Poor Lil (Big) Fishy!

A few years back, we used to have a fish tank. Two actually.

A cold water tank with goldfish and a tropical tank which we actually inherited from Hubby Dearest’s cousins.

It was so soothing to sit and watch them swimming around, but slowly, the work of looking after two tanks, a furbaby and the family took its toll.

The goldfish died and I secreted the tank in the shed.

The tropical tank became like a ghost tank, as, rather than replace each tragedy that was inevitable in fish tanks, we let it run down until it was finally empty…

But we missed the fish.

Hubby Dearest would love to get his parents more involved in looking after Sonu Singh or even getting a cat or dog themselves, but they are so not interested!

So one day he picked up the old goldfish tank, and set it up in their house, complete with two ornamental goldfish. One white and one golden.

Mum in Law was not best pleased, but she took to the looking after routine and was happy to have something little to look after, and the kids loved to feed the fish and watch them swimming around.

They have never been given names, though!

Today, it struck me how much Mum actually loves those fish.

We spent the evening with them, and after a time mum asked me to check the fish. The big one, the white one, was spending increasing time laying at the bottom of the tank, and the gold one would apparently go and check on it after a while, sometimes even laying on it.

I hate to say it but it looks like time is running out for Big White… It looks like old age, and possibly too much food has finally caught up with him…

When we first got him, he would chase the other fish, and eat all the food before Goldy got a chance. Now, three years later, that same Goldy is checking up on his old friend…

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It seems to me that we will have to find a replacement for Big White… Mum is so concerned, it is touching to see.

But I don’t think that she has been convinced to get another baby of the four-legged furry kind!

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Spidey’s Serene Sunday – Part 94

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“Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don’t matter, and those who matter don’t mind.” – Dr Seuss

I do like this quote that Spidey found for us this week.

I fear we spend far too long worrying about what others will think, often suppressing our own desires and true selves.

We are human, born with our own opinions, our own looks, our own thoughts.

Embrace you

You are special.

You are unique.

Surround yourself with those who love you for who you are, not those who wish for you to change parts of your physical appearance, or your opinions, in order to garner their approval.

Seriously. They really don’t matter.

Enjoy this Sunday being you, and make sure you continue to be you every day!

Happy Sunday Peeps!

 

Don’t Take Life For Granted

Saddened by a few pieces of personal news this week…

Words flow from strange places…

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Life, it has no permanence
Life gives no guarantees
So we should live it fully
And do the things that please

Life, a gift bestowed on us
Like a seed, once planted
Water it, nurture it, help it grow
Don;t take life for granted

Ritu 2016

Aw Shucks!

Can I just say a huge thank you!

You, my Peeps, are an amazing bunch of people, and have made my birthday extra special with all your great wishes!

My day… hmmm, it’s been strange, bittersweet, if I may say so.

I was woken rudely at 3am by a stray Lil Princess, who refused to go to bed… so we had 1 and a half hours of ups and downs, either my Hubby Dearest or I, up and down trying to get her to bed.  In the end Hubby went and pulled the guest bed out in the kids room to settle her.  By this time I was wide awake.  I was also extremely selfishly P-ed off, as I wanted my hubby by my side. So I went off downstairs to wash dishes, and load the tumble dryer, and sort out paperwork. Yes, really!

Then I was back at 4am, still awake, so I read until 4.15am when Hubby came back. We attempted to sleep, but guess who came back? Lil Princess of course.  I had to get up in a couple of hours so I gave up the own bed mission and she climbed in!

Bitty sleep from 3am to a cheery wake up call at 6am from a bright Lil Man! ” Happy birthday mummy! Shall I make you breakfast?” I managed to convince him to sleep for an hour longer with me, as for a change on a work day, I was getting up at 7am, not 6am.  Then finally we woke.

He had written me a little letter, which was so sweet that I cried!  And the envelope also contained £5 in change “because people give money in birthday cards”… bless him!!

We breakfasted together, he cut me up banana and served me yoghurt! So cute!

Then I got ready and woke the Lil Princess for brekkie too.

During the day at school we had training, and I was trying my best the whole time to stay awake in the training that we had!  I received some lovely cards and presents from colleagues…

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My cake…

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The bitter part of the bittersweet? I also found out that the son of my mother in law’s best friend had passed away this morning, only 42, and obviously this coloured the evening….

Such a sad piece of news, may he Rest In Peace….

It just makes me all the more conscious of the fact that we have to grab what we have by both hands, and live life fully.

Today, even more than anything else, I an thankful for my LIFE.

Stay Safe Peeps! I’m going to bed now, hopefully to not be woken before my alarm, by a little person!!!!!

Wise Wednesday

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I think this speaks for itself Peeps,
You gotta lay your own foundations first, before building your future, or before expecting something on a plate…

But I Smile Anyway...

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