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#SoCS Feb. 25/17 – How

25 Feb 2017 39 Comments

by Ritu in Family, Poems, Socs, Thoughts Opinions & Memories Tags: Blog, Blog Post, Blogger, Blogging, funeral, Goodbye, How, Linda G Hill, Loss, poem, Socs

Linda’s #SoCS prompt this week…

Your Friday prompt for Stream of Consciousness Saturday is: “how.” Start your post with the word “How.” Bonus points if you end with it too. Enjoy!

I am attending my dear cousin’s funeral today… The following #SoCS entry is for him.

How will we get through today
When goodbye is the word we have to say?
Why did you have to leave us so?
Who told you it was your time to go?
What should we feel, sorrow or gladness
That you suffered little, but left us with this madness?
Where will you go, some place peaceful now?
I guess that you’ll let us know, somehow…

Ritu 2017

RIP Manjit Virji

Peace be with your beautiful soul 😢

Day 25 #Loveuary ❤ – Chocolate

25 Feb 2017 27 Comments

by Ritu in #loveuary, Poems, Thoughts Opinions & Memories Tags: #loveuary, Blog, Blog Post, Blogger, Blogging, Chocolate, Limerick, Malteasers

Mmmm, Chocolate! I LOVE chocolate.

No seriously, I am not exaggerating. I really do LOVE chocolate. One day many years ago, I had a food sensitivity testing done, as I was getting itchy all the time, and one of the foodstuffs that came up for me to avoid was, Shock, Horror! Chocolate!

I decided then and there that a life of itching was preferable to an existence without the cocoa gold! Existence, that is exactly what it would be…not living life if I had to give up chocolate!

I can happily eat pretty much all chocolate. Plain, Milk, White, flavoured, chocolate coated anything (almost!) but my absolute favourite… Malteasers!

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And so, an ode to Malteasers just had to be written!

Oh glorious globes of pleasure
Bringing joy I just can’t measure
I love how you taste
Never eat you in haste
Each nibble of you do I treasure!

Ritu 2017

Remember, feel free to take part in #Loveuary! Just ping back to the daily post, as in this one for today! And if you are at a loss for a prompt, then visit my rules post here for a list of prompt suggestions!

Tomorrow…

24 Feb 2017 84 Comments

by Ritu in Family, Thoughts Opinions & Memories Tags: absence, Blog, Blog Post, Blogger, Blogging

… we say goodbye to my cousin.

I will be attending the funeral so will not be as prompt as usual with answering notifications tomorrow.

I drive to the Midlands tonight to stay with Pops, so I’ll check in then.

I have scheduled posts tomorrow though so I’ll theoretically be around, and I will catch up… but apologies in advance if I miss any wonderful posts in that time.

Enjoy your Saturday and I will be back to full Ritu-ness soon.

Peace.

❤

Ritu’s Healthy Eating Week 29 – #icandothis

24 Feb 2017 38 Comments

by Ritu in Health, Thoughts Opinions & Memories Tags: #icandothis, Bhangra, Blog, Blog Post, Blogger, Blogging, Health, Healthy Eating, Slimming World, Weight Loss

It was another week of emotional ups and downs. Birthdays, coping with loss, late nights, back to school..some element of cake, and lots of trying to be good, to counteract the naughtiness of the previous week.

Then I had a great time at Bhangra this week. 45 minutes of pure jumping around! I managed to get a friend to video us.. there’s me in the middle!

That! 45 minutes of that, with one short break in the middle lol!

And the results, you ask?

Well, I managed to maintain once again!

So that’s 23.5lb off with Slimming World, and 28.5lb off in total! That elusice 0.5lb is still haunting me! But I am happy!

Until next week Peeps…I still have more cake to eat this week!

Day 24 #Loveuary ❤ – Flowers

24 Feb 2017 22 Comments

by Ritu in #loveuary, Thoughts Opinions & Memories Tags: #loveuary, Blog, Blog Post, Blogger, Blogging, Chocolate Rose, Flowers, love

Valentine’s Day has become synonymous with flowers, or red roses more than anything.

In the lead up to that special day, ten days previous, the shops were full of flower displays. All shades of red and pink were bursting out of plastic buckets, begging to be bought!

Tesco’s display

Now I do love a good flower, a beautiful bouquet, as much as the rest, But I feel sad that exorbitant mounts of money are exchanged for these blooms that don’t last very long, or get chewed by Sonu Singh!

This year I said to Hubby Dearest that a card would suffice. We don’t need the wishy-washy extras! He didn’t listen… but I got a different bloom…

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A Chocolate Rose! Perfect! It wouldn’t last any longer than a real flower… I could scoff it in one sitting, but hey, flowers and chocolates combined into one, a great idea!