“When nothing goes right, go left.”
Anon
What a great quote, Spidey! Thanks for finding that gem!
What a thought. When nothing goes right, go left.
A timely reminder that there isn’t only one way to accomplish your goals. When one way leads you to a dead end, there is alway another direction you could follow.
Sometimes we are so focussed on where we go, the psychological blinkers are one, without us even realising.
Our vision is closed to the other ‘slip roads’ that appear along the way; little detours that may take a little longer, but will allow us to reach our destination just as well as the straight forward route.
But there are also routes that veer you totally off course, too.
The biggest example of this, for me, and maybe for maany budding authors, is when I knew I had a book in me, and I wanted to get published.
Initially, it felt like the only way was to find an agent and publisher, in order to see my book baby out there in the world.
Then, thanks to some great writers I know out there, the spotlight was turned to that publication route known as self or independent publishing. Absolutely nothing wrong with going it alone, as long as you have the right support and advice guiding you.
I nearly fell into the vanity publishing lane, but was advised quickly to be wary, unless I had recommendations.
But I managed to veer onto the road to publication the independent way, and here I am, finally at my destination of published author. Sure, it’s not in a mainstream bookstore, but I am still confident that one day, you’ll see my name there, too.
Not a right or wrong route, but a right or left choice. I went left. Got there in the end! And now, my book is officially registered with the British Library, too!
So… tell me, do you take the straightforward road, or are you happy to detour?
Have a peaceful Sunday Peeps. And enjoy your week!
Tikeetha T
Oct 16, 2020 @ 20:06:34
Congrats on getting in the British Library.
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Ritu
Oct 16, 2020 @ 20:55:38
Thank.yoi 💜
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thereluctantpoet
Sep 28, 2020 @ 01:34:03
Reblogged this on The Reluctant Poet and commented:
DON’T MISS SPIDEY’S QUOTE
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Jennie
Sep 28, 2020 @ 01:12:07
You rock, Ritu! And now you’re in the British Library. You should be very proud. I certainly am!
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Ritu
Sep 28, 2020 @ 06:52:59
Thank you so much, Jennie 🙏🏽💜
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Jennie
Sep 28, 2020 @ 12:11:10
You’re welcome, Ritu! 😍
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thereluctantpoet
Sep 27, 2020 @ 21:25:32
OMG Ritu! I LOVE this!! What a fantastic post!! Wow! Congrats on being in the British Library! You should try and get it in the Library of Congress too!! One of my favorite sayings, “If you don’t ask, you don’t get!!” Try? I read the quote to the wife and waited for the laugh, took a few seconds. Deep stuff!! We’ve all been on some detours, haven’t we!! Masterpiece, Dear!
xoxox
😘💕🌹😁✨✨
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Ritu
Sep 27, 2020 @ 22:15:00
Oh, Chuck, so many detours!!!
And thank you so much 🥰
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thereluctantpoet
Sep 28, 2020 @ 15:06:35
Yes, to be sure! This was such a joy to read!!! Great post! Thanks for all your support for my blog, Dear!
xoxox
😘💕🌹😁
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Ritu
Sep 28, 2020 @ 17:14:32
Thank you 💜
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OIKOS™-Editorial
Sep 27, 2020 @ 18:39:20
Hi,Sis! Sorry, i am more and more a Sunday only visitor. The quote is quote, and in my realisation it sounds like “There is always a way for another delay!” Lol Hope you are all well, and you are preparing another great podcast interview. Lets look around to Sonu. Have you managed to use the rest of the wall colour preparing a Pink Panther? Lol
Jokes byside! Wish you a great productive and stressless week! Keep on rocking your school. 😉 Michael
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Ritu
Sep 27, 2020 @ 20:56:30
Thank You, Bro! Sonu has been hiding in a room, ever since the builders and decorators have been in!
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OIKOS™-Editorial
Sep 27, 2020 @ 21:17:24
Lol – Good boy, Sonu! 😉 I hope you are ready in your renovation camp. Some times it sounded like you would rebuild the old Troja, or anything like this. 😉
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Ritu
Sep 27, 2020 @ 22:14:25
There are a few days of work left, Bro. I can’t wait!
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robbiesinspiration
Sep 27, 2020 @ 18:09:10
Thank you, Ritu. With regards to my blog, I copied what Sally did to the extent I could manage and it has worked wonders for me. I am so glad I have all so many writers, poets and bloggers as friends and guides on this journey.
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Ritu
Sep 27, 2020 @ 20:57:04
Absolutely, Robbie. We take ideas from others ahd make them work in a way for ouselves ❤
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johnrieber
Sep 27, 2020 @ 17:59:34
I always felt that the straight path got you to the end of the line much too quickly, and you miss all of the fun diversions along the way! Bravo to you for being registered with the British Library!
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Ritu
Sep 27, 2020 @ 20:57:27
That is so very true, John! Who wants quick and boring, eh?
And thank you ❤
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syl65
Sep 27, 2020 @ 17:05:42
The most important thing is to not become single minded with the route we take. We know our destination and where we want to end up, so we need to be open to all roads that lead us there.
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Ritu
Sep 27, 2020 @ 17:37:16
Precisely, Brother. The road to success is never straight, as mentioned earlier!
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syl65
Sep 27, 2020 @ 19:24:43
We’ll get there, Sister!
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Ritu
Sep 27, 2020 @ 20:55:47
We will, indeed, Brother ❤
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syl65
Sep 27, 2020 @ 22:21:54
❤️
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Darlene
Sep 27, 2020 @ 16:44:26
Such great advice!! The road to success is never a straight line.
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Ritu
Sep 27, 2020 @ 17:36:34
It would be kinda boring if it were, don’t you think?
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Erika
Sep 27, 2020 @ 16:25:54
Detours are part of the process. They also make us discover options we would not have seen otherwise. Next time, the detour may not be necessary anymore because the tools are already at hand.
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Ritu
Sep 27, 2020 @ 17:36:16
Absolutely, sis, you are right there!
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Erika
Sep 27, 2020 @ 19:40:20
Have a nice rest of your Sunday, sis 😘
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Ritu
Sep 27, 2020 @ 20:55:39
You too, sis! ❤
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TanGental
Sep 27, 2020 @ 09:32:59
Always stopping to smell the coffee(other beverages are available). It’s what gives me ideas.
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Ritu
Sep 27, 2020 @ 09:52:29
Absolutely, His Geoffleship!
Over here you’d get the aroma of Chai!!
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willowdot21
Sep 27, 2020 @ 08:10:09
They tell us to stick to the straight and narrow, but when was life ever like that? They told us things were black or white…well that’s not acceptable now, is it? They say do as you are told and keep in line but they can’t chain our souls or minds can they? I say keep your eyes open and go where life takes you and embrace the detours.💜💜💜
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Ritu
Sep 27, 2020 @ 08:27:49
I think that is the best way to think, Sis 💜🥰
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willowdot21
Sep 27, 2020 @ 10:54:38
Me too 💜
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robbiesinspiration
Sep 27, 2020 @ 06:15:59
Publishing is an interesting journey, Ritu. You were better positioned when you published than I was. In 2016 when I published my first Sir Chocolate book I was completely clueless and had no social media at all not even FB. My publishing my books with TSL Publications was sheer good luck. I was also fortunate to find Sally and Sue’s blogs early in my blogging career and, through them, people like you.
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Ritu
Sep 27, 2020 @ 08:27:20
Robbie, I think we are so lucky to have this Blog community, where good advice is abundant 💜
You have done amazingly, considering you were clueless at the start!!!
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