Lovely Ron with his Haiku Challenge prompt words this week:
Zen & Noise
Ommmmmmm!

Free your mind from noise
Feel a tranquil state of zen
Celebrate natureRitu 2018
19 Feb 2018 16 Comments
in #ronovansweeklyhaikuchallenge, Poems, Thoughts Opinions & Memories Tags: #MicroPoetry, #ronovansweeklyhaikuchallenge, Blog, Blog Post, Blogger, Blogging, Challenge, Haiku, Meditation, Nature, Zen & Noise
Lovely Ron with his Haiku Challenge prompt words this week:
Ommmmmmm!

Free your mind from noise
Feel a tranquil state of zen
Celebrate natureRitu 2018
19 Feb 2018 53 Comments
in Children, Family, Thoughts Opinions & Memories Tags: Back to school, Back to work, Blog, Blog Post, Blogger, Blogging, Family
It’s Monday… again…

It’s before 7am, and I am up… again… in the dark, faffing around and getting ready for work, preparing the kids things for school…
Did I really have a week off?
You may recall my post last week about what I had planned during our half term. If not you can check it out here!
There was not much R and R involved in the eventual plans for the week, what with kids having plenty planned, and driving up to my folks, then birthday things going on.
It all went to plan.
The car cost me an arm – rather than an arm and a leg – due to finding a great company that picked up the car, and dropped it back to us, with a service and MOT done in the middle.
The kid’s sleepover was great too – I just love seeing their cheeky faces when they have an opportunity to act all grown up, and they pushed the sleep time, but I was just glad they had fun,
The trip to Pops and Mum was short but sweet. We spent time together, popped out for lunch and shopping, and spent a wonderful evening watching old cine films again! They had found reels containing footage from when I was born, to my first steps, dancing (Lil Princess wanted to know why the 11 month old me was “twerking”! Try explaining the huge butt, thanks to a terry towelling nappy, and the baby bounce that all babies do, when they don’t have the ability to move on their feet too much, but want to enjoy the music!) in my own way, to my first trio to see family in Kenya. It was precious to see me with my maternal grandparents, and my Pops’s brother, all who aren’t with us any more.
I managed to film a couple of clips on my phone for you to share with me!
Here is me with my special style of crawling!
And here are those first steps!
I didn’t get much rest though, as I spent the first night chatting to my parents until late, and the second on the phone to my bestie until the wee hours. It was a much needed catch up, and many sage words of advice were spoken, making me feel a bit better about all sorts of things.
Back to reality (as in home) meant we were getting prepared for the Saturday night birthday treat for Lil Princess. It was a concert by The Little Mix Experience, a tribute band of her favourite group at the moment, Little Mix. It was a lovely evening, and I shall post in more detail about that tomorrow!
Yesterday was spent getting ready for today… Bleurgh!
I don’t want to go back to school!

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Actually, that isn’t entirely true. I am happy to be going back to a little routine. And I am not in as much of a funk as I was in January. Yesterday, I dyed my hair – Goodbye greys! – and beautified myself!
I’m feeling more positive, and more ME!
So here’s to a good new term, full of fun and craziness at home too, when the in laws go to India, and I have extra childcare to juggle, on top of usual mum/wife/ teacher duties… argh!
Happy Monday Peeps! Have a great week!!!
18 Feb 2018 28 Comments
in Spidey's Serene Sundays, Thoughts Opinions & Memories Tags: Blame, Blog, Blogger, Blogging, Mindfulness, Positivity, Quote, Serene, Spiderman, Spidey, Spidey's Serene Sunday, Weather That Storm

“It’s not me, it’s you.” – Anon
Something to think about here, thanks, Spidey.
Often, we find ourselves in a situation, where we blame ourselves for difficulties, and worries that surround us.
It can eat away at us, sometimes causing us to change who we are.
There are times it is easier to say ” Sorry, it’s not you, it’s me…” when that is the exact opposite of the truth.
If we are to sit back and think about the situation, it can become apparent that we are not the ones in the wrong – they are – they just can’t see it.
At times like these, it is important to hold on to yourself, keep your faith in yourself, and keep it in your mind, that it’s not you, it’s them.
Don’t blame yourself for another person’s problem. Instead be there as a quiet support. In time they will realise their mistake, especially when they realise you are not bowing down to them.
Stay positive 🙂
Happy Sunday Peeps!
17 Feb 2018 29 Comments
in #SoCS, Poems, Thoughts Opinions & Memories Tags: #StreamofConsciousnessSaturday, Blog, Blog Post, Blogger, Blogging, His/Her, LGBTQ, Socs
Linda’s prompt for SoCS this week…
Your Friday prompt for Stream of Consciousness Saturday is “his/her(s).” Use one, use both, bonus points if you start your post with one and end with the other. Have fun!
His eyes tell a story no words can convey.
Of how life was when you were a certain way
The lies, the deceit, the hiding, the pain
Dreams full of sunshine, life filled with rain
The days filled with worry, what if they should discover
The fact that he had a handsome male lover
Those were the days when they had no rights
Heterosexual days, homosexual nights
By day a lawyer, staid Mr Smith
By night a woman, stunning Trixie Trix
He hid it well from family and wife
He hid it well, all through his life
And now he sits, an ageing old gent
Wondering where his whole life went
He looks at a photo of Trixie, in fur
And wishes he could go back to being her…
Catch ya later Peeps!

Happy Saturday Peeps!
16 Feb 2018 26 Comments
in #CarrotRanch, Fiction, Thoughts Opinions & Memories Tags: #CarrotRanch, Blog, Blog Post, Blogger, Blogging, Charli Mills, Flash Fiction, Ice
Charli’s prompt this week:

As she poured the scotch, Paula could hear the cracks as the warmth of the liquid began the melting of the ice cubes in the tumbler.
If only she could be like that drink, and her presence the liquid that slowly caused the ice around his heart to melt…
She didn’t know why he was so cold towards her, they’d barely spoken twice, since he started coming to the bar where she worked, but she was determined.
He was a good looking guy, and by all appearances, well off too.
And she was a girl who needed looking after…
https://carrotranch.com/2018/02/15/february-15-flash-fiction-challenge/