
Instruction does much, but encouragement, everything. – Johann Wolfgang von Goethe
11 Sep 2016 25 Comments
in Spidey's Serene Sundays Tags: Blog, Blog Post, Blogger, Blogging, Calm, Education, foundations, Learning, Quotes, Serene, Spiderman, Spidey, Spidey's Serene Sunday, Teaching

Instruction does much, but encouragement, everything. – Johann Wolfgang von Goethe
10 Sep 2016 22 Comments
in Challenges, Poems Tags: #TJ's Household Haiku Challenge, Blog, Blog Post, Blogger, Blogging, Challenge, Edge, Haiku Hub, Wordpress Weekly Photo Prompt
We have the word Edge fro TJ as this week’s Haiku prompt.
This week he has even tied in with the WP Weekly Photo prompt!
My takes, (yes two!) this week are as follows
By the water’s edge
Surveying God’s creations
At one with natureRitu 2016
Embroidered edges
Embellished with sparkling gems
Finishing touchesRitu 2016
Proud member of the Haiku Hub!

10 Sep 2016 49 Comments
in Challenges, Thoughts Opinions & Memories Tags: Blog, Blog Post, Blogger, Blogging, Linda G Hill, Socs, View
Saturday SoCS prompt …
Your Friday prompt for Stream of Consciousness Saturday is: “view.” Use it any way you’d like. Enjoy!

How do you view yourself?
Do others view you in the same way?
Or do you have an over/under-inflated image of yourself?
I think I’m an ok person. Happy, friendly, positive, approachable.
Others may view me as annoying.
At times I can be funny, the life of the party, but on other occasions, I can be a wallflower.
But I know I can be a tad stubborn, I speak my mind, I often don’t think before I speak too!
How do you view me?
09 Sep 2016 19 Comments
in Challenges, Poems Tags: #WritePhoto, Blog, Blog Post, Blogger, Blogging, Broken, Sue Vincent
For Sue’s #writephoto prompt.

Crumbling, but beautiful
A shell of its former glory
Yet still a symbol
Of my love for you
Though the years have been unkind,
Though our light has dimmed
It’s still there, glowing gently
Celebrating a love that’s trueRitu 2016

07 Sep 2016 32 Comments
in Children, Thoughts Opinions & Memories Tags: Big Brother, Blog, Blog Post, Blogger, Blogging, Children, First Week, Lil Man, Proud Mum, Secondary school
I feel bad calling him Lil Man, but in stature he still is, so I guess I can carry on using the moniker!
Anyway, as you all know, he embarked on the next stage of his educational journey on Monday, starting BIG SCHOOL or secondary school.
I was so nervous. Much more nervous than him, or if he was, he did a great job of hiding his nerves!
But we walked in together, and he disappeared off…
He used his new mobile to text me at break, to say everything was ok, and let me know when he had lunch.
His grandad was there at the gate, waiting to pick him and they walked home with a few of the other boys he knows already, and their respective carers.
So my baby got home in one piece, with a big grin on his face!
And over the last 2 days, he has surpassed himself, in my eyes, anyway. He has come home with achievement points each day (one was an Ethos Award and the other a Star of the Class Award!), no forgetting anything, rudeness or bad behaviour, that would result in behaviour points, and 100% attendance, to all his classes.
How do I know?
Well, nowadays there is this whole system that is like Big Brother for schools!

His school sends all parents a special login to a service where we can see a child’s timetable, and each subject teacher registers them every lesson so you can make sure there is no truancy happening.
If you are like me and you worry, but don’t want to be too obvious, this site is perfect. If he forgets to text to say he arrived (which he has forgotten every day so far!) I can check to make sure he was registered initially.
I can see if there are any positive/negative points awarded, so they can’t hide that detention…!
Even their homework is on there so we know when things are set, and due. A good idea so you can give them gentle reminders to make sure they don’t forget. (forgotten homework is a behaviour point or even detention!)
We know when they have PE, so can make sure they always have the relevant kit in school. Sadly they don’t have lockers or even coat hooks, so this all has to be carried around on the day, along with the relevant subject books for that day.
And all his academic progress will be on there as they get assessed, for us to see.
I can pay online for his school dinners, if he wants them, so he doesn’t have to carry around money. They have their thumbs scanned at the beginning, so when they want to buy food, they scan their thumbs, and the relevant amount is deducted. And, I can check to see what feed items he has bought too, so if lunch is consisting of 3 desserts and chips, we can try and rectify that, because we know… no more fobbing mummy off with “I ate [insert all healthy food followed by a fruit dessert because that’s what mummy wants to hear!}”
We also have the ability to email their teachers directly of we have any worries. I did this today, to clarify a couple of points, and assured them I would not become one of those parents who is constantly on their case! And I got the most amazing reply back from one of his form tutors, telling me what a pleasure our son is to have in class, and how much they love to have him there! I’m not that naive that I would think my boy is something extra special to them. They probably would say the same for all the children, especially so early on in the year, but it still makes us feel so proud of him!
So, all in all, he has settled beautifully! And yes he has his phone, which he spent a few days going crazy on, WhatsApping his friends constantly, but the novelty has worn off now I thing
And yes he has his phone, which he spent a few days going crazy on, WhatsApping his friends constantly, but the novelty has worn off now I think, so it is there for the emergencies that I said he needed it for!
Signing off as a very happy mummy! 🙂