Spidey’s Serene Sunday -Part 59

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“Though no one can go back and make a brand new start, anyone can start from now and make a brand new ending.”– Carl Bard

Admit it.

There are always times in your life when you wished that you coulda done that again, or thought “if only…”

Thing is, it ain’t gonna happen again, there is no real life movie,  where things will keep happening, over and over, until we get it right.

It’s best to try and draw a line under yesterday and start over.

Using the knowledge you have today, make a fresh start the next day, and endeavour to make it a better one.

Have a wonderful Sunday Peeps!

(I’m trying to make a fresh start on the kids bedroom… chucking things out like a loony, in the hope that we will soon have space to then move them into their own rooms, and that they can start with no clutter! Wish me luck… you should see my own room! I really need to learn how to live minimally…. but the problem is ‘everything’ is a memory, or useful!)

Be – SoCS 2/16

Saturday brings Linda’s SoCS… and here is my take!

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Twas a post that was meant to be
Directed by Linda you see
Just take this one word
It might be absurd
And write, go on, you’re free!

BE.

To be or not to be
Is that a question or what?
I want to be a great writer.
I want to be a perfect mother.
I want to be the best wife ever.
I want to be a teacher my pupils never forget.

So many things I want to be.

And they are all things I can aspire to, to try and be as long as I put in the effort and work.

But the biggest thing I want to be is happy. If I’m happy, all those around me are happy too.  Everything takes on a golden glow.

And when I think about it, I don’t want to be happy, I am happy!

So I urge you all too, don’t think about it too much, put a smile on that face, and feel the difference it makes in your life.

Don’t worry, be happy!

I love this song!!!!!!

Happy Saturday Peeps!

Happiness Tinged with Regret. ..

It’s Friday, yay!!!!
We’ve had a lovely time at my parents. And even extended our stay by one day, as Hubby Dearest suggested it… 2 nights flew by and he knows how important my parents are to me.
Bless him!

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But you know we can’t have everything and much as I love being here, the kids and I miss Daddy and Sonu Singh too!

So it’s time to pack our bags and get ready to drive that looooong journey home.

We’ll be back in another county by around lunchtime.

Then I’ll be sat at home missing Pops and Mum!
I can’t win!!!!!

But then, maybe I already have…

Just yesterday I spoke with my best friend  and sister from anotha mista after months… we don’t see each other much or even speak much nowadays because of life… but 110% we are there for each other.

The fact that I have places to go, family that cares,  people I love.

Of course I won! They’re the ones that give me peace of mind and the strength to continue, even in the face of adversity.

We don’t all need money and material possessions to have won the game of life. Having people who care about you, people always there for you, that’s winning 🙂

Have a wonderful Friday Peeps! I’ll catch ya when I’m back home!

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But I Smile Anyway...

Slimming World – #WritePhoto

Sue has given us another wonderful photo prompt!

Fat thin rocks...

I went for humour, a 2 part limerick… a bit weird, but hey, that’s my mind for you!I have no excuse for how my brain works sometimes!

Slimming World
“How’dya do it?” said Fat Rock to Thin
“Look so tall yet incredibly slim?”
“It’s easy” said Thin
With a sly little grin
“I just tend to hold my breath in”
The secret though folks is the sun
When the pale orb’s shine has begun
Its shadows create
A shape that is fake
Svelte without having to run!

Ritu 2016

Shahi Paneer – Fit For A King

One of the numerous benefits of going home to visit my folks is the chance to eat my mum’s wonderful food.  She is  a great cook. And I know most people think that of their mum’s cooking, but my mum seriously is an amazing cook!

Our plan nowadays involves me watching her make certain dishes, at least one every visit, and writing the recipes down, because, as she likes to remind me, “not in a morbid way or anything”, she won’t be around forever!

This time, I requested a particular dish for Hubby Dearest, who is home alone, pining for us.  He often craves for a dish called Shahi Paneer. Shahi is the word associated with the royalty, so it is essentially quite a rich, sumptuous curry with paneer, which is Indian cheese.

Mum had planned to make it for me take home anyway, but the cooking process became a full on tutorial, and I thought I would be a good member of the Blogily, and share the processes.

Please forgive me, but there are no amounts for the ingredients, as my mum uses andaaza. This basically is when you just know! It’s a skill I think many mothers hone over the years while cooking the family favourite dishes!

So here goes…

Ingredients

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Some of the ingredients

 

Paneer, cubed
Onions, ground to a paste
Cumin seeds
Fresh tomatoes
Tinned chopped tomatoes
Turmeric
Salt
Pepper
Garam masala
Kasoori methi
Milk
Single cream
Cashew nuts
Coriander

Method

  • Add a little oil to a large saucepan and heat. Add cumin seeds and onions that have been ground to a paste. Cook on a low heat until the onions start to change colour, to a light golden brown.
  • Grind ginger, garlic and chillies and add to the onions, cooking for a few minutes.
  • Grind the fresh tomatoes, and blitz the chopped tinned tomatoes too. ( You gotta love the grinder!) Add these to the pan. Be generous with the tomatoes, they help to make a beautiful gravy for this dish.
  • At this point, add turmeric, salt, black pepper and garam masala, to taste.
  • This mixture needs to simmer gently until it begins to separate, and you see the oil rise to the top. Make sure the tomatoes are cooked well.
  • Take a handful of dried Kasoori methi in the palm of your hand and grind it to a sort of powder before adding to the pan. Another Mum tip: Griding the dried leaves with your hands actually releases the flavour better!
  • Time to prepare the cashews. Toast a handful of cashew nuts. Mum used the microwave for about 2 minutes… Who knew you could toast nuts in the microwave?!  Use a pestle and mortar, or that faithful grinder to grind the nuts then add them to the mixture.

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  • Using a hand blender blend the masala mixture in the pan. Shahi paneer requires a smooth sauce.
  • Add milk during the blending and, and some hot water.Give it a good whizz, then taste, and adjust seasoning if required.
  • Add the cream then cook on a low heat for a short while.

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  • Meanwhile, we need to get the paneer ready.
  • Cube the paneer, then lightly fry it until the colour starts to go golden brown. Drain the paneer and add it to the sauce.

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  • Allow to cook for a few moments then turn off the heat. Sprinkle fresh coriander over the top, and the dish is ready!

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Another mum tip, if you are eating straight away that is fine, but if you are planning on allowing it to cool for later, or freezing it, decant into a glass or earthenware container to cool.  She is convinced the tomatoes and cream could react to the pan metal.. though she isn’t sure!!!

Enjoy this dish with naan bread.

FIT FOR A KING!

Mum made a huge VAT of this for us, so I will be freezing some too!

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