No pressure….

Tomorrow there are a lot of young children aged 6-7 and 10-11 about to start their SATs at school.

For those not in the UK these are tests that are required to be taken to gauge children’s progress in Primary School.

Though I agree we need to see how children are doing, the world does not revolve around Grammar, Spelling, Writing, Reading and Maths… Many children do not have these 2 subjects as their strong points.

But the system tells us that using these results we can see if the children are learning, and progressing at the correct rate.

Really? What about that artist, or musician, or scientist even. That dancer, nurse, hairdresser, or vet? Each child is unique, and has a talent. It’s up to us to nurture that talent too.

I know we need to have an element of success in literacy and numeracy to succeed in most things, but the pressure put on children so young is immense. Children don’t learn or progress at the same level. They don’t all even learn in the same way. Many children are almost written off because these tests tell the government that these children are apparently below par.

It’s important as teachers, and as parents, that we instil the self confidence in our children to know that whatever these results, they are still brilliant at something. 

Many of these kids will pull it together, maybe later than others, but with the right encouragement, they will get there. And who should encourage them? Who should be their biggest cheerleaders? 

It’s us parents. Mums and dads. 

Don’t make them feel that these tests, and things like the 11+, are the be-all and end-all of school life… For some children, that negativity, and pushing to achieve something that might not be within their grasp, can be the straw that breaks the camel’s back. 

Kaput! There goes the child’s thirst for learning….

Be there. Support your child. Give them all the help they need, and if, despite the help, they don’t achieve the scores you wanted them to, don’t berate them. Comfort them, and show them, high light their great points, because they do have them.

Boost their confidence, so they don’t feel like learning and school is worthless for them.

Tests.

Personally I really don’t like them, but I know they are a necessity. Just don’t let them and their scores rule your life. And the way you are with your child.

Good luck to those sitting them though! Unfortunately I can’t change that!

Hula Update – I’ve Lost Count Of The Weeks!

  

I hadn’t updated for a while so thought I’d better…

I have been faithfully rolling my hips in both directions for 10 minutes a day, with my weighted hula hoop! Every day, let me reiterate! No slacking!

But I have also been eating lots of naughty things too… Never good…

But my measurements are relatively static, at 34″ sometimes 33.75″ which is good! Not quite the 32″ the nurse advised, but hey, it takes time!

So I’m off to do my daily stint now. Having a lazy Sunday!

Versatile Mommy Blogger Award!

  

A little twist on the regular Versatile Blogger award by Silver Lining Mama on this special day!

As its Mother’s Day, she requested her readers to nominate favourite mum related blogs in the comments section for this adapted version of the award!

So the rules, as usual, which I will adapt…

THE AWARD RULES

  • Thank the person who gave you this award, and the person who nominated you in that post, and include a link to their blog.
  • Proudly display the adapted award image on your post and blog!
  • Next, select 15 blogs/bloggers that you’ve recently discovered or follow regularly  ask your readers to nominate a favourite mommy blog in the comments!
  • Nominate those 15 bloggers for the Versatile Mommy Blogger Award — you might include a link to this site.
  • Finally, tell the person who nominated you 7 things about yourself as a mother.

So firstly, thank you so much, Silver Linings Mama, for this adapted award! 😊

And secondly, but just as importantly, thank you to Ann from Grubbs’n’Critters for nominating me via the comments section!

Both these wonderful ladies have amazing blogs, mommy related, and otherwise!!! Please be sure to check em out!

7 Mommy-Related Facts About Me

  1. I am a proud mummy to 2 human munchkins, one fur baby, and feel like a mummy to many kids I have taught, and sometimes to Hubby Dearest too!
  2. It was a long, tough journey to become a mum, if you would like, read about it here. 
  3. I have the most amazing role models! Check them out here!
  4. I love my kids to bits! But, like many mums out there, there are days I could throttle them! But I don’t, obviously!! I wish I could say that I sit serenely, and let the chaos pass, but sadly no, I end up becoming a banshee!
  5. My house is a tip, but my kids are happy, and that’s all that matters to me!
  6. I cherish the moments when my children, growing up so fast, revert to baby, and want a cuddle, on my lap!
  7. These kids have been my inspiration for so many posts, and they’ve been my reason for being on many occasions. I feel blessed to have them!

And to start the nominations off…

I would like to nominate Trish of 10 Years A Single Mom as she is a great blogger, a great mum, and has been going it alone for the last few years!

I’ll notify anyone nominated in the comments, so please do nominate!!!

A poem to finish the acceptance off…

A mother’s love is never ending

Full of nurture, care and tending

A love so pure and innocent

It warms the heart for whom it’s meant

We’d give our lives for those little souls

That made our incomplete selves into wholes

Blessed I am, to be a mother

To experience this love, like no other.

Ritu 2015

And finally, wishing all those celebrating today, a Happy Mothers Day! Embrace your position!
We all need a mother, we all came from one, some ‘mums’ are not those from which we were born, some mothers journey fell short of the finish line, but they are still mums too, they still dreamt of that future baby, before God took it early…
Thinking of all those mothers too, who need an extra hug today…
and Mother’s Day wishes winging their way upwards to those mothers waiting in the clouds, taken from us, to mother those angels above.

Dear Prime Minister….from teachers everywhere.

Thoughts being echoed around the UK by teachers old and young, a brilliantly put open letter…

Spidey’s Serene Sundays – Part 13

  

“Happiness often sneaks in through a door you didn’t know you left open.” – John Barrymore

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