Your Friday prompt for Stream of Consciousness Saturday is “me.” Find a word that starts with “me” or use the word “me” as the theme of your post. Have fun!
Me.
It’s not selfish to think of myself sometimes.
I mean, I give my all to the world every single day.
As a wife and mother.
As a daughter/daughter-in-law.
As a sister.
As a friend.
As a teacher.
As a manager.
As a colleague.
As a writer.
As a reader.
Some days, when life allows me the luxury, I just forget about everyone and curl up with a good book and a cup of tea.
Self-care at its finest.
Sometimes we have to put ME first, otherwise we won’t have anything left in our reserves to cope with the rest of our responsibilities, and it’s taken me a long time to realise that.
It’s my birthday month, and I am back at school, so goodness knows if I will be able to stay awake long enough to read any books, lol! Took me a week to read the first book, so is that a sign of things to come? Only one book a week? Let’s see!
My Perfect Ex is a great read with a social message woven through the threads of the story. Mental health is something that, more than ever, now, we all need to be aware of and talk about. We have our main character, Poppy, a successful business owner, ensuring that homes and businesses can have surroundings that encourage positive mental health. Because she has been through the harshness of living with someone suffering from depression and mental health issues. The problem is she has never been able to share the burden of becoming a young carer with anyone, even her best friends, for fear of stigma. Of course, there is more to the story. Poppy is hiding her relationship from her friends, too, because she thinks no one will approve of the fact she is with yer teenage crush, who they all pegged as a bit of a Romeo. But do they really know Dylan as well as they think? She works hard to overcompensate for where she feels she has been lacking, and it’s only when she finally has to admit certain truths that relationships begin to unravel, and it takes a lot of soul-searching to get them back on track. The story is set in Cherry Blossom Lane and surrounding areas, and I did enjoy the ending, which has made me wonder who the next main character will be, since this is the first of a series of books!
This time Jessie Newton joins the foray and adds her story to the Linden Falls-based series. Loretta works for Neva in the Wishing Tree Inn when she’s not travelling around like a gipsy, returning forgotten items from the inn to their rightful owners. This trip back finds her with two new friends, Sally and Lois, who accompany her back to Linden Falls. Both women need a fresh start in their own lives and have issues they need to overcome. Loretta has little faith in the power of the Wishing Tree after it failed her many years ago. However, she takes a chance on another wish when she introduces her new friends to the magic. All three women need their own second chances at love, life and belief. The Wishing Tree certainly waves something magical in the air. Lovely addition to the series.
Martha’s Cottage is a story about trust. Or rather the effects of trust being broken. Sarah and Ben are struggling with the effects of infertility. Their marriage is teetering: balancing on each and every pregnancy that comes up negative, waiting for that positive that changes everything and balances everything out. Instead of waiting it out, Ben is pulled into an affair that ruins any chance they have of a happy marriage. And then she finds out something that could change even more in their lives. Sarah runs away to a small cottage owned by her best friend. A cottage that belonged to her grandmother, Martha. Here, she begins to re-evaluate her life. The story is based on the breaking of trust and whether you can ever rebuild it. The effects of infertility hit home, as we have been there, and not knowing if you will ever be able to fulfil that one dream you may have had forever is heartbreaking. But an intriguing story, nonetheless.
I do like to read books written by Indian authors and picked this up at the bookstore with high hopes. Ramesh Kumar is the son of a chai-walla, who a French nun gave him an opportunity to educate himself. His intelligence means that he rises above his father’s abusive ranks and makes money by using his intelligence to help the sons of rich families get the results they need to gain admission into foreign universities and such. He hits paydirt when taking one of these falsified exams and ends up with a client becoming a ‘Topper’, as in getting the highest marks that year. This propels the young man in question, Rudi, to stardom, and Ramesh uses this to blackmail himself into the regular payroll of Rudi by becoming his manager. The story highlights the level of corruption in so many areas of Indian systems, from education to government, police to broadcasting. It was a quirky story with the appeal of Slumdog Millionaire. Not a bad read, but maybe not one I would want to read again.
I was looking for something on my TBR that would entertain me. A light-hearted read that I could escape into. And perusing through my list, I decided that The Gin Lover’s Guide to Dating would be the right choice, and I was right, It was a perfect choice! Liv is living life. She has proved herself, moving away from her tough upbringing and working to a significant position in the company she works for, with her swish flat and plenty of great colleagues and friends. Until it all comes tumbling down. The promotion she hoped for is snatched away from her, as well as the job she has put her all into the past few years. Hard times always weed out the hangers-on from the real friends, and Liv realises that Dylan, her childhood buddy and surrogate big brother, is all she really has on her side. Money dwindling and an oversaturated job market means that she ends up taking a position as a bartender in a hotel bar at the recommendation of an old acquaintance of hers, and this brings the opportunity to start a blog which could become something much bigger… I read this in a few hours and was loathe to put it down if I am honest! Romance? Yes. Alcohol? Plenty! Finding yourself? Absolutely! I loved the characters who supported Liv on her journey of discovery, from Dylan, her straight-talking friend, to Amir and Reyes, her new bar colleagues who turn into some of the best friends she has ever had. The hunk that is Josh certainly added a few sparks, and Aaron, her guardian angel, was that and more! Fantastic read, and now I can’t wait to dive into another of Kaye’s books!
Oh, what a great book! Alex’s life is running smoothly, with a career that is going great and a wedding in a matter of weeks. Everything is wonderful until she gets the rug pulled from under her feet when she collapses at work. A diagnosis of MS sets her in a tailspin. Who wants to be diagnosed with one of those ‘invisible’ diseases? Alex finds her life turned upside down as she recovers from her initial diagnosis. Everyone has her wrapped in cotton wool, and no one thinks she can live her old life easily or safely. After finding no positive support from her mother and sister, and a break-up with her fiance she decides to up sticks and moves from Scotland to Birmingham, much to the distress of her family. Can you live alone once diagnosed with one of these degenerative diseases? This book was so bittersweet, in many ways, from the way the romance side played out to the way family, ones and work begin to treat a person with a diagnosis for something like ME. I applaud Alex for continuing to live her life, even with her barriers. Sure, she was stubborn in places, but lessons were learned, and she had a good bunch of people around her, too. Sacha, her best friend, was brilliant with her problems but developed through the story herself. And when I talk about love interests, there wasn’t just one! Most of all, I loved Emmanuel, her new boss, at her new job. An understanding woman who took the equality and diversity rules of their company and ensured that Alex was given a fair and rightful chance to perform her role, and when push came to shove, she was there for Alex when it counted. And to answer my above question, you most certainly can live alone and live a full life, as long as you have your support network!
Okay, so I’ll start by saying it took me a little while to get into this book, but once I did, I was reading in a frenzy to find out what was going to happen! Trigger warnings for abuse, rape and sexual harassment. Kitty Collins is an influencer of very high regard. She’s part of a circle of people who seem to have money, come what may, living a lifestyle of luxury, beautiful homes, endless social life and a steady stream of alcohol and drugs to fuel it. As well as secrets. Kitty has one or two of those buried deep inside, which only come out as the story unfolds. But, she also adds a new one to her secret repertoire when she accidentally kills a man who wouldn’t take no for an answer. This instigates a need to become a secret vigilante for the women of the world, trying to right the wrongs of society in her way. It might not be the right way, but it was one way. There are shades of the #MeToo movement here, as well as the effects of mental health on a person’s way of thinking and behaving. As I said at the beginning, it took me a little while to get into, but I’m glad I persevered!
A chance occurrence on Christmas eve leaves our heroine Liv in a precarious situation, where her life could take one of two paths… Here’s where the story gets interesting. Unfortunately, here was where the reading got confusing for me. I loved the premise of the story. However, the two parallel stories, running side by side, were somewhat confusing as they weren’t labelled or separated by chapters. We hear of the two different paths Liv’s life could take, after a chance with death on Christmas Eve, both with the same conclusion, however, I found myself having to backtrack to see which Liv I was reading about. I still enjoyed the story; nevertheless, I could have done with a little more clear signposting. Many thanks to NetGalley and Head of Zeus for an ARC in exchange for an honest opinion.
The review will be posted on or about October 27th, when wonderful author Anita Faulkner will be joining me for a Book and a Brew with Ritu chat!
Another Amanda Prowse book to dive into? Don’t mind if I do! I am a huge fan of her magnificent writing, and I was not disappointed at all by the beautiful story that is Picking Up the Pieces. Nora is a military wife, used to accompanying her well-decorated husband Gordy wherever he is stationed, but life is beginning to feel tiresome. She’s lost all sense of roots. They are on the brink of collapse when a phone call shatters what was her life, as she rushes to be a support for her sister, Kiki, and little nephew, Ted. I don’t want to reiterate the story to you. What kind of review would that be? But what I will say is that Amanda Prowse has sensitively dealt with the fragility of mental health here as well as delving into how childhood experiences can shape your thinking and way of life more than you know. Nora and Gordy are two people you could be friends with. Kiki and her masquerade as a happy single mum remind you that you should never judge a book by its cover. And I must mention the little diversion to the story in several snippets from Spain that weaves another layer of magic into the inevitable ending. Beautiful story. I read it in a day and admit to being sad when it ended, too! Many thanks to NetGalley and Amazon Publishing for an ARC in exchange for an honest review.
It’s been a while since I have read anything with much of a steam factor, and sometimes, I need to remember what I am reading and where! Okay, so that sounds like this is a bonk-fest of a book when it’s not! However, some scenes are in there to leave you hot under the collar! So, back to the book itself, Tara Chen is a nurse and a book influencer with a penchant for romance, but she can’t find her prince. After agreeing to move into her brother-in-law to be’s old apartment to allow him to move in with her sister, she embarks upon a search of her exes to find someone to have that second chance romance with… Thing is, life isn’t a bunch of romance tropes, though if you look hard enough, you can probably find one to match what you are going through. And sometimes, what you need might be under your nose the whole time. Tara is a ditsy character who you can’t help but like, and her tendency to go all out is interpreted by many so wrongly when all she wants is happily ever after. Her roommate (sorry, being British, I find this hard… I’d say flat-mate as they don’t share a room), Trevor, is a moody, surly firefighter with no romantic bone in his body. She knows his rakish type, with a different woman whenever he goes out. But he ends up giving the best advice, and they open up to each other in such a cute way! Back to the steam… When the chemistry is there, OMG, you feel the heat turn up a notch! Overall a fun book and I will definitely be putting Lea’s other book on my TBR as a result! Many thanks to NetGalley and Penguin for an ARC in exchange for an honest opinion.
Another visit to Linden Falls, and this time, courtesy of my favourite author. Amanda Prowse. This time we learn more about Vera, the owner of the local salon, curl Up & Dye. Vera has been in Linden Falls for many years and is a settled part of the community, however, not many locals know much about her past. Things begin to change as she receives a letter from her son, who she rarely sees, announcing his impending marriage and a visit to see her, bringing along his new fiancee and his father. The Linden Tree made one of her wishes come true many years ago… And after an eventful visit, another wish is hung upon that tree. However, when wishes come true, they don’t always look like you imagined them. We also get to revisit the first character Amanda introduced us to, Verity, from England, and it is great to see how well she has settled. Lovely addition to the Linden Falls tales, and it was a delight to read Amanda writing from an American perspective instead of British!
A phenomenal debut by Jessica George, detailing the life of Maddie, a British-born Ghanaian woman left to care for her father, who has Parkinson’s, while her mother is running a business in Ghana, and her older brother has more important things to do. At the age of 25, Maddie is saddled with more responsibility than she should have, and her family nickname, Maame, becomes more of a stone around her neck than a bit of affection. Maame means Mother, and she has become that far too early in her life. Maddie also has to deal with microaggression at work, being the only black person in her company and finding that she is either overlooked or not understood. This story shows the coming of Maddie, or at least the coming out of Maddie from Maame’s shadow. She’s been so busy caring for her father and just allowing life to pass her by that when the opportunity arises for her to move out, thanks to her mother moving back home, she grabs the opportunity by the horns, complete with a list of things she needs to achieve to feel that she has finally graduated to a real adult. Only life isn’t always that simple. There is a clash of two cultures, the value of real friendship, being touted as the token POC in work, and within the dating community, too. And death and depression, too. I know, first-hand, how mental health can be swept under the carpet in many cultural backgrounds, and this has been brilliantly explored by the author in this book, too. I truly enjoyed this. Many thanks to NetGalley and Hodder & Stoughton for an ARC in exchange for an honest opinion.
I’ve enjoyed a few of Nicola May’s books and was intrigued to read this one. I wasn’t disappointed! August is an author with a bit of personal history that she is trying to put behind her. Moving back to where she grew up, from the busyness of London, she finds it hard to engage in her writing until she is introduced to The Hub and all its inhabitants or users. And some of those slowly become good friends (and more). There is plenty to laugh about in this book and some quite sad bits, but the story is well rounded, and the characters are so colourfully written that they lift off the page and dance around in front of you. I want to see a turkey farm now, too, by the way!
An interesting book about the psyche behind your favourite music, and why that may be the case. Definitely one for the hardcore music fans. Listening to the music and songs referred to in the chapters was good to deepen the experience. Many thanks to NetGalley and Random House UK for an ARC in exchange for an honest review.
Releasing 6th October, 2022
I managed 15, which isn’t too shabby!
So, tell me what you have been reading, and what caught your eye from the above!
Morning, Peeps. It’s Monday again. Where is the time going? Week five in school already!
My drink is in hand… are you ready?
If we were having chai, I’d say that school has been good but hectic. We still know Ofsted will be calling at some point, and until that is done, we are all on tenterhooks. There are so many plans and hopes for school this year, and September is when we are all getting our heads around everything. This week my children started their first-ever full-time week. Though it was only four days, you could see the tiredness in their eyes by Friday (as you could ours!) But they coped exceptionally well. You can certainly see the characters coming out now. I am in each of my two classes two days a week, along with one day of management time, and it whizzes by. I am getting to know 60 children well, instead of 30, which is a feat in itself and keeping track of the almost 40 we have in Nursery. All a joy to behold! (Is it any wonder I am shattered!)
If we were having chai, I’d tell you things at home are always busy, too. Lil Princess wasn’t feeling unwell one day, which had her messaging me from school, wanting to go home, and me trying. to contact her school to find out what was going on, a doctor, and juggle a child who had been struggling with his behaviour in class, resulting in me needing to speak to several parents, too… All at once! And Lil Man picked up his first cold, so it was teenage stroppiness, times 2 as he insisted he was fine when he wasn’t!
If we were having chai, I’d say that I made a conscious choice to not do any housework or ironing during the week, and Saturday found me cleaning and washing, changing bed linen, and unpacking grocery shopping, as well as taking Lil Princess to her optician’s appointment, and cooking a roast dinner! Hubby Dearest was tackling the windows, inside and out, and giving the summer house a clean, too! Sunday, devoted to that huge ironing mountain, and then chilling!
If we were having chai, I’d give you a peek at Sonu Singh since we didn’t get one last week. He’s been keeping his Daddy company in the week and taking great pleasure in waking me up at the crack of dawn every morning to get his food! But, as the cold weather begins to creep in, it is lovely to have him curling up with me, warming my feet!
This week, it is pretty manic in school, with me at a training session all day, today, then staff illnesses and planned absences meaning the whole school will be trying to club together to ensure all avenues are covered all week! I can’t even remember what is happening at home! Oh, yes, a Futures Exhibition for Lil Man, and a special appointment for Lil PRincess on the weekend!
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“She reads books as one would breathe air, to fill up and live.”
Annie Dillard
Thank you, Spidey, for finding another quote that suits me just fine!.
Firstly, sorry for posting late!
But, this, as you will see from the gist of my post, is where the above quote is relevant.
As soon as I start school in September, things begin to happen.
Life goes from a comfortable speed to powering ahead with me a the wheel of a large truck, trying to keep all my cargo safe.
my team and their wellbeing
my new class, and settling them into their new life in school
new initiatives and expectations to be implemented in school
my family and their various needs, be it being taxi mum to their emotional health and wellbeing
keeping house, even after long days (that ironing pile seems to double when we are working!)
having time for Hubby Dearest, who is juggling his own cargo load
giving Sonu Singh plenty of love
new pressures of keeping to a better budget with all these rising costs…
my own health and sanity, not helped by the onset of Perimenopause
As you can imagine, all this leaves me pretty shattered at the end of a typical working day.
It means that I have no energy left for my other passion which is my writing. I have editing to do. I have a new book to start plotting… But I don’t have the headspace or the time to do either.
What I won’t forgo, though, is my time with a good book.
Reading is like food for my soul. A moment to dip into the lives of others and to forget what is going on around me at any given moment.
It’s true that I read much less in the week, as I find I am asleep by 9.30pm, but I will always read a few pages at least before my eyes close.
My Kindle is brimming with at least 150 unread books that I have downloaded over the years, and my little trolley of unread books holds around 50 more physical books I have either been sent to read or have picked up on my visits to bookshops. My Amazon Wishlist has plenty more that I want to read… one day…
I don’t think I will ever reach the end of my TBR pile, virtual or otherwise, and I am not sad about that at all. It means that I will always have a tap of beautiful stories to turn on and sink into when I have nothing left to give to the world…
But I Smile Anyway... 
