Guess who’s got some BIG news about my book Marriage Unarranged?
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22 Dec 2019 Leave a comment
in My Writing, Thoughts Opinions & Memories Tags: Blog, Blog Post, Blogger, Blogging, Blurbs, Marriage Unarranged, Ritu Bhathal
Guess who’s got some BIG news about my book Marriage Unarranged?
Click the link below to find out!

22 Dec 2019 46 Comments
in Spidey's Serene Sundays Tags: Blog, Blog Post, Blogger, Blogging, Charles Dickens, Christmas, Quote, Spidey, Spidey's Serene Sunday

“I will honour Christmas in my heart, and try to keep it all the year.”
Charles Dickens
What a lovely thought, Spidey, that you found there!
Christmas, and all the feelings of ‘peace on earth, and goodwill to all men’, it’s all well and good, but why do we save it for Christmas?
Would this world not be a better place, if we had those feelings in our hearts all year round, as good old Dickens said, above?
Personally, I try to live my life with these thoughts all the time, but I am always amazed at some people I have encountered, who truly Scrooge it up the whole year round, and then flip a switch, and become this all giving, all cheery individual, just around the festive period.
Then come January, yup, you guessed it, Scrooge is back.
Bah Humbug again!
The world truly is a nicer place around this time of year. There are smiles, and so much generosity.
Seriously? Why can’t we share this giving nature around, spread it over the whole year?
So… tell me, are you more of a Scrooge, during the rest of the year, or like Will Ferrel’s Elf?
16 Dec 2019 43 Comments
in Chai and a Chat Tags: Blog, Blog Post, Blogger, Blogging, Chai and a Chat
Happy Monday to you all! Let me start by apologising for the delayed Chai this week. It’s been hectic, and with one thing and another, time (and energy) to write this post, was lacking, but I’m back! Are you settled? It’s the evening here, you might want to spice up that chai with something a little stronger 😉


Right, that’s me done Peeps! Let me how your week has been.
16 Dec 2019 20 Comments
in Chai and a Chat Tags: #ChaiAndAChat, Blog, Blog Post, Blogger, Blogging, Delay
Hi Peeps!
Apologies for the short message. The weekend kind of disappeared from me, so, instead of a Chai, how about a nightcap tonight, instead?
See you this evening!

15 Dec 2019 59 Comments
in Spidey's Serene Sundays Tags: Blog, Blog Post, Blogger, Blogging, Cold, Ill, Spiderman, Spidey, Spidey's Serene Sunday, unwell

“Tis healthy to be sick sometimes.”
David Henry Thoreaux
“Say what, Spidey?” I hear you all cry, but, you know what? He’s right with this one he’s found today!
Seriously, as I sit here today, typing away, with the first sniffles of the season (for me, anyway), I get it.
No one wants to be ill. No one wants to feel incapacitated in any way, least of all at Christmas, when there is so much to do, at work as well as home. Colds and flu? They can do one.
But they won’t.
When they decide to come visiting, you have to make a decision. To battle through it, and possibly infect a whole host of other people, or to sit back and allow your body to take over.
Because, a lot of the time, you get a cold because you are run down. Sure, getting caught in that downpour may not help, or going out, not wrapped up properly, can make a situation worse, but I do believe that getting a cold os really your body’s way of saying “STOP! You need to rest and refuel!”
I really should take my own advice. Yesterday, I awoke to the sniffles, but had a busy day planned, takinbg Lil Princess to visit some friends, and the idea was that they chilled out whilst I found a comfy sofa in a coffee shop, and read or wrotte, peacefully.
Nope. That didn’t happen. We still had to go, but Lil Man was with me, so I ended up dropping her off, then traipsing around a few sports shops with him after a meal together, (mother/son date – don’t have as many of those as I’d like!), before my knees said “Sit down!” and my head willed Lil Princess to want to go home.
We managed a couple of hours, where I did convince him to go and sit with me in a Costa Coffee shop for a short while, then once home, I slipped into bed with a good book, and did what I should have been doing all day – Read and snoozed!
Today, I hope to feel a bit better – got a hair appointment – but the rest of the day will be more resting up, and relaxing, ready for the last week of term! I only have to last 3 days, then officially we break up… I can do it.
Just need to shake this stupid cold! (And try and ignore Hubby Dearest who seems to have contracted Man Flu AGAIN! I just think he’s jealous that I really need the tissue box this time!)
So… tell me, what do you do to get rid of colds?