Lovely Ron’s prompt this week:
Clouds & Sunshine


Image from Pixabay
Chase away the clouds
Clear skies bringing a promise
Eternal sunshineRitu 2016
19 Sep 2016 23 Comments
in Challenges, Poems Tags: #ronovansweeklyhaikuchallenge, Blog, Blog Post, Blogger, Blogging, Challenge, Clouds & sunshine, Haiku, ronovan writes
Lovely Ron’s prompt this week:


Image from Pixabay
Chase away the clouds
Clear skies bringing a promise
Eternal sunshineRitu 2016
18 Sep 2016 54 Comments
in Thoughts Opinions & Memories Tags: Bad Moms, Blog, Blog Post, Blogger, Blogging, film, review
It’s been quite a weekend for me. For a change, this mum actually had a social life! Not one event, but two!
Friday night was a party to celebrate 0ur Good Ofsted report, and yesterday my good friend took me, along with two other mums, to go and see Bad Moms for my birthday treat!
Oh, what a fantastic film! It’s not often that a film resonates almost completely with me, but I spent the film either nodding in agreement, or pissing myself laughing at what was happening!

We have a working mum who is juggling a home, and family life, two children, a jerk of a husband, and a part-time job which has become very full time.
There is another mum, who has spent her mothering career as a single mum, and has embraced the ‘slutty mom’ tag she has been given.
The final mum in the main trio is a young downtrodden housewife with 4 kids under a certain age, with an overbearing husband.
Then you get the PTA mums – you know the kind, the ones that appear to be perfect at everything, the ones who influence the thinking of all the other mums. Woe betide you if you do not conform to their idea of perfect mothering!

Here you have Alpha mum, Total Suck Up mum, and Hanger On Mum.
I won’t tell you lots about the story, but suffice to say, all four of us enjoyed it immensely and came out of it feeling like great Bad Moms! It’s a total feel-goodΒ movie, but as a mum, you will relate to so much Β of it! (Hubbies and dads, might be worth watching…)

All I’ll say is ‘Get your tits up!’ (You’ll understand once you watch the film!!!)
Next stop… Brigitte Jones Baby!
18 Sep 2016 29 Comments
in Challenges, Fiction Tags: #WritePhoto, Blog, Blog Post, Blogger, Blogging, Challenge, Fiction, Sue Vincent, The Gate
Sue’s photo prompt this week…

The Gate
Every day we walked to and from school past this gate. Large, foreboding, and always locked.
The walls surrounding the house were of a high stone variety, offering no more glimpses of what was inside, so we would peer through that wrought iron clad entrance, imagining who lived there, and why we never saw them.
The garden appeared unkempt, but someone definitely tended to parts of it, so we knew someone lived there. Grass overgrown, hedges taking over, but stray branches clipped to leave a clear path.
One morning as we trod our regular path, something appeared different.
The perpetually locked gate was⦠open!
My friends and I stood at the open mouthed entrance temptation so strong to go in, but a fear much greater as to what weβd find inside.
We decided to err on the side of caution. Our parents were always harping on at us about safety, stranger danger and sticking to the paths we knew, so we turned towards school and made off in that direction.
I couldnβt help it, I had to turn back, just once, to glance at the, for once, clear view of the grey mansion that rose up at the end of the path. My eyes were drawn to a window upstairs.
I stopped.
Someone was looking back at me.
A small figure, a child, with what appeared to be blonde curls stood at the window, staring out at me.
I called to my friends to come and see, but when they turned to look, the figure was gone.
We went off to school, but my mind kept wandering back to that figure at the window.
On our way home that evening, the gate was closed tight. I peered through and looked up at the window where I had previously seen the figure but the curtains were drawn tight.
Over the next few months, we noticed that the gate remained steadfastly shut, and the gardens were more unkempt than usual. The path was no longer visible. Those curtains never opened again.
Then, one day, as we neared the gate, there appeared to be a hive of activity surrounding it. Men bustling in and out with boxes, and furniture. Large gardening machinery was digging through the forest that the garden had become.
I overheard mum and dad talking over dinner that evening.
ββI canβt believe anyone would want to live there,β Mum was saying. βwhat with all the rumours and stories attached to that place.β
βNothing but rumours Claire,β Dad replied βThe Smythes left ages ago, after all that nasty business with their little boy, poor child. I imagine the memories were too much to bear.β
βBut what about the ghost! Iβve heard so many people talk about the face they see at the window, when no one is meant to be living there. I know Old Jim still went there to tidy the garden up a bit, out of loyalty to the family, and he pooh poohed the idea, but after he passed away, they canβt get anyone to tend to it. Paulineβs boy went for the job, and he said he got chased out by something, and when he looked back all he saw were these two little eyes looking back at him from an upstairs window, the eyes of a little boy. Apparently Little James, rest his soul, loved old Jim. I heard he was named after him too!β
βOh stop your nonsense Claire! There is no ghost, the place was just going to rack and ruin, Poor Old Jim couldnβt cope with looking after such a big property. Itβs a good thing the house is sold now, hopefully the new owners can restore it to its former glory. Now you keep your nose out of others business, and stop filling our boyβs head with silly stories.β With a shake of his newspaper, Dad signalled the end of the conversation.
I excused myself from the table and went to my roomβ¦
So who exactly was that who I saw at the windowβ¦.?

18 Sep 2016 23 Comments
in Spidey's Serene Sundays, Thoughts Opinions & Memories Tags: Blog, Blog Post, Blogger, Blogging, Calm, Positive, Quotes, Serene, Spiderman, Spidey, Spidey's Serene Sunday

“Keep looking up… That’s the secret of life!” – Snoopy
Who’da thunk it? We found wisdom in the words from a dog this week!
I gotta say this Snoopy quote kinda encapsulates everything that I base my thinking in general on.
You have to believe that there is better to come. If you look up, think positive, then positive things will come to you, and you will stay serene yourself!
I know things are not always easy, heck sometimes they are so bad, you think you will never be able to look up, so scared are you of stepping in another pile of sh*t, but you need to believe that the path before you will clear.
Have faith in what is to come.
I have always been taught to believe that He will only throw what you can handle at you, so if things are looking really bad, that means that He thinks you are strong enough to handle itΒ and come out the other side smelling of roses.
What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger, and hey, we are all still here, arent we!
Stay positive Peeps and have a wonderful Sunday!
18 Sep 2016 52 Comments
in Health, Thoughts Opinions & Memories Tags: #icandothis, Blog, Blog Post, Blogger, Blogging, Health Check, Healthy Eating, Slimming World

Well hello all you wonderful Peeps!
Sorry I haven’t done my healthy living update for a couple of weeks but school/life/family… you know, those things, they kinda get in the way!
But last time I mentioned that I was starting Slimming World to kick start things again for me, weight-loss wise!
So, I have been following the plan for 2 weeks now, and I can honestly say I have really enjoyed the ideas behind the eating, and weight loss reasoning. I am eating well, I am never really hungry either!
So, to start, here are a few foody pics to whet your appetite!
Did you see? Even my favourite chocolate snack, Malteasers, featured! I can eat Malteasers on this plan! I am so happy!
Yesterday I went out to dinner to celebrate our school’s Good Ofsted report, and I felt a lot more confident in myself too! And I didn’t have to starve myself, heck I was even able to have a wine spritzer!

And my loss?
Well, after 2 weeks on SW I lost
That’s a total of
Thank you all for your encouragement!!!!!