, I was on good old Facebook, and there was one of those quizzes where it chucks random statements or facts out, allegedly about you.

Usually, they are just silly, but once in a while they throw you something to think upon.

This was apparently a lesson I have learned from the past year.

And, oh my goodness, what truth!

It takes a while, I think that for this to register in our minds, but it’s true that over the last couple of years, I have realised that I am who I am, and I am a good person.

We all have traits that may not be liked by everyone, but when I take everything into account, I am happy with me.

I am happy with who I am.

I am happy with how I live my life.

I am happy with my thoughts and opinions.

I am happy with my preferences.

I am happy with my grey hair.

I am happy even with a little extra weight on myself, right now.

And there will always be people out there with toxic opinions.

But I really don’t care!

And that. is the wisdom I gleaned from a Facebook Quiz, yesterday!

So, are you able to accept who you are and live in peace with yourself?

namaste

Wishing you a wonderfully peaceful Sunday, Peeps!

Throwback Thursday #54 – Favourite Things #RememberWhen #TBT Memory

Having another go at Maggie and Laurens, Throwback Thursday challenge! This week it is Maggie at the helm!

This week’s prompt is: Favourite Things

Pick any period of your adolescence and think back to all your favorite things. Feel free to elaborate as much as you want.

Maggie

I shall think about my secondary school years. I attended an all-girls private school, and I have many fond memories of that time.

Who was your favourite relative? Not to play favourites, but who was the person you connected with more than others? Aunt, uncle, cousin, grandparent, or parent? Why were you closest to them?

I had many favourite people. I was close to a lot of my family, and I think I still am. At the time I think I heavily identified with my cousin who was the same age as me but in a different country. We would exchange letters, and spent a lot of time together in the summers and when she came to stay with us for a while. We lived such similar, yet different lives, and we were very close.

What was your favourite TV show? Share a clip if you can find one.

I was a big fan of Neighbours at school, and it only just finished its TV run this summer!

What was your favourite book or favourite family story?

I had a huge pull towards My Sweet Audrina by Virginia Andrews as a teen. I don’t often reread books but I read this several times.

What was your favourite song, record, or album? Feel free to share a YouTube video of it.

I loved Don’t Worry Be Happy by Bobby McFerrin. Still do!

Who was your favourite teacher? What grade were you in, and what subject did they teach?

I loved Mrs Kimpton, my drama teacher. She taught me from the ages of 11-17. She was a wonderful soul, so gentle and encouraging.

What was your favourite subject (not teacher) in school?

Drama was my favourite subject!

Who was your favourite (aka best) friend? What things did you do together?

Honestly, I didn’t have a best friend as such, at school. As I mentioned before I had so many things going on in my life that were family based that I wasn’t given much time to be besties with anyone however I was good friends with another Indian girl who related to what my life was like and we were pretty close. We would send notes to each other in class, and giggle over all sorts of typical teenage girl things and I went to her house to hang out a couple of times.

What was your favourite way to pass the time?

As if you need to ask! I loved reading! I always had a book on the go!

What was your favourite holiday? How did you celebrate?

I loved celebrating everything. Specific to us was Diwali where we would go to other family houses and eat, and enjoy the fireworks!

What was your favourite toy or possession? Doll, camera, radio, bicycle?

Probably my walkman, as I enjoyed listening to music.

Bonus: What was your favourite adventure? Family trip, amusement park, field trip, or vacation, perhaps.

I was lucky enough to go on several holidays through the school years but my favourite trip was when we went to Russia with my school. I was 16, and it was such an adventure. We visited Moscow and St Petersberg. It was shortly after the first McDonalds had opened up out there, and the queue for a burger was a mile long!

Again, I do have photos… but they are so far away!

See! I told you I would be late. You can tell I am back at school, now!

The Secret Of Elephants by @vasundrajay @FMcMAssociates #LakeUnionPublishing #BlogTour

Today I am hosting the blog tour for Vasundra Tailor’s book, The Secret Of Elephants.

The Blurb

Two sides of the same family—one living in luxury in a magnificent mansion,
the other penniless in its shadow. Could a mysterious letter from the past help
Nirmala and her young son take back what is rightfully theirs?
Navsari, India. Penniless and trapped in a loveless marriage, Nirmala spends
her days anxiously caring for her sick young son, Varun. Looming over Nirmala’s
impoverished home is an imposing mansion built by her grandfather, and from its
balcony, her cruel aunt scorns them, refusing to help in any way.
But when a mysterious letter addressed to her long-dead father arrives from
Zimbabwe, it opens a door to a past Nirmala never knew existed and a future she
never imagined possible. If the contents of the letter can be believed, not only
does she have family in Africa, but they might also hold the answers to a family
mystery that spans three generations.
While travelling to Zimbabwe might lead to a brighter future for Nirmala and her
son, it could also reignite the bitter family feud that condemned her family to
poverty. Nirmala is ready to risk it all to uncover the truth, but how will she cope
when this journey changes her life forever?

My Review

The Secret of Elephants by Vasundra Tailor
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

A beautifully crafted story about a woman’s search for the answers to so many questions raised as she grew up.
Nirmala lives in a small, ramshackle house opposite the mansion where the rest of her family lives.
She’s alone in this world, apart from her young unwell son, Varun, her good-for-nothing husband, and her aunt, who lives a life of luxury in the large family home.
Always wondering, but never knowing, why her father was cast out of his family home, Nirmala is given a letter addressed to her deceased father, sent from a faraway foreign country, Zimbabwe.
Somehow, she finds herself on a journey of discovery, to uncover the secrets that her family have been hiding for many, many years and from many different people.
This was a well-crafted story that tugged at my heartstrings. I read it over a day, because the whole tale captured me.
The secrecy and lies regarding birth stories, birth rights, and how many uneducated men regard their wives in India rang true. It’s not unheard of for these things to happen.
I loved the parts where the timeline split slightly and took us back to learn more about this family, so today’s story made even more sense. The descriptions of Zimbabwe reminded me of some of my family trips back home to Kenya.
Well worth the read!

About the Author

Vasundra Tailor was born in India, and was just a few weeks old when her parents brought her to Zimbabwe (then Southern
Rhodesia) in 1954. Though set against a backdrop British colonial rule and segregation in the area, Vasundra had a happy
childhood, surrounded by a large extended family.
She qualified as a pharmacist in 1977, and was eager to leave Zimbabwe for the UK to escape the fighting between the minority
white government and local freedom fighters. She arrived at Heathrow in the Spring of 1978, and moved to Strathclyde for her
Masters in Pharmaceutical Microbiology, before settling in London a year later, where she is still based today.
Vasundra started writing in 2016, after enrolling onto an online Creative Writing
course, joining book groups and local writing groups, which gave her the feedback
and confidence to tackle her first book. Fascinated by human relationships, Vasundra’s
writing is interested in characters from diverse backgrounds and explores how people
connect with those around them.
The inspiration for The Secret of Elephants, Vasundra’s debut novel, came from the
families currently living in a property in India which once belonged to her father. In
November 2019, an extract of The Secret of Elephants won the second runner-up
prize for the Mo Siewcharran Fiction Competition, to help discover unpublished fiction
writers from Black, Asian and Minority Ethnic backgrounds.

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